Chapter 184: How Can This Thing Be Easy!
"Girls who say this kind of thing to reject others are too young."
On the side, Ye Liushu snorted and sneered: "Too many people don't know the right way now, when you say, 'You are a good person', maybe you will think that you are complimenting him, or you are just joking, after all, this is abused to the point that it is not so much a rejection as a joke, so the effect of rejection has been greatly weakened, and the funny elements have increased." ”
"And every time I say to someone, 'You're a good person,' the answer is not so much gentle, but actually cruel in nature."
Ye Liushu said again: "Just saying, 'You are a good person', will not make others realize the problem at all, but thinks that you are too gentle, and he still has hope, so he will increase his efforts to chase you, if you really want to reject a person, just say the other party's shortcomings, and what you don't like about him is better!" ”
"That's why you're making enemies everywhere?" Xia Linxi raised her forehead and sighed, she didn't forget how much hatred Ye Liushu had attracted every time she was confessed and criticized the other party mercilessly.
"They will be hostile to me, it's because their realm is too low!"
Ye Liushu snorted coldly: "I'm just telling the truth, instead of letting them keep indulging in the illusion of 'I'm actually not bad, maybe there is a chance', and being rejected by one girl after another in such a daze, it is better to tell them directly, what is wrong with them, even if they are in pain for a while, people who are really self-motivated will correct and become better people, and the probability of meeting the right person will become higher." ”
"I see."
Mo Nian showed a clear look: "Miss Ye, you are very gentle with those confessors." ”
"yes!" Ye Liushu was praised and showed a smug expression.
"Niannian, don't learn from her!"
Xia Linxi was taken aback, and hurriedly said: "Although what she said is right, this is all based on the premise that she has the strength and conditions not to be retaliated against by those resentful confessors, you have to know that not everyone can recognize their mistakes after being criticized and strive to correct them, many people will eventually push the problem on the person who points out their own shortcomings, more or less will have a revenge mentality, and some people will directly take action......"
"In short, if you reject the other party's words with spicy language, there is a small chance that you will be retaliated." Xia Linxi said, "So, it's better for you to follow your previous way." ”
"Yes......" Mo Nian thought thoughtfully.
"However, you can also choose a more tactful way to tell the other party about his shortcomings, right?"
At this time, Lin Qinghuai spoke: "After all, it is a person who likes you, and he is gentle with you, and he will not be too repulsive to your words, if you choose a gentler way and say these words, it probably won't happen Assistant Xia, what you are worried about." ”
"It would be nice if she could do it......" Xia Linxi smiled bitterly when she heard this, Mo Nian had no feelings, where would she be "tactful" and "gentle"?
What's more, even if they have feelings, most of them are not as emotionally intelligent as Lin Qinghuai and can handle all the hidden contradictions.
So, the topic is back to square one - how to reject someone is the right one.
However, because the situation is different, there is no right answer.
"Okay, the topic is off track."
Seeing Xia Linxi's distressed look, Lin Qinghuai smiled and changed the topic, "Niannian, we are still being punished." ”
Mo Nian reacted: "So the question is ......?" ”
"Since there are no answers to the topic of young people, let's talk about the questions that we older people like."
Lin Qinghuai smiled and said, "I see that you are very calm, when I see you, no matter what happens, I am smiling, is there any secret?" Listen, some of us here have to learn from you. ”
While speaking, Lin Qinghuai glanced at Ye Liushu on the other side.
Ye Liushu snorted, pretending to be dissatisfied, but her gaze still drifted in the direction of Mo Nian.
"It's simple."
Mo Nian said directly: "Practice smiling in the mirror for an hour every day, and after a few years, no matter what happens, you can keep smiling." ”
That's what she did.
"Hey......"
Xia Linxi sighed lightly, raised his forehead and bowed his head.
It's over.
It's good to die or not, but to ask this kind of question......
“…… Well? Lin Qinghuai smiled confusedly when he heard Mo Nian's answer, "That's the case...... Is it?"
"That's impossible."
At this time, Ye Liushu questioned, "I am an actor, and I can control my emotions and expressions very well." ”
She looks like this in private, but she is too lazy to disguise.
"But when you encounter something, you still change your face, which is subconscious, and you can't change it through practice, right?" Ye Liushu said.
"Really?" Mo Nian took it for granted: "In this case, as long as there are no mood swings, right?" ”
"So it's impossible for ordinary people to do this kind of thing, right?" Ye Liushu felt that Mo Nian was a little strange, why should this kind of thing be taken for granted?
Mo Nian saw that everyone else was looking at her, and Xia Linxi also raised her head and glanced at her, and she knew that she had made a mistake.
"Then I don't know."
Mo Nian began to mumble, "I did exactly that......"
"Everyone's good at something is probably different."
At this time, Lin Qinghuai played a round and said with a smile: "However, Nian Nian is also very powerful, practicing in front of the mirror every day, but ...... How many years has it been? Have you been practicing smiling since you were a student? Why? ”
Hearing this, Mo Nian looked at Lin Qinghuai.
Lin Qinghuai still had a faint smile.
For some reason, Mo Nian felt such a smile, as if it was tentative.
Lin Qinghuai......
See what?
Mo Nian felt this way.
"It's normal."
Suddenly, a voice rang out.
Everyone was stunned, and looked at someone with some surprise-
The man sat in a wheelchair, with a cold face, and said in a reasonable tone: "It's not easy to 'laugh', right?" ”
"It's very convincing for you to say this......"
Ye Liushu, who had been arguing more than Mo Nian before, directly admitted defeat at this moment.
Who let the person who said this be Ji Shisheng?
It's not because she likes Ji Shisheng that she will admit defeat here.
Just because, based on her experience with Ji Shisheng in the past few years, Ji Shisheng is really not very good at smiling, even with important partners, she has a serious face, and at most shows a polite smile.
If Ji Shisheng said "It's not easy to laugh", no one else would be able to refute it.
"So, is that an interesting answer?" Mo Nian saw that Shi Sheng helped him solve the siege, so he took the opportunity to change the topic.
"Well...... this"
Not to mention Ye Liushu and them, even Xia Linxi, who was standing on Mo Nian's side, could hardly say the word "interesting".
"I think it's funny."
At this moment, another voice sounded that surprised everyone.
Mo Nian looked at the person who spoke out, and it was actually ...... Yu Zhilian?
Yu Zhihuan is helping her speak?