Chapter 138: Rich Aunt and Grandmother
"Today, my mother told me about the child." At night, Huang Dou lay down and prepared to sleep, and casually mentioned today's Huang Sanniang.
Zhao Dashan, who was undressing, stiffened his back when he heard this, and then took off his clothes casually and put them aside: "What did you say?" ”
"The mountains." Huang Dou suddenly hugged Zhao Dashan's waist from behind: "We want a child." ”
Zhao Dashan didn't look back, but stretched out his hand to hold the hands around his waist, and replied with a little dry throat: "Have you thought about it?" ”
"I used to be scared of having children. It's not that I'm afraid of pain, or I'm afraid that I can't be a good mother. Actually, this is not the main thing, the main thing is that I lack a sense of belonging. Huang Dou put his face on Zhao Dashan's back and whispered: "There is always a feeling that I don't belong to this world and will go back." ”
"Where to go back?" Zhao Dashan suddenly turned around and looked at the soybeans with burning eyes.
Huang Dou reached out and hooked his neck: "Let's have a baby." ”
"Okay."
Zhao Dashan, who was lowered his neck, sighed silently in his heart, Doudou still had something to hide from him, so she didn't want to say it. As long as she's around!
The red candle stopped overnight!
This year is very satisfying for Zhao Dashan and his wife. Because there are no taboos, the couple's life is more harmonious than before, and they have the feeling of being newly married.
Two days after returning to Dongyang County, someone proposed to Xia He, which was really a big surprise for Sodou.
A guy named Laifu in Zhang Xiaohu's shop, Huang Dou specially inquired about Zhang Xiaohu and the shopkeeper over there, and the unanimous evaluation said that Laifu was good, quick to do, and honest.
Laifujia is from the countryside of Dongyang County, and has been a buddy in the fairy drunk hot pot restaurant for more than two years. The hot pot restaurant was busy during the Chinese New Year, and several young men from the Soybean family and Xia He went over to help.
Laifu fell in love with Xia He, but Xia He disagreed. When he saw Xia He's main family coming back, he simply invited the matchmaker to come to the door in person.
For the sake of Xia He, Huang Dou decided to meet Laifu in person.
The clothes are simple, but the pulp is very clean, and even the patches on it are neatly sewn. Probably because he was a guy in the restaurant, the soybeans glanced at it, and their nails were very well-trimmed and clean.
may not have expected that the first person to see him was not Xia He's father, but Huang Dou, a young little woman. Laifu was a little nervous, it was still very cold, but there was a slight mist on his head, and his head was full of sweat.
"How many people in your family do they do?"
"At home...... There are eight people in the family, grandparents, a younger brother, and two younger sisters. There are more than a dozen acres of land at home, which are taken care of by grandma and father. I work in the fairy drunk, and my brother works in the docks. ”
"It's the eldest son and eldest grandson, the eldest son and daughter-in-law are not easy to do, and the responsibilities are more than the younger daughter-in-law, and the in-laws will follow the eldest son in the future." Soybean touched the teacup on the table, and it was not hot for a while.
"Yes...... No, the little grandma and the father are very good people, not the kind of people who will embarrass and make things difficult for others. The young man was a little anxious, and the sweat on his forehead was dripping
"Actually, whether I said anything about this matter or not, you have to ask Xia He and her parents. They said yes, you know. Huang Dou couldn't bear to embarrass him.
"Well, little one knows, thank you ma'am." Lai Fu Shi Li retired.
Huang Dou really hopes that Xia He, a little girl, will find someone she likes and really likes her.
Probably Xia He's father and mother saw Laifu's sincerity and was very satisfied with him. But Xia He came to find Huang Dou, hoping that Huang Dou would persuade her father.
"Do you don't like Laifu so you don't want to get married, or do you just don't want to get married?" Huang Dou looked at the little girl whose face was flushed, and when she said that she didn't want to get married, there were tears in her eyes.
"Slaves just don't want to get married." Xia He knelt and bowed his head.
"You get up, I don't like people kneeling on me." Huang Dou stretched out his hand and pulled her up: "Then tell me, why don't you want to get married?" ”
"It's rare that a person like a slave can be reused by the master's mother, Xia He just wants to serve the master's mother for the rest of his life."
Looking at Xia He standing in front of her, Huang Dou felt a little sorry for her, after all, she still didn't come out of the shadows of Chunfeng Building.
"Do you think that you have been in Chunfeng Lou and your reputation is no longer innocent, so you don't want to get married. It's not that you don't like Laifu, but you're afraid that this incident will become a stain on you for the rest of your life? ”
"Yes, the slave is afraid." Xia He finally couldn't control his tears, covered his face and cried.
This era is really unfair to her, but this is not a reason for her to refuse happiness.
The soybean gently patted her back and looked out the window, the cold winter was about to pass. She is very much looking forward to the coming of spring, when everything recovers and the grass grows and the kites fly.
"Xia He, no one can predict their future. Especially for women, getting married is indeed a major event in a girl's life. If you choose a good choice, you can be happy, and if you don't choose well, it may be the source of all suffering.
