People are so strong, I win them with softness; People use technology, I feel it with sincerity; People are angry, and I give in to reason; Then there is no one in trouble in the world. ——[Qing] Ding Fubao "Jinde Lu"

Squatting in the toilet and doing nothing, Huang Huan's smug smile flashed in his head for no reason, and the nameless fire started! When I went to kindergarten, everyone was a child, and I couldn't understand it, so the aunts in the kindergarten naturally wouldn't arrange any small leaders such as team leaders to control other children. In the world of great harmony, equality of all people is the symbol of prosperity. I usually don't feel too disgusted to let parents and teachers educate me, but today I am really ashamed to let children of the same age be restrained, and even more so in front of other children.

On the way back to the dormitory after coming out of the toilet, I asked the dormitory manager, "Teacher, how did you choose the dormitory manager?" The teacher was surprised, "What's wrong?" There is a problem with the selection, do you have an opinion? I waved my hand: "No, I want to ask how to become the head of the dormitory, not that you didn't choose well." "When I saw that the teacher would be wrong, I quickly explained. The teacher said with great interest: "Haha, even if you are not satisfied, I can't care, the head of the dormitory is not chosen by me, it is all selected by the head teacher of each class, you can ask your class tomorrow." How? Do you want to be the head of the dormitory? I shook my head, just prevaricating out curiosity. In fact, what I was thinking in my heart was Huang Huan, how could he manage us, and I gritted my teeth unconsciously.

Back in the dormitory, I thanked the teacher for accompanying me to my dormitory. Quietly climbed back to the bed and lay down, and suddenly a low voice came from his ear: "Hey, why did you go?" "Yin Ming's voice is extremely soft, probably only I can hear it, so it didn't scare me." You didn't sleep? I just went to the bathroom. "I slept, but I dreamed of my mother, and I woke up, and I was about to go back to sleep, and you came back." Don't you miss home? After that, he turned over and rushed to me, although the lights were turned off, and the dormitory was pitch black, but by the moonlight, I vaguely saw his tearful eyes: "I, it's okay, I only came today, unlike you who have been staying for several days." Hey, do you know how he became an official? I pointed to Huang Huan's bed diagonally above, firstly, I really cared about the reason, and secondly, I also wanted to make him forget about homesickness by changing the topic.

"Hey, this is also an official? It's just you and him who treat this as an official, and you will sue the teacher every day, he is the traitor chosen by the teacher......" I saw that he was excited, and his voice was getting higher and higher, so I quickly stopped him before he woke everyone else: "What's wrong?" You also suffered from him? "I can't think of any other reason why we might be so hostile.

"My parents are divorced, my mother supports me by herself, the family is poor, my mother's salary is just to pay me tuition, you haven't come on the first day, everyone comes back to eat at noon, he has to see what everyone has brought to eat. There's a bag of apples my mom bought for me in my closet, and you can see it. I said that there was nothing in my cabinet, he didn't believe it, he had to open it, I was too lazy to deal with him, he said that I was afraid that I would not want to play with everyone, let other people ignore me, and whoever took care of me would sue the teacher to that person, saying that he was not doing well. I only became the head of the dormitory in the morning, and when I came back at noon, I became the boss, I couldn't get used to it, but my mother didn't let me cause trouble outside, so I just left it at that. As soon as he told the teacher today, I remembered it again, and then I missed my mother a little," Yin Ming said and choked up a little.

I took the jelly from the pillow, hesitated, and handed him a bag. I am an only child, even in the rural grandmother's house, they always keep the delicious food for themselves, not to mention that when I come to the city, my mother will not grab food from my lost son.

It was the first time I had shared a snack with someone else, and it was still a little distressing. But when I heard him say that his family was poor, I remembered when I was in the countryside, and he said that his parents were divorced, although he didn't understand what divorce meant, but he said that his mother raised him by herself, probably similar to my family, but he was not as lucky as me to have such a rich father, and I didn't feel that my sympathy was overflowing, and I even felt a little pity for him, and I realized this, I was determined not to let others know my secret in the future!

If they had known that my father was dead, they would have had to pity me; If they knew that I had been shot as a murderer, they were not allowed to bury (1) me. Probably no one will play with me again, I definitely don't want others to pity me, and I definitely don't want others to alienate me, so I definitely can't let others know that I don't have a father! Absolutely not!

Thinking of this, the outstretched hand unconsciously stretched forward, and Yin Ming next to me pulled me back to reality from my own world. I quickly pretended to be calm: "Here you go, take an inventory, don't let them hear it." Unexpectedly, Yin Ming refused. I suddenly remembered my aunt's teachings: "Peng Peng, our family is poor, but you have to be ambitious, you can't ask for things that others give you!" Don't even open your mouth to ask for things! What do you want to come back to the housekeeper, remember?! ”

I know the reason for his refusal: "It's okay for your family to be poor, my family is rich, and I will let my mother buy snacks for you in the future!" You treat my mother as your mother, and I treat your mother as my mother, we are brothers, so don't be polite. My words really worked, Yin Ming's hand slowly stretched out from the quilt, and took the jelly half-pushed. Following my example, I slowly opened the package and took a soft sip.

"Isn't it sweet?" "Sweet." "I'll drink one of this tonight, and then we'll eat something else together, aren't you homesick? I'm just afraid of the dark, let's sleep back to back, just think our mother is behind me, I'm not afraid, don't be homesick, what's the matter? After drinking the jelly, Yin Ming turned around obediently, I also faced the wall, thinking that I would have one more comrade-in-arms so soon, plus I had taken a day's class today, I was indeed tired, and I fell asleep after a while......

On this night, I was not aware of my talent for manipulating people's hearts, whether it was to make people unwind their hearts and confide their hearts, or to persuade others to act according to their own desires, all because what I said and did seemed to be sincere and sympathetic to the same front, and it seemed to be justified and undeniable. I don't know if it's because I've been well versed in observing words and looking at people since I was a child, so I am good at using empathy to narrow the distance between each other; It is because of my own empathy ability that I am different from ordinary people that my efficiency and ability to interact with people are so outstanding.

Later, the people I came into contact with always praised me for my improved emotional intelligence, which is really a fallacy. In fact, what they don't know is that what I do is just instinctive empathy, role-playing, listening to what others think and say, saying what others want to hear. Of course, revealing this little secret to readers today is not a secret to improving emotional intelligence, because this set is not omnipotent, and I naturally have times when I am deflated, as for what, let me foreshadow it here, and elaborate on it in the future.

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