Chapter 1323: Women are men's divisions
Feasible!
He said it works!
Miss Weng raised her head excitedly, these two words not only shocked Miss Weng, but also shocked everyone in the entire academy except for the night shake light, they all forgot the etiquette and looked at the man who had stood up in disbelief, the man with outstanding demeanor and grace, he was as clear as the spring of a mountain stream, and as warm as the beautiful jade chiseled out of the spiritual mountain.
He even said that it is feasible for women to be teachers!
Facing an unbelievable gaze, the shallow light in Wen Tingzhan's eyes was like a wind blowing through the blue lake, and the water waves swept in circles: "I died without parents at the age of six, although I was still favored by my husband to study in a private school, but my husband gave me knowledge, but my wife taught me the truth of how to behave in the world, and it was also my wife who taught me that people live a life, what is feasible, what is necessary, and what is not feasible." It was my wife who taught me how to look at the people and things in this world with a broad heart. It was also my wife who urged me to practice martial arts every day, so that I could understand what perseverance is, and my conduct today comes entirely from my wife. I myself have been taught by women, and it seems to me that women can be men's husbands? ”
After Wen Tingzhan's words stopped, everyone's eyes looking at the night shaking light were beyond imagination of reverence. No matter how thick her face was, she was a little ashamed, she admitted that her style of acting must have had a lot of influence on Wen Tingzhan, but she really never taught him anything, everything was actually self-taught.
"But throughout the ages, how can there be a precedent for a woman to be a male teacher?" Weng Fuzi was not unmoved, but he was afraid that his daughter would go her own way and endure the slander of the world in the future, so he did not agree with his daughter's shocking ideas from the beginning.
"How could it not be?" Wen Tingzhan retorted with a chuckle, "Many people often say that women should have husbands and children, isn't it? Isn't this godson a teacher? I am also about to become a father, and my wife has been saying to me lately that parents are the first teachers of their children, and before they are enlightened, their virtues are imitated from their parents, but before the children are enlightened. How many men are busy with their families, livelihoods, and even the world. It is the mother who is really teaching them, and I think this is undeniable to all of you in this room. ”
Whether they are poor or rich, they rely most on their mothers because since they can remember, before going to school, it is their mothers who teach them how to behave in the world, and it is their mothers who correct their conduct.
"But that's the ...... between mother and son," someone retorted in a low voice.
Wen Tingzhan said with a smile: "Heaven and earth are all teachers that we should respect, my mother is my family, and my husband is my teacher, Confucius said; 'Mountain people walk, there must be my teacher', among the three of them, there must be a character that we need to learn, and women are not excluded here. ”
Ye Shaoguang tried his best to suppress the corners of his lips when he heard this, Confucius would not walk with women at all, and naturally he would not say it to exclude women, Wen Tingzhan was distorting again, and the students who listened to it had no way to refute.
"Today, you have asked me many questions, so I will ask you one more question at this moment." Wen Tingzhan continued, "How do you choose a teacher? ”
How to choose a teacher? Do you need to answer this? It is natural to choose people who can impart their knowledge as teachers, those who can correct their conduct as teachers, those who can make them grow and increase their knowledge as teachers, and those whose knowledge impresses them with their knowledge.
"I think you all have the answer in your hearts, and if this person can impress you in terms of learning, and enable you to absorb knowledge that you cannot learn from others, she happens to be a woman. And if you refuse to study for the sake of the so-called worldly vision, or for the sake of the poor self-esteem of men, then in your eyes, the question is not as good as a few gossips, and it is not as good as your self-esteem, if you are only open-minded, then you don't have to look for a man as a teacher, even a well-read gentleman, you can't open your narrow mind, you haven't even started to learn, you have been bound by yourself. ”
Wen Tingzhan's words were gentle, his voice was uniquely clear and moist, listening to his voice, there was a kind of inner fatigue and comfort washed by the mountain spring, but every word of his was knocked on the hearts of everyone here. They couldn't find half a word to refute, they asked themselves that they were also full of poetry and books, but why did they meet Wen Tingzhan, but it was as if they had become frogs at the bottom of the well with empty eyes.
"There is no high or low, neither rich nor poor, neither high nor low, neither man nor woman. Whoever has virtue that I do not have can be my teacher. ”
Wen Tingzhan's summary sentence made everyone feel enlightened, in fact, they understood that they were just unwilling to accept that women who were born weaker than men were more educated than them to the point where they could be their teachers. It's like a rich man who can't accept that a poor person is happier than him.
This is the narrow-mindedness in Wen Tingzhan's mouth.
"Master Hou, I'm waiting to be taught." At this time, not only the students of the academy, but even Song Shanchang and others all saluted Wen Tingzhan in unison and paid the highest respect.
Wen Tingzhan still smiled lightly, and his eyes fell on Miss Weng, who was excited and her eyes were red: "Miss Weng, women are born weaker than men, this is determined by God, and it cannot be changed." Therefore, the world is more demanding on women, and if you want to become a male scholar, you must go through countless twists and turns, which you can't imagine now. But you remember, anyone who does anything is actually a lot of tribulation, and perseverance is important. ”
As he spoke, Wen Tingzhan lowered his head and the smile in his eyes finally warmed: "My wife also taught me that any living creature in this world has the right to choose its own path, but whether it is the ups and downs of one's choice, you have to be responsible for yourself." You don't need to share the sweet fruit with others; Bad people have no right to blame others. ”
"The wax is dried with tears, and there is no regret in nine deaths." Miss Weng used Wen Tingzhan's words to express her determination.
"Master Weng, there is a daughter who is better than a man." Wen Tingzhan said to Weng Fuzi, "It's not early today, I promised my wife that I would accompany her to walk around the streets of Xining Mansion in the afternoon to see the people and customs of Xining Mansion." If you don't stay in the academy, Song Shanchang and the masters don't have to send each other. ”
After speaking, Wen Tingzhan took Ye Shaoguang's hand and led her to leave slowly in front of everyone, no one opened their mouths to stay, they had been shocked by Wen Tingzhan and had a feeling as if Wen Tingzhan said anything as if it was a holy order, so they all instinctively made way for Wen Tingzhan and his wife.
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