Chapter 224: Cherish the Opportunity
In this era, it is said that raising children to prevent old age, in fact, typical Chinese parents raising children are simply worrying about their sons for a lifetime.
And it seems that there is a gene in the bones of the Chinese people to save money, some studies say that this is related to the small peasant economy of China since ancient times, but no matter what it is related to, at least in this era, most of the Chinese people still have to save money even if they have spare money in their hands. This is especially true if you have a son, how can you save money for your son to marry a daughter-in-law and start a family!
"Save money for them?" Lu Zhenjun shook his head, "Money is not saved, let alone saved." Besides, even if you save money for your children, you must at least ensure the current quality of life, right? ”
"If the quality of life is not guaranteed now, what can you do with more money? What's more, there are still so many years, who knows if the money will be as valuable as it is now? ”
In the end, Lu Zhenjun also looked at the children: "If you want to save money, you should also save it for your daughter, so that your daughter will not be bullied in the future, as for the son, he has raised him for more than ten or twenty years, he shouldn't repay us as parents, and let us save money for him, even if it is given to him, are they embarrassed to ask for it?" ”
"Dabao Sanbao, are you right?" Lu Zhenjun looked at his two sons with a "kind" face, "Do you want your parents to save money for you?" ”
"No!" Sanbao had the strongest desire to express himself, and spoke first, "In the future, I will take the university entrance examination and earn a lot of money for my parents, so I don't want my parents to save money!" ”
"Yes!" Although Dabao was a little upset by being snatched by the little pony spirit again, he still nodded very seriously and continued, "Mom and Dad, I will study hard, take the university entrance examination and find a good job in the future, so that my parents will have a good life in the future!" ”
The second sister also hurriedly said: "Dad, so am I." I go to school and study hard, I will listen to the teacher, and I will be admitted to university in the future so that my parents can enjoy it! ”
Because Grandma Li often whispered to several children in private, saying that it was not easy for parents to raise them, Dad worked hard, and Mom didn't stop all day before taking care of them, and they must have an interest in the future for Mom and Dad to enjoy happiness.
Especially Li Shuying feels sorry for Jiang Ruonan, although she knows that a few children are good, but after all, she is a stepson and stepdaughter, so it is not easy to instill Jiang Ruonan in the ears of several children at every opportunity, and she is a college student, and she is so good to them, and she works so hard every day...... Especially the second sister, she was not born to Lu Zhenjun originally, and she was even more grateful and close to this "stepmother" Jiang Ruonan who did not dislike them, and the little girl had a keen mind, and she could feel that Jiang Ruonan really loved her the most, so she hurriedly ran to Jiang Ruonan's side and said: "Mom, I will take care of you like you take care of me in the future!" ”
Jiang Ruonan smiled.
No one can say what will happen in the future, but she is also happy about the sincerity of the children at this moment.
She touched the head of her second sister, looked at a few children and said: "Okay, then I'll remember, you have to study hard every day, otherwise you won't be able to let me enjoy happiness with your father in the future, you know?" ”
It just so happens that the second sister doesn't want to go to school, so it's good to motivate her.
"Uh-huh, we will!" Several children nodded their heads as if they were chickens pecking rice.
These reactions were all within Jiang Ruonan's expectations. After all, the children live with her every day, can she not know what kind of people the children are?
But it was Lu Zhenjun's words that made her really frightened.
To tell the truth, every time she thinks Lu Zhenjun is an unusual good man, he always reveals other advantages to impress her.
Just that moment, taking into account the inflation, as well as the idea of having fun in time and letting the children work their own, at this time, it can be said to be very trendy.
After all, even if the future generations live well, there are still a large number of Chinese-style parents who dedicate their lives to their sons, they would rather be more difficult for themselves, but also save money for their sons to marry a daughter-in-law, that is, the son marries a daughter-in-law and becomes a family, but also for the children to continue to be cattle and horses, and it is okay to take care of children, and some old people are old and have to work to subsidize their children...... Raising children to prevent old age, I really don't know what kind of old is to prevent.
When many people praised this spirit of pity for the hearts of parents in the world, Jiang Ruonan felt terrible. Of course, many people ridiculed her for not getting married and not having children, so she naturally didn't understand this kind of parents who were willing to dedicate themselves to their children to death.
