Chapter 591: The Family of Origin
For example, the influence of a wealthy and complete family on a child is that the child will feel that he is more demanding of himself, and he will not be so strict with others, because he will feel that he is a little better in order to be respected by others, and the fullness of family affection can give the child a sense of security, and it can also give him a house vane in his own emotional world.
Now the performance of these people shows that their original family is not ideal, and it can even be said that it is very disappointing, they have experienced this, and they feel that everyone in the world should go through these to be complete, but they forget that they have suffered from the past are not at all suitable for the current people, when they were very cool, the times have begun to change, they are all people who have not seen much of the world, and they will inevitably be entangled in these things at will, All they want is to be obedient and obedient, at their mercy, to vent the pain of their youth, only in this way can their psychology be balanced.
The original family is really important, in fact, Wang is always a single-parent family, his family is not satisfactory at all, his parents divorced after he was very young, because everyone is highly educated, so their thinking is different from others, they think like this, since they can't get by, it's better to separate, so as not to torture each other, at that time this kind of thinking was indeed more avant-garde, because that era was more feudal than Mrs. Wang's era, It's already great to be able to have these ideas, so of course they left behind, leaving behind a young child, Mr. Wang grew up with his father from a small matter, as well as his grandfather and grandmother, men always have to be careless, and his father was not at home since he was a child, Mr. Wang couldn't accept it at first, and even every time they left the house, Mr. Wang would hide in the toilet and cry secretly, he never let people see him like this, very strange, obviously still a child, But unconsciously he was so sensible, knew how to suppress his emotions, and didn't let people notice that he was still such a young child at the time.
Mr. Wang grew up with his father, to put it bluntly, he grew up with his grandfather and grandmother, the old man rushed a small activity at home and then took care of the little boy, the little boy was very obedient at first, and his grades were very good, but gradually changed.
Maybe it's because of family reasons, Mr. Wang was particularly inferior when he reached junior high school, although he was not very short of money, but because of family reasons, he became inferior and sensitive, these are not felt by his grandfather and grandmother, and his father didn't feel it, they are all busy with their own things, there is no other expectation, just hope that Mr. Wang can grow up healthily, he once reached a very autistic time, he met a group of people in junior high school, but because of his introversion Lin Lin eventually began to be excluded, But fortunately, his temper is not so cowardly and incompetent, and every time he really provokes him, he will show his fists.
I have fought with people and quarreled with people, and he was very depressed during his junior high school years.
He wanted to tell his family, but he didn't know what to say, his self-esteem was already very strong, so strong that he wanted to save face in front of his family, or he was more rebellious at that time, and he didn't know how to protect himself, so he pretended to be very strong, his grandparents didn't know how to match clothes, and every time he wore them was particularly ugly, so he was ridiculed, and after two years, this situation still did not alleviate and finally because of a misunderstanding, Mr. Wang completely collapsed, and wanted to end this life, he began to look for a way to get rid of it, In the end, he chose to commit suicide.
Speaking of this kind of thing may be a little scary, but for a teenager, since he has been forced to commit suicide, he should be really desperate, he swallowed a lot of sleeping pills, specifically drugs with sleeping effects, because sleeping pills were discontinued a long time ago, only prescription drugs are available, fortunately there are no sleeping pills to eat, otherwise Mr. Wang would have been out of this world a long time ago.
In the end, he was found and sent to the hospital in time, and there was still nothing that could make him make up his mind that he had been depressed in such a life.
There are also friends around him, perhaps because his self-esteem is too strong, he is not satisfied with many things, but there is no way, and the repeated life makes people feel bored.
In order to ignore such a thing, he chose to bring all this in the form of self-deprecation, he would always say these things lightly, and he would also say, in fact, I think it would be better without my mother, at least free.
But there was a voice in his heart that said, you're not like that, you just want to make yourself look less pathetic.
In fact, Mr. Wang didn't know what these things meant to him before, these things may be very rare in a person's life, but sometimes people feel that with these experiences, people may understand the true meaning of life, but in Mr. Wang's view, these are just crazy temptations when he was young, he wanted to try how much courage he had, and wanted to touch the stone of reality with his sensitive and fragile heart, and finally he still admitted defeat, and later, When I grew up and met some good friends, I gradually changed.
Sometimes when I think of these things, I still smile indifferently, I don't understand why I was so extreme at that time, it was indeed extreme, once a word made him feel that it was aimed at himself, his reaction was very intense, no matter how strong the other party was, he was not afraid, he just knew how to maintain his dignity, how hard he spoke with his fists at that time, how powerful it looked, and now he doesn't regret it, but looking at these people's thoughts, he took it for granted that he thought of his own experience, Fortunately, he met the woman he loved most in his life, and this woman gave him warmth and made him understand that he didn't need to be so extreme to be loved.
Mr. Wang looked at Mrs. Wang affectionately, Mrs. Wang was still crying angrily, and suddenly saw her husband's eyes, her expression paused, I don't know why this is the same as why the man suddenly looked at her like this, she is not good to ask, after all, the current situation is that they are still reasoning with these stubborn old people, even if they don't listen, he still has to let them understand that their thoughts are wrong, she wants them to be better to Granny Li, friends are good, her heart can be more comfortable.
"I don't want to reason with you stubborn people, you better think carefully about what we say, if something really goes wrong with her, then your family will be a chicken."
Mrs. Wang wiped away her tears and said.