Volume 3 Chapter 53 What is Love?
Jin Ling's face was swollen red, his heart was pounding, and a stream of hot blood rushed to his head, dizzy, looking at Yu Haoran in front of him with a little shyness.
Yu Haoran is also his first love, looking at the girl in front of him, he is extremely cute, and he is also excited.
In fact, Yu Haoran just stayed in the heartbeat, and did not feel his heart beating faster, blushing and nervous.
It seems that when he reaches this rebellious age, he doesn't talk about a relationship, and he seems to be sorry for his youth, so he chose Jin Ling.
Ever since hearing her say loudly on the basketball court, "I love you!" ”
He knew that this was a bold girl, so he was so bold to ask for her first kiss.
No matter what happens for the rest of your life, at least the memories are good.
It is something to be proud of to make a beautiful girl remember herself for a lifetime.
Jin Ling looked at Yu Haoran looking straight at him like this, he was very embarrassed, and covered his face with his hands.
Yu Haoran gently took Jin Ling's hand away and said gently: "Be my girlfriend!" ”
Jin Ling's heart beat faster, and he nodded heavily.
This is something I have been looking forward to for a long time, and I don't know how it was realized so easily, and the wonderful feeling in my heart is self-evident.
The male god in front of him, who was called the school grass by the girls in the school, is now his own.
There was another burst of joy and pride in my heart, as if I was in a dream, and I couldn't believe that this was true.
Jin Ling bit his lip lightly, and the pain at the corner of his mouth told him that this was not a dream.
Yu Haoran took Jin Ling's hand and said, "You are so beautiful!" ”
Jin Lingmei's eyes were shy, her lips smiled, and she said, "You are so handsome!" ”
The two walked hand in hand by the river.
Under the facilitation of Feng Lili, the relationship between Yu Maolin and Mo Lan gradually warmed up, and the two walked side by side in the grove by the river, and the picture was also very beautiful.
The rest of the people sat on the shore and quietly left after realizing that their task was complete.
Lin Mengxue returned home and lay on the counter with a pensive look.
What is Love?
Is it a flower, a thing, a world, a person, a love, a lovesickness?
Is it that the sea was once difficult to water, except that Wushan is not a cloud?
It's a delicate dice and red beans, do you know that you are lovesick?
Or do you want to have one heart and never be separated?
These verses are written about someone like herself or something like that, but she feels that this is not love, and that love is not unrequited love, but mutual.
But for this question, Lin Mengxue thinks that there are a hundred Hamlets for a hundred people, there is no standard answer, and it is good to be able to convince herself to accept a point of view.
Lin Mengxue thinks that love should be without colorful phoenix wings, and the heart is clear; It should be married as husband and wife, and there is no doubt about love; It should be the hand of the son, and grow old with the son; It should be ten years of life and death, without thinking, and unforgettable.
This kind of love can only be encountered once in a lifetime, and most people can't meet it.
Most people always meet the right person at the wrong time and always miss; It is always tragic to meet the wrong person at the right time; If you can meet the right person at the right time, it should be love!
That kind of love in the depths of the soul must be the most beautiful thing in the world, but I will not encounter it again in this life.
Jin Ling and Yu Haoran are not love in Lin Mengxue's eyes, and at present, it seems that they are just Guan Guan Ju Dove, in Hezhizhou, my fair lady, and a gentleman.
At most, I like it.
Modern medical research has shown that love is related to these substances: phenylethylamine (PEA), dopamine, endorphins, norepinephrine (NA), and posterior pituitary hormones.
Let's give you a science popularization!
Whether it's love at first sight or long-term love, as long as enough PEA is generated in the mind, then love will also be generated, as the saying goes, the feeling of "calling" is the masterpiece of PEA.
In fact, PEA is a neurostimulant that can make people feel a feeling of extreme excitement, making people feel more energetic, confident and courageous.
Due to the effect of PEA, a person's breathing and heartbeat will be accelerated, the heartbeat will be accelerated, the palms of the hands will be sweaty, the face will be red, especially whether the pupils will be dilated to show the best standard for judging true love or perfunctory.
People in love like to swear by the sea and the mountains, and are willing to go to the moon for their lover for nine days and catch turtles in the five oceans.
That's just the effect of these substances.
The side effects of PEA are unprecedented self-confidence, prejudice and attachment, and loss of the ability to think objectively.
Firmly believe that your choice is correct, and only see what you like, just as the so-called lover's eyes are out of the West.
Another important love substance is dopamine, which produces a feeling of joy and contentment.
It is believed that the sense of security and satisfaction felt when hugging is inseparable from this hormone.
The sensation of a racing heart is norepinephrine at work. It can make people in love feel heartbeat.
When you are overwhelmed by these hormones, hormones are secreted in large quantities, and then ......
In general, the peak concentration of PEA can last for about 6 months to 4 years, with an average of less than 30 months (2.5 years).
After loving vigorously, another love substance, endorphins, is needed to fill the passion, making people feel a sense of comfort, warmth, intimacy, and calmness.
Endorphins are known as the marital hormone.