There were many thoughts in his head, but Jiang Ruonan just looked at Lu Zhenjun and raised his eyebrows lightly: "Your idea is very special!" ”
She really felt very lucky in her heart. In later generations, I was used to seeing countless strange men, and in this sixties, when I was short of food and clothing, I met a person who can be said to be highly compatible with my thoughts, which is really ...... I have to say that Jiang Ruonan has a trace of excitement in his heart. If you met such a man in your previous life, then even if you get married, you should be willing, right?
"Am I not right?" Lu Zhenjun shrugged his shoulders and noticed that Jiang Ruonan was distracted, not knowing what she was thinking, so he had to speak to draw her attention back.
In fact, he can say those words, firstly, it is true that he has studied in college and has insight, and secondly, I have to say that this is related to the fact that Lu Zhenjun has never been poor.
If you haven't been poor, you naturally don't know the bitterness of a penny stumping a hero, and if you don't understand how important money is, you naturally won't feel how necessary it is to save money.
He looked at a few babies, and then at Jiang Ruonan, with a little disagreement in his eyes: "The children always have to struggle by themselves, always thinking that we will save money for them, sit and eat empty, that is raising waste." ”
He knew that Jiang Ruonan loved several children, thinking that she was distressed about the children, and disagreed with him saying that he would not save money for the children.
"Besides, now that the social conditions are so good, and they can go to school safely and worry-free, and the state will also assign jobs after being admitted to university, with such good conditions, the children are not good at studying, they don't work hard, and they just want to wait for their parents to save money for them, so what's the use of raising such a son? If you don't want the children to shine on the lintel, you will have to support yourself in the future, right? ”
Seeing that Lu Zhenjun looked like he was about to preach, Jiang Ruonan hurriedly nodded: "Yes, yes, yes, yes, what you said is right!" I understand, I understand! "Your child, you can do whatever you want! Anyway, don't be bitter and say that she spends a lot of money.
Don't say anything else, just the green pepper oil, it's stupid enough to spend money to exchange for green pepper in the eyes of others, and you have to use so much hot oil to pour it, all of it is stuffed into a fragrant green pepper oil, in the eyes of others, it is not a condiment, it is a jar of money!
And Jiang Ruonan is a loser!
Lu Zhenjun saw that she was impatient to listen to this, so he said to a few children seriously: "Speaking of which, it's still you, you must cherish the opportunity now." When Dad was so young with you, there was no school at all, you must ...... "Balabala, it just shocked Jiang Ruonan, Lu Zhenjun's nagging, it really means a bit of a friend of women!" It's better than she can say!
From reminiscing about the hard work of studying in the past, to the good times after the founding of Xinhua China, it was casual and eloquent, which fascinated several children.
At the end, he sighed and sighed that it was not easy for his father, and patted his chest again and again and said that he would definitely cherish the opportunity, study hard, and live up to his parents' expectations.
Jiang Ruonan also knew that Lu Zhenjun rarely preached to the children like this, but male elders played an indispensable role in the growth of the children, and he could seize the opportunity to say this, and it was not a sincere teaching to Dabao and the second sister before entering school, Jiang Ruonan did not interrupt him.
It's just that Lu Zhenjun later said that he himself was not enough, and even gave an example of Jiang Ruonan's previous study career in the mountain village, and Jiang Ruonan's goosebumps rose when he heard it, and he had never seen Lu Zhenjun such a person who could blow before?
"Okay, okay, it's going to be dew, go into the house and wash and sleep!" I really couldn't listen to it anymore, Jiang Ruonan hurriedly urged.
The second sister has been told by Lu Zhenjun that her mother has to walk a long mountain road to school, and her feet are blistered, and she can only eat cold noodles and baba every day...... The little girl had already heard tears in her eyes, and ran over and hugged Jiang Ruonan: "Mom, I will definitely study hard!" ”
Mom loves to study so much, and Mom and Dad let them study for their good, only by studying hard, can she be admitted to university, and then get ahead and let Mom enjoy it!
She used to be so bad, how could she not go to school for the enjoyment of her mother's side?
The little girl blamed herself, and thought of the eldest sister's envy of her school again, and she was even more determined in her heart, she must cherish the opportunity now, study hard, and not let her mother down!