I don't know what your impression of Rifle is, but with Rift today, there will be other young men who will take a fancy to your beauty and come to propose to you. You may not like Rifles, but there will always be someone in it that catches your heart.
I'm not going to tell you whether to accept the blessings or to wait for your happiness, you have to keep your eyes open. I can only tell you that no matter what you have experienced before, it is not your fault, nor is it the reason or excuse for your refusal to marry.
If you want to marry, you can marry, you don't have to worry about meeting someone unladylike. As long as you have the ability not to rely on him or his family, to support you and your future children. Then if he's good, you'll be fine, and if he's not good, you'll kick him yourself.
If you don't want to get married, and you just want to live a lifetime with your parents and brothers, you also have to plan for your future. Instead of being old and powerless, unable to do anything, to drag down the brother or the children of the brother's family. ”
Xia He raised his head and looked at Huang Dou, not understanding what she meant for a while.
"You go back and think about it, don't rush to say yes or refuse to come to Fu. Although I bought you, I never felt that you were a slave and had no independent personality. Being a slave is not without being rich. Soybean smiled and straightened Xia He's hair.
"But isn't the money earned by the slaves all from the master's family?"
"No, you go back and ask your parents, we have made rules with them. Those who work in my house and have outstanding abilities will have additional rewards, which are your own. Those who are excellent can spend money to get rid of slavery after a certain number of years, and this money has to be earned by doing things for the main family with their hearts. It's not to fool the master, but to be greedy for ink behind his back. Got it? ”
Huang Dou looked at Xia He, looking at this thoughtful little girl, she had always felt that she was very smart, she would judge the situation, and she still had a lot of energy in her body.
"The slave doesn't understand very well, but the slave will go back and think about what the master said." Saying that, Xia He bowed respectfully and saluted.
Huang Dou waved her out, she was not used to them calling themselves slaves and servants in front of her, maybe she was still not used to this way of belittling herself.
Zhao Dashan was born in a poor family, and he didn't mind at all in this regard.
They don't care, but it doesn't mean that Sun Wu and Marven really don't understand the rules.
Xia He's thinking was very fast, and after a night of careful consideration, she came to find Huang Dou: "The slave and maid go back and think about it carefully, the slave and the maid don't want to marry." Didn't the master mother say that if you have excellent ability, you can earn money and get rid of slavery in the future? So, if I earn money, can I get rid of my brother, brother or nephew? ”
Looking at Xia He, who had a bright light shining in his eyes, Huang Dou was speechless for a while. This was not her intention, she hoped that she could walk out of a path for herself, if not a smooth road, at least a happy path.
Unexpectedly, Xia He, who had figured it out, didn't live for himself. She was thinking of her brother, brother, nephew. She didn't even think about her sister, her niece, including herself.
Is this the sorrow of an age? Is it the reason why she has always been afraid to have children? In her heart, she is also afraid, afraid that her children will become so servile.
"Xia He." Huang Dou opened his mouth with difficulty: "Have you thought about yourself?" ”
"The slave maid thought that as long as the slave maid did a good job, my nephew would definitely be able to honor me in the future." Xia He looked at the soybean a little apprehensively, not knowing if he had said something wrong that made the soybean face so ugly.
"Then you work hard for your nephew and your brother, haven't you thought about trying to work hard for yourself?"
"Yes, the slave maid thought that the slave maid could be a rich and capable aunt like the master mother in the future. Isn't that right" Xia He looked up at the soybeans slightly, she actually admired the soybeans very much.
On the surface, this housewife doesn't do anything, likes to play, likes to eat, likes to sleep lazy, and likes to enjoy. But the master respects her, even her mother's family, and respects her very much, this is the ability.
I heard that two of the master's three big ships belonged to hers, and two more were added this year. She earns no less money than her master every year from Shenxian Drunk and Xiangyang Mansion. Such a woman is what she really has to learn, isn't it?
"Okay, have ambition, be a rich aunt and grandmother. Last year, I bought a few shops in Dongyang County, and I was going to keep one or two for a small business. Should you consider taking care of it this year? Maybe it's not necessarily appropriate for a little girl to show up. ”
"I can, Mistress, I can, really." Xia He was happy to lose the rules. Hurriedly knelt down: "The slave and the maid can, as long as the master and the mother believe in the slave and the maid, the slave and the maid must try their best not to disappoint the master and the maid." ”
"Okay, if you want to do it, then you can try it. This year, I'm going to take Dongmei and Yunmei on the boat, maybe they can be rich aunts and grandmothers in the future! ”
Hearing Huang Dou say this, Xia He laughed a little shyly. This sentence is still what Huang Dou said before, she said to Young Master Ping'an, she said that she will be a rich aunt and grandmother in the future, so let Young Master Ping'an be kind to her.
Looking at the little girl who was a little shy in front of her, Huang Dou didn't know if her decision was right, but it was always right to give her a chance to try.
As for getting married, she is still young, who can tell what will happen in the future!