Many people with endorphins deficiency will have a flower heart.
Love needs passion, and when the passion fades, love needs to become rational, a kind of social responsibility, a kind of dedication......
Let love sublimate into family affection, the greatest thing in the world is actually family affection, become relatives with each other, let love act as a seasoning, then the happy life of the two will grow old.
Most people like a person, starting with dopamine, trapped in PEA, and finally endorphins; Loving someone begins with appearance, falls into talent, and finally character.
It seems that everything can be explained by science, but Lin Mengxue still has reservations.
If everything is explained by such hormones, humans are no different from animals, because animals also secrete these hormones. It's not that they don't have love, but they belong to very rare phenomena, such as penguins.
"What are you thinking about pulling? Brat! After lunch you just sit there motionless! Isn't it stimulated to play? Tang Xi looked at Lin Mengxue on the side for a long time, and suddenly asked.
Lin Mengxue looked at Tang Xi as if she had just woken up from a dream, and murmured, "How can I be stimulated by anything!" ”
Tang Xi frowned, and said, "It doesn't seem to be very happy!" ”
Lin Mengxue looked the woman up and down, dressed like dust, and asked, "You wear so little, do you have no opinion on your man?" ”
Tang Xi showed a confident smile on his face: "If he dares to give me an opinion, I will destroy him!" ”
Lin Mengxue thought to herself that the men in the new era in Chongqing are all good men, there are too many rake ears, and there are too many new three filial pieties.
She shook her head and asked, "Do you love him?" ”
Tang Xi did not shy away from saying: "Love is worth a few dollars!" If someone gives me 5 million, I'll leave with him immediately! ”
Lin Mengxue likes her straightforwardness, at least she won't be double-faced, she likes to be hacked to death in front of her, and she doesn't like to be poisoned inexplicably.
If your friends are bad behind your back, most of them will break off their friendship with her.
Lin Mengxue chuckled lightly and said, "You are too realistic!" Aren't you afraid that your man will look for a short time?! ”
Tang Xi said bluntly: "If you love to die, you will die!" ”
At this time, his boyfriend came over from next door, really said Cao Cao Cao arrived, his handsome face always showed a smile, and said softly: "What are you talking about?" So happy! ”
Tang Xi was shocked and said nervously: "No...... What the! ”
This man's name is Shi Lei, and he is relatively cowardly by nature, so he let Tang Xi bully.
Love is so unequal, you love too much, she loves too little, and she doesn't know how to cherish it, it is destined to be a tragedy.
Seeing the two of them flirting with each other, Lin Mengxue said: "Ah, you guys are here and I are nong, spicy eyes, please pay attention, there are minors here, okay?" ”
Hearing this, Tang Xi was a little embarrassed to refuse Shi Lei and said, "Go, go, go, I'm still at work!" ”
They looked at each other and smiled, and at this time, the little fat girl next door came over, and when she saw Shi Lei's eyes shining, she wrote on her face: I like you!
Lin Mengxue really hates herself for looking at other people's things, that is to look at one and understand, and looking at one's own affairs is always confused!
This is probably the reason why the bystanders are clear and the authorities are confused.
At this time, the phone rang, and Lin Mengxue picked up the phone: "Hey, hello!" ”
"Dream snow? Guess who I am!? Xiyan's voice came from the other end of the phone.
Lin Mengxue joked: "Xiyan, I don't guess I know, don't you call me a god operator!?" Forgot! ”
Xi Yan snorted and said, "Awesome, awesome...... Why don't you go and set up a card and collect money on the street! ”
Lin Mengxue said with a smile: "Poisonous tongue, if you have something to say, I don't know how to answer the phone and ask for money!?" ”
Xiyan was a little bored alone, and wanted to ask Lin Mengxue to go out to play in the afternoon, and said, "Wealth fans, I'll see you in Xiaoqiao later." ”
After lunch, Lin Jiufu had the habit of taking a nap, and at this time he was lying on the bed and snoring thunderously.
Lin Mengxue refused: "No, my dad is taking a nap, I have to watch the store!" ”
Xiyan sighed and said helplessly: "Then I'll come to the store to find you, and when your father wakes up, we'll go play again." ”
"Okay!"
hung up the phone, and after a while, Xiyan came over. also brought popsicles for Lin Mengxue to eat.
There was no one in the store at noon, and Tang Xi fell asleep on the counter when he was sleepy.
Lin Mengxue saw Xiyan coming over alone and asked, "Xiyan, why didn't you come over with Ziqiong?" ”
The corners of Xiyan's mouth rose, beautiful and moving, and said, "She is chatting with Zhou Gong like your father!" ”
Lin Mengxue naturally understood Zeng Ziqiong, laughed, and said, "She sleeps a lot, I know!" It's time to catch up on sleep on the weekends, too! ”
In fact, she is the same, I don't know when the princess's illness is getting worse and worse, she doesn't get up at 11 o'clock in class, doesn't eat breakfast, doesn't cook, doesn't wash dishes, and her father has to ask her to get up again and again, living like a pig, and being so pretentious, she begins to look down on herself.