It's really cruel for adults to be at odds, but to force children to make choices.

Ahh

Jiang Ruonan couldn't bear the explosion, but he couldn't help but secretly ask Lu Zhenjun: "Isn't it good for us to be like this?" ”

"Huh?" Lu Zhenjun was puzzled.

Jiang Ruonan raised his cheeks and pondered: "It's the Wu family...... After all, they are all the ancestors of Caifeng and Xiaobao, and they are also related by blood, so let's cut off our relatives directly, isn't it too ......?"

"What do you think?" Lu Zhenjun rubbed her head rarely, it looked like he was comforting a depressed kitten, "Caifeng and Xiaobao are not children anymore, this is also for their good." ”

Jiang Ruonan's expression was dazed, she felt that she had made a choice, but why was she still so uneasy in her heart?

Probably because she is not strong enough, she is the most ordinary and shallow person, who will have selfish intentions in her heart, but she is afraid of not being responsible, and she is afraid of bearing the blame and resentment of the children when they grow up.

Presumably, the more emotions you invest, the more you are afraid of disappointment, not of disappointing yourself, but of disappointing others.

To put it bluntly, in his past and present lives, Jiang Ruonan has a bit of a pleasing personality.

"Maybe it's just what we think is good for them?" Jiang Ruonan was wilting, and even rubbed his head, which he always hated, Lu Zhenjun didn't raise his head and wave his hand to squeeze him away at this moment.

Lu Zhenjun looked at her like this, and sighed in his heart.

Every time he thinks she is a mature and strong woman, she will expose such a fragile and pitiful and helpless childishness.

He simply sat down, rubbed Jiang Ruonan's head, and seeing that she still didn't react, he simply picked her up, like a child, and let her upper body lean on his thigh.

"What are you doing?" Jiang Ruonan was startled and subconsciously looked at the door.

Lu Zhenjun smiled: "Don't worry, the door is closed." Besides, Mom and Dad have already gone to bed. ”

Jiang Ruonan breathed a sigh of relief, but he still couldn't help glaring at him: "Don't move your hands and feet!" He pouted again, "I'm still annoyed, talk well!" ”

"Yes, yes, yes." Lu Zhenjun had no choice but to take her coquettish appearance, seeing her lie down again, he reached out and gently rubbed her shoulders and neck, "But Ruonan, I also want to tell you, are you thinking too much?" ”

"What's wrong?" Jiang Ruonan noticed the caution in his tone, but he was a little furious, "Are you saying that I'm worrying too much and meddling?" ”

What? This is their Lu family's business, she shouldn't care about it? Don't worry about it?

Jiang Ruonan was already entangled in his heart, didn't Lu Zhenjun hit the muzzle of the gun this time?

He himself was a little crying and laughing: "No. ”

Jiang Ruonan stared at him tightly, that fried hair look was very cute, Lu Zhenjun subconsciously reached out to smooth the hair again: "Tell me about you now, I'm afraid that you will think too much if I say a word to you now." ”

Jiang Ruonan was stunned for a moment: "What did you say?" ”

She got up slowly, propped one hand on the bed, and reached out with one hand to grab Lu Zhenjun's chin, pinching it, with a threatening look in her eyes.

As a result, after a while, the momentum had not yet been put out, and the hand holding it was sore.

fell down all of a sudden, and lay back on Lu Zhenjun's lap.

Lu Zhenjun couldn't help laughing.

"Huh?" Looking at Shangjiang Ruonan's gaze, Lu Zhenjun's smile gradually solidified, and he had a strong desire to survive.

"Forehead ......"

Before he could come up with a topic, Jiang Ruonan himself laughed first: "Okay, okay, don't act like I'm a bully." ”

Even laughing doesn't make people laugh anymore.

Lu Zhenjun: Isn't that the case with "......"?

However, the baby is bitter, but the baby can't say.

"No, you're the big bully in our family......"

"Huh? It's true? Then you go back to laundry, cooking, and taking care of the kids! ”

Jokes aside, Lu Zhenjun pinched her nose: "Ruonan, but I really tell you well, are you too sensitive in your mind?" ”

He thought for a long time before he spoke, so he didn't pause in what he said: "How many years do you think we've been here, why do you still think about those messes at every turn?" Don't you still believe us? ”

"No, I'm obviously afraid that you won't believe me, after all, I'm just" Jiang Ruonan didn't know how to explain.

"Nonsense again." Lu Zhenjun's brows furrowed, and he did it in one go, "You are not an outsider, you are my daughter-in-law, the mother of the child, and a member of our family, there is nothing you shouldn't care." ”

"What else are you afraid that we won't believe you, isn't this that you don't believe us and don't believe me?" Lu Zhenjun deliberately made a sad expression, "I still haven't done enough to make you so uneasy......"

"It's not!" Jiang Ruonan shook his head, there are too many superb and wonderful men he has seen in later generations, like Lu Zhenjun, he is already an absolutely good man, everything he does is blameless, where will it make her uneasy?

However, does she want to say directly: I am more sensitive because of my temperament?

What is the difference between it and the kind of person who is most disgusted by her in later generations, who will stick a knife as soon as she opens her mouth and then say that I am upright?

How your temperament is, that's your own business, it's not that others should pay for your temperament, and there's nothing to show off.

Because no matter what kind of personality you have, if your words hurt others, that is your person's fault, and you should correct it yourself, rather than letting others suffer it and be complacent and self-righteous.

Thinking of this, Jiang Ruonan opened his mouth, but he didn't know what to say.

Lu Zhenjun saw that her face was tensed again, sighed in his heart, and spoke directly: "Ruonan, your mind is still a little more sensitive." I know that there will be some things in the future, you can just say it, don't worry about speculation. ”

Jiang Ruonan didn't speak, a person's character development is a long-term thing, and the character defects in her previous life have been corrected a lot so far, but it is not so easy to completely change.

Lu Zhenjun had no choice but to say again: "Just talk about this matter, you don't have to think too much about it at all." It's not your responsibility, and you don't have to worry about it all the time. ”

Jiang Ruonan still didn't say anything.

Lu Zhenjun thought about it and felt that it was necessary to make it clear: "Also, Ruonan, you take too good care of Caifeng, in fact, Caifeng is not as fragile as you think......"

Jiang Ruonan didn't hear the words very clearly when she said them later, because the performance of the people in Caifengkeng today came to her mind, which was indeed completely different from what she thought.

Caifeng is not a pitiful little white flower in the wind, but unconsciously, it has grown into an overlord flower.

Overlord flowers?

How can it be described with such a metaphor? How cute her little Caifeng is! Well-behaved, lively, and pretty ......

Jiang Ruonan came back to his senses, and Lu Zhenjun was still chattering: "The children have grown up." Even Xiaobao already understands right from wrong, they will have their own choices, even if we are parents, we don't need to think too much about their choices. Everyone will take on their own choices. ”

"Even if we are parents, we can't bear all the wind and rain for them, and we can't keep them under our wings forever."

"I know you feel sorry for Caifeng, but when the child grows up, it may not be a good thing for you to always treat her as a child." ……

Lu Zhenjun rarely said these words, or it should be said that he was completely free-range to the child, just listen to Jiang Ruonan.

Jiang Ruonan also knew for the first time that he could still talk about raising children so eloquently.