Chapter 347: Her Choice
The tone was full of emotion.
Jiang Ruonan's footsteps paused: "You haven't given up yet?" ”
"Dead hearts will never die down." Du Jiaojiao looked back with a smile, "I'm different from you, this matter, even if I know that it is difficult or even impossible, I will try my best, after all, if you really want to talk about it, it is impossible for you to be resurrected when you go back, but I am not." ”
"Of course, now I know what you think. I always thought that you must be very unhappy and disliked when you are in this position. But now I realize that that sentence is true, Zifei knows the joy of fish. ”
Du Jiaojiao said very seriously, her eyes looked at the ward, and the corners of her mouth hooked slightly: "If it's those children, it's really worth it." ”
After meeting these children, and getting along with them in real time, the thin description of several children in her mind has completely dissipated, and the image of the paper man was instantly replaced by the vivid little person in front of her.
Those thin stereotypes, how can they be as important as the living people in front of them?
Thinking of the few words she wrote about the description of their gloomy personalities, and then thinking of the feeling of wanton kneading just now, all of them were cute, she couldn't help but take a deep look at Jiang Ruonan: "You are very good, you teach them very well." ”
Hearing her praise a few dolls, Jiang Ruonan was also very happy, until he heard this, and hurriedly shook his head: "It's that they are already very good." ”
If it is really the kind of person who is born with a bad temperament, then Ren Jiang Ruonan will probably not be able to have such a well-behaved doll as he is today.
Fortunately, there are still relatively few congenital perverts and natural bad species in the world, and the development of most people's personalities is mainly influenced by the acquired environment, and even if it is the same environment, different people will have different influences, but in any case, the impact of the external environment on the individual is huge.
Du Jiaojiao didn't argue with her about this, just nodded: "If I were in your environment and met such a lovely child, I would probably be reluctant to let go of my hand and leave." ”
Although Du Jiaojiao is a celibate, unlike Jiang Ruonan, she has always liked children, and not wanting a partner and not wanting children are not the same thing.
What's more, she can see that Jiang Ruonan and Lu Zhenjun already have deep feelings, and it is estimated that it will be difficult to let Jiang Ruonan leave.
Thinking of this, she smiled again: "But I really didn't expect that you, a former celibate, can be so harmonious now integrated into marriage and family." ”
These words have a bit of an exploration of watching a good show, and Jiang Ruonan himself couldn't help laughing: "Yes, in the past, I couldn't have thought of it myself." ”
"If you've ever seen me, you'll be shocked by who I am now." Jiang Ruonan sighed, "Maybe I didn't have it before, but now I have it, so the pursuit of nature is different." ”
In the final analysis, the most fundamental reason why Wang Lan insisted on celibacy in his previous life was poverty? Because of poverty, even falling in love and getting married has become a luxury. Don't always say that when women talk about marriage, when they talk about bride price, when they talk about RV, they think that women are material, and in this regard, men are the same material. Even more so than women.
It's ridiculous to say, if a woman asks for the basic marriage security of an RV before marriage, the man will say that it is a woman's material at every turn, but if it is replaced by the man himself, who requires the woman to be highly educated, beautiful and have property, it is called the pursuit of the right person. Even many ridiculous women think so, especially in later generations, there are many women who are proud of bringing large dowries and not receiving a single bride price, and even have an inexplicable sense of superiority and contempt chain, believing that those women who ask for a bride price are material. In fact, in the final analysis, in later generations, there are a few bride prices that are not brought back to the young couple for their own use, whether it is asking for a bride price or an RV, to put it bluntly, it is a kind of guarantee for marriage.
Regardless of men and women, if they don't even have basic material security, what kind of marriage can they talk about? Poor couples mourn everything, even if the husband and wife can endure hardship, why should they have children?
This is Jiang Ruonan's opinion, so when she finally has money and becomes a sought-after "goods" in the blind date market, she looks down on those men who think they have some ability, so they require women to be good wives and mothers with high education and high income.
Whatever you do, you must make yourself feel happy and happy, if you get married just to get married according to the rules that everyone does, if marriage becomes a burden, why not get married than let your quality of life decrease?
But what about Jiang Ruonan now?
At the beginning, she was also poor, but in this era, there is no way to make money, so she can only be trapped in this environment.
And this environment that can't make money has changed her bit by bit, she no longer makes money, and later, the Meng family gave her a lot of money, which did give her confidence.
Full of warm thoughts***, the ancients were honest and did not deceive me.
Jiang Ruonan feels that she now has money in her hands, her life is stable and peaceful, and her mentality has gradually changed, she likes this slow-paced life, she likes the atmosphere of family vitality, unity and harmony, and she likes the people here, whether it is Lu Zhenjun or a few children.
In her previous life, Wang Lan pretended to be strong on the surface, as if she could live well alone, and she fell out with her parents and didn't have many friends, let alone any intimate lovers. But in fact, she is absolutely thirsty for affection in her heart, especially family affection and love.
Even if she completely denied her former self, even if it was really cold to her relatives in her previous life, Jiang Ruonan wanted to say that if she could choose, she would rather be Jiang Ruonan than Wang Lan.
At this time, she was finally willing to admit it, even if she could go back to the real world, she would not want to go back again.
Thinking about this, the sense of panic suddenly disappeared, even if it is a world, when she is really sad, she will want to not wake up in a sweet dream, not to mention that this is a living reality for her now! What a beautiful reality!
She is Jiang Ruonan, no longer Wang Lan, it's good. From now on, she may want to throw away Wang Lan's shadow, take it seriously, live again, and live a truly happy life.
"Thank you." She smiled, smiled at Du Jiaojiao, and smiled at the next road of life.
Du Jiaojiao looked at her, keenly feeling that something was different in her, but she couldn't tell what it was, stared at her for a long time and shook her head: "I'll tell you this, it's good if you don't get angry and don't blame me." I can't say thank you or not. ”
She walked down the stairs and turned back sharply: "By the way, what I said still counts, if you figure it out one day, you can still come to me, I caused all this, if it is to escape the world, the promise to take you abroad has always been there." Then you can thank me again. ”
The smile on Jiang Ruonan's face froze suddenly.
Du Jiaojiao also seemed to realize that there was something wrong with these words, and hurriedly spoke again: "Of course, I hope there will not be that day." Actually, you're doing well, and I'm pretty happy. ”
As she spoke, she turned around and walked away with her bag, but just after taking two steps, Jiang Ruonan hadn't turned around and gone back, she suddenly turned around and jumped: "Also, I can't stay here for a few days, if you have anything else, come directly to the guest house to find me." Of course, if you change your mind and want to go abroad, it's okay to come with me this time. ”
Anyway, she will still wait for her: "You think about it!" ”
In the final analysis, Du Jiaojiao, a celibate who doesn't trust feelings, although she thinks that Lu Zhenjun and Jiang Ruonan get along very well, but feelings are too ethereal, how long can they last? Women, in the end, it's better to be self-reliant and self-reliant!
But she wouldn't preach anything to Jiang Ruonan anymore, leaving this sentence, and without waiting for Jiang Ruonan's response, she jumped away directly.
That look, it's really a heartless lady.
The expression on Jiang Ruonan's face softened again.
How fortunate she is to have encountered such kindness once she has passed!