"You can't give her enough love pursuits, you can't give her the spiritual comfort she wants, even if she is barely enough materially, but day after day at home, it's normal for her to be disappointed and file for divorce. What's more, even if she leaves you, her material life abroad will not be bad, right? ”

So you see, it's not that you can't live without you, not to mention the freedom and more spiritual satisfaction she seeks, why does she have to stay by your side all her life?

Lu Zhenjun opened his mouth: "But aren't all husbands and wives like this now?" What's more, we also have two children. "The door is right, marry when you think it is suitable, support each other and help each other, how can there be so much love and love? What's more, if you have children, divorce? What about the kids?

"Did you also use such reasons to persuade Cheng Xue?" Jiang Ruonan shook his head, not to mention that at this time, it is the future generation, how many women are unhappy in marriage, and they have to grit their teeth for the sake of their children. But, "you forget, she grew up abroad, and she may have a very different perspective on these things than you do." ”

"She has a thoughtful, talented and independent personality, she can live well on her own, instead of just clinging to you like a silk flower, staying at home every day to be a good wife and mother. Especially when she can't get the response she wants from you, not only a wife lover, but also a soul mate, when she can't even achieve this satisfaction, of course she will decisively withdraw and quit. As an unmarried, Jiang Ruonan can actually understand Cheng Xue's thoughts very well.

In fact, Lu Zhenjun is quite good, after all, in this era, the male protagonist is outside the female protagonist, and the idea of machismo is prevalent, and the man earns money to support the family and the woman is virtuous and manages the family.

When it came to the era in which she lived, it was the demons and monsters that were rampant. Men are not like men, not to mention rubbing powder and eyebrows, in family and marriage relationships, many men's hope for women is to work hard outside to earn money, and to take care of internal affairs at home. Many men open their mouths and say, "Isn't it said that men and women are equal?" That woman also has to work equally to earn money to support her family! ”

Even so, in marriage, many men often feel that they are superior in the family and feel that women take advantage of them because women do not earn as much money as men...... Thinking back to the experience of being forced to go on a blind date a few times, Jiang Ruonan was disgusted, what is the difference between a man and a woman in marriage compared to employment and earning money? If you want to compare it like this, then why not compare it to pregnancy and having a baby?

And when you give birth to a child, a woman is kidnapped in the "sacred" profession of motherhood, because you are a mother, so you should pay, because you are a mother, you should back down, because you are a mother, even if life can't go on, you have to endure it for the sake of the child! Otherwise, you don't deserve to be a mother!

Why? Who isn't a baby anymore? Isn't it herself before anyone else becomes someone else? A mother, she is first and foremost a woman, is herself! Is the value of a woman just to be a selfless and selfless mother? Why should we waste our ideals and will for the sake of our children?

This is also the reason why Wang Lan is reluctant to have children and raise children. Many female celibates around her, when they reach a certain age, will go abroad to buy sperm or find surrogacy or adopt children, but Wang Lan has no idea at all.

She felt that she had no consciousness of being a mother at all. She just wants to be herself and do what she feels she should do.

Even if she has become a stepmother now, in her heart, it is more of a profession like a nanny. She will work hard and fulfill her responsibilities and obligations, as for what the outside world thinks a mother should do, I'm sorry, she doesn't understand!

If Lu Zhenjun also wants to use those rules and regulations to restrain her, hmph, she will let him know what it means to draw water in a bamboo basket!

Lu Zhenjun stared at her for a long time, with a strange expression: "What you said to her is almost the same." "He always felt that if he didn't stop talking about it, something terrible would happen.

Therefore, he resolutely continued to talk about Cheng Xue, and also avoided Jiang Ruonan's destruction of his three views.

"I told Cheng Xue that divorce was impossible. I thought it was because I was out on a lot of tasks, and I started to reflect on myself, and then I ran home as soon as I finished training, hoping to get better. However, Cheng Xue really did it, which makes me regret it. ”

"She became more and more obsessed with her hobbies, not only treating me as nothing, but also completely ignoring her two children. She refused to breastfeed her second child, except for three meals a day, she completely refused the closeness of her two children. ”

Cold violence against children? Jiang Ruonan frowned, and he understood why Dabao Erbao never mentioned his mother at all.

Lu Zhenjun shook his head: "I was really busy during that time, but even then I survived." Watching Erbao grow up day by day, although she is still like that, the coldness between her eyebrows is gradually decreasing. I think that if I can continue like this, maybe one day I will be able to recover it. ”

So Lu Zhenjun took the baby or something, all of them were trained by Cheng Xue? She said that it is not easy to find such a man in this era, and her feelings are all forced out.

"It wasn't until the second birthday, I rushed back, she dressed up in a rare way that day, and cooked a table of meals, I thought she finally changed her mind." In two years, even if you cover a stone, it's time to cover it. Of course, Cheng Xue is not a stone yet, she will also take care of the child, but it is not so delicate and the child is not allowed to be close. For Lu Zhenjun, she didn't completely forbid him to get close or something.

"We had a happy meal, but in the evening, she told me she was leaving."

"Wait!" Jiang Ruonan calculated in his heart, "At that time, the eldest sister hasn't come yet, right?" "So it's not what it was as rumored to be?

"Yes, her heart for divorce has never changed. It's just that she finally knew that she couldn't get a divorce, so she decided to leave directly. Lu Zhenjun laughed, "Also, you are wrong, she doesn't want any response from me at all, she wants me to be her soul mate, for her, this marriage is just a retribution." ”

"Aha?" Jiang Ruonan felt that this reversal was a bit big, "You let me figure it out...... No, if she just wanted to repay the favor, she could have done this? ”

"Which step? Did you give birth to two sons for me? Or are her hobbies? Lu Zhenjun laughed at himself, "She doesn't like those at all, she just wants to be a good Mrs. Lu, so she forces herself to do it." The only thing she likes is probably the piano, but unfortunately none of us here can understand it. ”