Chapter 62: Memories of the Past +3
In fact, no.
After Ji Zhonglin said this, he slept in a separate room with Jiang Hua from then on.
In his heart, he still minded that Jiang Hua calculated him lightly.
Jiang Huaqing didn't care much about this, she happily prepared maternal and child products by herself, and only asked the man to accompany her every time she had a prenatal checkup.
Do you think it's because she thinks it's pitiful for a pregnant woman to go to the hospital for a prenatal checkup alone?
No, it's not.
After a woman has a child, her husband is dispensable for her.
Although this statement is exaggerated and absolute, it is not unfounded.
A woman is such a strange creature, even if she loves her husband very much, but after having a child, most of the love will be transferred to the child!
Now Jiang Huaqing is in such a state, she transferred her love for Ji Zhonglin to the fetus in her womb little by little.
Because she loves her children, Jiang Huaqing hopes that the children can also get their father's love and get the care and attention from their fathers, which is why she asked Ji Zhonglin to accompany her for prenatal checkups.
Not for yourself, but for your children.
After all, it is unfair to conceive a life.
From the beginning of pregnancy, women have suspended menstruation, ushering in vomiting, nausea, loss of appetite, poor physical fitness, and even some fetal protection injections, which can be described as torture.
I have survived the first trimester in the second trimester, but I have to start some major deformity examinations, and I don't know how many tubes of blood to draw and how many times to do Tang screening. During this period, I was worried about fetal deformity, and I was extremely tormented and worried psychologically!
In the third trimester, I run to the hospital almost once a week, and I can't walk fast, slowly, and my seventy or eighty-year-old grandmother walks faster than her!
When I gave birth at term, my belly was touched, and I stepped out of the hospital bed to go to the toilet for the first time, and the distance between the hospital bed and the toilet was less than three meters, but it took more than ten minutes to walk through! The main thing is that when I just got out of the hospital bed, I would be involved in the wound, and the tears would fall from the pain, and I had to stop and slow down!
However, the father of the child does not have to experience all of the above, so he does not experience it at all.
Most men will say: Isn't it just to conceive a child, how big is it? Which woman didn't come over like this, why did you come to you, you are so delicate, you want to be warm and caring, why don't you go to heaven?
Because it is too easy to be the father of a child, produce a seed, and by the way, contribute some money, and when the time comes, you can have a little more baby in your hand.
It is only after holding a baby that a man can deeply feel that he is already a father and should shoulder the responsibility of a father.
And a woman, from the moment she is conceived in the womb, begins to shoulder the duties of a mother!
That's the difference!
Therefore, although Ji Zhonglin is busy with work, Jiang Huaqing also wants him to pay attention to the process of pregnancy for ten months, so that he can feel the existence of the child in advance, and let him deeply realize that he is already a father!
Although Jiang Huaqing's face was pale and weak, when he was pushed out of the delivery room, Ji Zhonglin was so moved that he almost cried.
"Thank you for your hard work, the child is very cute." Ji Zhonglin held her weak hand and said, there was finally obvious tenderness and distress in his eyes.
However, this does not affect Ji Zhonglin's request for divorce from her in the future!
Like a bloody plot, Ji Zhonglin was invited to another city to attend a business banquet.
At the banquet, he stumbled upon a glimpse of a familiar figure!
At that time, he was stunned in place, unable to react for a long time.
Isn't that the Ah Ling he can't forget?
It turns out that here she is!
After reacting, Ji Zhonglin had only one thought in his heart, that is, he must not let her run away again!
Since fate made them meet again, then he didn't want to lose her again!
didn't wait for the banquet to end, while no one was paying attention, Ji Zhonglin couldn't help but follow her, and stepped forward to call her, "Ah Ling!" ”
"Sir, you have the wrong person!"
The woman looked flustered, did not dare to raise her head to look at him, and seemed to want to escape.
Ji Zhonglin hurriedly grabbed her and didn't let her go, his voice was sad: "How could I admit my mistake, you are my favorite A Ling!" Do you know that in the past two years without you, I think you have been so hard! ”
Ah Ling didn't hide anymore, hooked the corners of her lips and sneered: "Yes, you are so bitter, so bitter that you and her child are already one year old!" ”
Ji Zhonglin saw the painful look in her eyes, and immediately said with great self-reproach and guilt: "Ah Ling, you know everything?" ”
"Yes! We used to love each other so much, even if I left the Imperial City, I still couldn't let go of you in my heart, and I was watching your news almost every day! I know that since I have chosen to quit, I should bless you, but, I, I ......"
Ah Ling said, tears fell out of her anger, and finally her voice was almost choked: "But when I know that you have children, I still can't help it, sad, sad......"
Her tears made Ji Zhonglin extremely flustered: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry!" It's all my fault! Ah Ling, I thought I would never see you again in this life! ”
"You don't know, when you left the Imperial City and I couldn't find you no matter how much I searched, how sad, how desperate, and how tormented I was! Even though I had a baby with her, I didn't love her! From beginning to end, the only person I love is you, and it has always been just you, Ah Ling! ”
Maybe the judges will say: Hey, isn't this a proper scumbag quote?
Ah, in fact, whether you are a scumbag or not, it still depends on the person and position.
From Jiang Huaqing's standpoint, this must be very scummy, but from Ah Ling's standpoint, after listening to these words, she was moved in her heart.
Perhaps, love is really easy to blind people and make people lose their minds!
Ah Ling didn't think about it at all: he had children with other women, and he was embarrassed to say that he only loved me?
What she thought in her heart was: He has already married and had children with others, and he still loves me alone, how can I have his only true love?
So the two of them were together again.
At first, it was done secretly, after all, the children in the family are still so young.
When he went home to face his wife and children, Ji Zhonglin felt more or less guilty in his heart.
Especially seeing that Jiang Huaqing stayed up all night alone to take care of the child so hard, knowing that since she gave birth for more than a year, he has never been able to mention divorce for the sake of the child who has not slept well at night.
"The older my son gets, the more naughty and active he becomes, why don't you hand it over to the nanny? It's going to be tiring if you're alone. ”
Maybe because of guilt in his heart, Ji Zhonglin rarely took the initiative to care about people.
Jiang Hua hugged the child lightly and smiled on her face: "Nanny belt, how can I bring it myself?" Children need their mother, not a nanny or anyone else. ”
I don't know whether it was intentional or unintentional, Jiang Huaqing especially accentuated her tone on the words "mother".
Ji Zhonglin felt that even the whole sentence she said was extremely intriguing, as if she had discovered something.