Chapter 6 is not easy

The woman finally gave birth to a baby, but it was a dead baby. Not only is I pregnant for October, but I see my belly slowly growing up every day. It is said that women in the world are the most miserable, not only taking care of their own men, but also giving birth to children for her. After all, the skin is rough and the flesh is thick, although it doesn't hurt, but it won't feel good. It is said that the most painful thing in the world is that a woman gives birth to a child, and she has to suffer both pain and tiredness, in case she is unlucky to have a child and has a difficult birth, she is lucky to survive, but if she can't give birth, the wife and son of the family are not happy! The mother-in-law who can't give birth might as well marry another one. The old woman above makes you angry, and the "sister" below is not happy that you are big, your man is a man who is afraid of his mother, and he has to do it every day, but he will not suffer for a lifetime.

finally gave birth to a child, and the boy was okay, and he passed on the ancestry for his ancestors. But if it's a girl, the older generation reads in front of you every day that she has a money-losing product, although the scolding is not unpleasant, she can say a few words in front of you every day and can't see your good. is to force you to have another one, the family is poor and fine, but if you want a belt, you have to make one for their family to leave incense. What is the saying? I married a daughter-in-law and forgot my mother! But his own man dares to forget his mother? Poor people don't all live together with a large family, look up and don't look down, if you can't see your good, they will make you stumbling, if your man is facing you, say that you are a fox spirit, if you don't ask, women just have to inch in, how can there be a literati kind: people respect me a foot, I respect people. It's all daughters-in-law who have become mothers, big girls who have become mothers-in-law, and delicate women who have worked hard to become yellow-faced mothers-in-law.

If she is pregnant for ten months, and her stomach is angry and she gives birth to a handle, the old woman will not say anything. Men are working hard to support the family for a day, not to mention the delicacies of the mountains and seas, three meals a day to shelter from the wind and rain is enough. It is already excellent to buy clothes in the heart of energy-saving during the New Year, and beautiful clothes are not daring to have thoughts. The expensive jewelry only dares to look, not to mention the rouge gouache of consumables, when the little girl looks at it, if there is a man who can thrush for herself, she thinks it is a real destiny, and now think about it is the most beautiful when she thinks about herself. Getting married and having children, these things are not daring to think, and if you think about it, even if you think about it, it is a sin. There is an old saying, three years of new and three years of old sewing and mending, it is already good to be able to wear clothes, and some people can't even fill their stomachs. They all rely on the crops in the field to feed their families, if God does not flood the crops in the bottom of his heart, and the seedlings are killed by the drought, it is the blessing of the Bodhisattva, and the harvest is good, and the Bodhisattva will definitely burn incense. Life in the world is not that people eat the soil for a lifetime, and the soil eats people once

It's not easy to have a boy, a boy is not as quiet as a girl, and he always cries. Girls can learn to cook from an early age, and then you can learn embroidery when you are a little older, as long as you put a little effort, you can buy the splendid silk silk, and skillfully tattoo the mandarin duck to play in the water. In the downtown area, if a rich beautiful girl misses her lover, she happens to buy it, and she can subsidize her family a little. The occasional embroidered sachet and the spice filled with the medicine bought in the medical hall will be your own in case you live a little bit. You can also show off a sachet for yourself and hang it on your waist, but after all, it is left. Women are all clever people, the leftover silk is made of a small one, and the remaining spices are not enough to fill, but everything is not picked in heaven and earth! Although the wild lily on the wild side of the wild is not very beautiful, it still has a taste, and it barely has an ornament on its own.

If you give birth to a boy when he is young, his clothes are easy to break, and he must be covered with patches. If you are older, you have to find a school for your child, although it is virtuous for a woman to be talentless, but there are several families who can afford their children's tuition, after all, they are all in the heart. The old and young in the family gritted their teeth, tightened their belts, and saved a little money for the child's tuition, and the child was eager to learn for ten years, and he may come out of a champion and return to his hometown, marry a delicate woman, and give birth to a white and fat son, which is also a matter of glory to the ancestors. The children are all playful, their hearts are higher than the sky, and they always feel that they must be stronger than their own Lao Tzu in the future, and the rich people always say that they will marry a "mother" and have a "father". The old people tightened their pants and finally scraped together enough money, and the son didn't know that this was hard-earned money and was popular in the school, at least he could read a few words in the school and say a few words to people in the school, and he could proudly say that he had gone to school, and he still knew how to write his name. My own children are ignorant and make the teacher angry, the ruler is light on the body, and if he makes a serious mistake, he has to suffer his own father and mother. When I met the teacher and grandson, saying good things and begging for the child to re-enter the school, I really couldn't take the "gift" I bought and sent it to the teacher. So that the teacher can dissipate his anger! Originally, the waistband of the family was tight, and this gift would not be hungry for a few days. The child is growing up and can't be hungry, the old lady can't be hungry because she can't get used to herself, and her man goes out to work hard, just to eat a hot meal and have a hot kang head. Otherwise, how can you say that the good woman, if the mountain can still find the eggs of the birds and beasts that have not yet hatched, there is a game to replenish the body of the family. It's really not good, and the wild vegetables that lean on the edge of the field can also fill the stomach, which is sour but also eaten.

Giving birth to a girl to the fourteen or fifteen slim grade began to look for her mother-in-law's family, the child looked like his mother and found a good family for his mother-in-law's family, a large amount of dowry, and his son had a way out to beg his brother-in-law, and he was frank and unrestrained all his life. The girl follows her father, I'm afraid it will be difficult to marry when she is eighteen, occasionally which landlord's stupid son takes a fancy to it, and says that he will marry it, after all, the girl can inherit the lineage? I can't! A large amount of bride price was sent, and it was a great blessing for his son to buy a magistrate and gangster, and it was also a great blessing to meet a favorite woman who married a stable life. I categorically don't care what my sister's life is, the older generation will say that it's good to marry! Of course, the bitter life of eating bran and vegetables is not as good as Jinyiyu's food, and a few people care whether she is angry in a rich family. The sister in the family is not well married, and she encounters a wreck, and her mother-in-law wants to come with a few bride prices and empty her property, I am afraid that my brother-in-law's family will continue to suffer. Even if my sister misses her, she may not see each other, most of them just don't get along with each other when they die of old age, and the only time they see each other is probably the funeral.

Giving birth to a boy, being naughty and mischievous when he was a child, and entering the school when he is a little older, he is fun by nature. I always feel that I must be better than my own family, my mother is kind-hearted, and I will definitely be better off than my mother if I marry a wife in the future. When I was young, I heard the older generation in the neighboring village say that the son of someone in his village was guarding the pass outside the town, and when he grew up, he would definitely want to be a general that everyone knew about or be a soldier who rushed to the front to increase the face of his family. I was lucky to survive, and if I survived, I must have mixed with the general, which is the credit of the ancestors' blessing. "Unfortunately died on the battlefield", when others asked, their own Lao Tzu could also say, my turtle son died on the battlefield, what a fucking unfilial piety. got a large pension, and his parents still have energy, and it is estimated that there will be a younger brother who will inherit the family for him. If you can't get into the barracks, you can go to school in the town to make a living, but this is a hard job, the teenage grade entered the restaurant, and started cleaning early in the morning, washing and cutting vegetables for the master. It's usually handy, and I've practiced knife skills in the past few years, but I haven't learned the dishes at all. You have to serve tea and pour water to know how to look at your eyes, the master will pass you half a style, the general master can still work for a few years and will not really teach you, "the church apprentice starves the master" This kind of thing that the old man will definitely not be able to do. As a street vendor, the straw sandals made by themselves are a few pennies, and they can't make a few dollars, all of which are done by the old people in the family.

With a little money at home, you can buy goods, buy them in the east and sell them in the west, and things are scarce and expensive, as long as you have the right eyesight, you can make a fortune in anything. This thing must not only have vision, but also luck, and also have people in the officialdom, otherwise you will finally earn some money, this deduction is a little bit, and there is no one to cover it, and it is very difficult to become a rich party. Officialdom and yourself are mutually beneficial, which is about fifty-fifty points. But I don't know what officialdom people have a profit of three or seven cents, here is a little bit of a small profit of the doorman stuck, and what kind of tax money is there, it is like a thin fish bone stuck in the throat, not to mention how it hurts, the nausea is very disgusting, and I can't swallow it. In troubled times, horse thieves are rampant and domineering, and it is already grateful to Dade for leaving you half of your property when you pass by, but what kind of person is a horse thief who knows how to trickle water and flow for a long time! A bunch of rough people only know that if they have meat today, they will slaughter it well, and even if they starve to death tomorrow, at least they will eat well today.

In troubled times, traders make money, not to say that they are at ease, but they are also worthy of their families. Traders make money to buy in the east and sell in the west, and everyone on the official road cuts a little meat, and there is no little money for hard work in their hands. But there are also bold people who dare to take some illegal roads, but private roads are rampant with horse thieves, and with good luck, the goods can be pulled home to make a lot of money. Bad luck is good if the goods are lost and can save their lives, and the private road encounters sudden weather and the road is far away, and he gets sick and dies in the wild, and no one knows. If you go to find the good road, you will meet horse thieves and robbers who "opened this road and planted this tree". If you kneel down and cry and move their lives, you can also carry on the family lineage, but horse thieves are all people who lick blood from the knife edge, and if you don't go well, the big scar on your head is not small. Three hundred and sixty lines of lines produce champions, and three hundred and sixty lines have several champions.

If you really can't do it, you should be ignorant and don't study well when you were a child, follow your father, facing the loess with your back to the sky. Comfort yourself to have a stable life, pay taxes, marry a daughter-in-law, have a son and educate him well? It is not easy to eat with God, if there is a great drought, there is no harvest, and the flood comes, I am afraid that the whole family will starve to death. Or farming in business, grow some seasonal vegetables in the field at home, you can take them to eat, and sell them for good-looking, which door feels that your vegetables are good, and you can buy them for a long time, and you also get a stable income.

It is not easy to live in the world, and it is difficult for every family to recite scriptures.