Chapter 79: Success is also far away from defeat
The discussion of the wedding is over, because the Bai family only has an eldest granddaughter like me, and the Qiao family only has Qiao Zimo's eldest grandson.
The parents of both families thought that even if the wedding between me and Zimo was not the wedding of the century, it had to be the best wedding in Xiayang City.
They unanimously decided to hold it at the Lohman Hotel, the largest four-star hotel in Xiayang City.
Unfortunately, parents of young people in Xiayang City probably think that the Lohman Hotel is an ideal place to get married.
We didn't get in line on May Day.
Aunt Ann said that it would be possible to change the hotel.
But Teacher Xie didn't do it, saying that her girl's wedding must not be compromised.
Although I am very resistant to getting married, I still appreciate Mr. Xie's attitude, at least it proves that I am her own girl.
Because Mr. Xie refused to compromise, and the wedding appointment at the Lohman Hotel was scheduled for the National Day.
I breathed a sigh of relief, but it was a good thing for me, that I would have at least ten months to consider whether I was going to marry Qiao Zimo.
After the Spring Festival, Qiao Zimo and I started a long-distance relationship in the real sense.
One of the advantages of a long-distance relationship is that you don't have to report to the other person all the time, such as hanging out with friends, and you don't have to worry about making your partner uncomfortable when you return late.
For example, if you make a joke with a bunch of big men, you won't have a boyfriend around you who is unhappy.
In short, I have always advocated freedom, and I will not have a feeling of being bound.
Qiao Zimo is always busy, and as the girlfriend of a people's policeman, I am mentally prepared for this.
He would have days without hearing from me, and there would be days when he would be idle, chatting with me whenever he was bored.
Once, all the employees of our company were having a round table meeting, and my mobile phone rang on the table, and I pressed it.
He called again, I turned on the mute, and he was still very persistent.
I looked apologetically at my colleagues and ran out to answer the phone.
"Qiao Datou, do you have a little eyesight, this time is when I go to work, and I am in a meeting."
He played a scoundrel: "You go to work at the same time, but I think you don't." β
I scolded him for being naΓ―ve and turned off his phone.
After the meeting, Qin Kai's face was not very good-looking, and he directly followed up with my office and asked me.
"Looks like you're getting along with that blind date of yours."
I said, "Yes, you have an opinion!" β
He said: "I don't have an opinion, but what age is this, can the blind date be reliable?" β
I said, "Isn't it all retro now?" Aren't there a lot of older young people who get married first and then fall in love? I'm keeping up with the trend. β
He was surprised: "So, you are starting to talk about marriage?" β
I nodded.
His face became more and more solemn: "Bai Ziran, as your senior brother and your boss, I advise you to think twice, this is a matter of a lifetime." β
I was noncommittal: "What's this, if there is a flash marriage, there will be a flash divorce." Although the current concept of marriage and love is steadily developing towards the retro trend, it does not mean that the ancient concept of being from the beginning to the end has become popular together. It's really not good, it's just a divorce certificate. I don't mind. β
He sighed: "Lao Bai, why can't I make sense of you?" Don't blame me for not reminding you if you regret it! β
I said, "Don't worry, I have to go down the path I chose with tears in my eyes, and I will never blame you." β
Xiangxiang saw that I was stupid all day long, either asking her for tea, or making an appointment with my friends!
She was a little sad.
"Bai Ziran, I don't look like you are a person in love. Don't blame me for not reminding you, you have to talk to Qiao Zimo at least once a day on the phone, send a few text messages, and whisper a few words before your lover. β
I said, "I want to too, but Qiao Zimo doesn't have time." β
Xiangxiang hated that iron could not become steel: "Girl, I'm wondering if there are hormones and dopamine in your place?" I advise you to eat more cucumber butts, which are rich in dopamine, which can make your emotional intelligence higher. β
I suddenly realized: "After doing it for a long time, I see you take a cucumber to gnaw every day, it turns out that you are accumulating dopamine, but I haven't seen you release that thing to the men around you?" β
She gave me a blank look, not bothering to pay attention to me.
"Girl, don't blame me for not advising you, how many unyielding loves have been defeated by distance. If I were you, I would have to fly to him for half a month to make out with him. β
I said, "I want too, you give me the ticket money?" β
She sighed again: "Alas, how many unyielding love has been defeated by money. β
I'm in a relationship, and of course I have to do something that couples do.
I listened to Xiangxiang's words, and I didn't want to lose to distance before I understood how deep my love for Qiao Zimo was.
He's always busy, so I'm always flying over to him whenever I'm free.
For example, Qingming Festival, Dragon Boat Festival.
In fact, as long as it is a holiday, I am also very busy, and I am willing to work overtime until the night before the day before the holiday for him.
Although Qin Kai is a boss who picks the door, he has always been empathetic.
He said: "I know that you take every relationship seriously, although I very much want you to break up earlier, I still think that when you fall in love, you should have a relationship look." So, I mentally support you to go all the way to date, but you can only pay for it yourself or your boyfriend to pay for it. β
At that time, Zimo and An Ran were both living in the police force's single dormitory.
I also had a rare meeting with him, and even though it was a holiday, he was often busy until late to meet me.
Fortunately, I am a person with very strong self-care skills, and there are some college and high school classmates in the city.
made an appointment to have afternoon tea together, ridiculed some social phenomena, and passed the time.
I can't go to the mall and buy some clothes.
I don't know what other people's girlfriends look like, but I like to let my boyfriend dress up decently, so that I can have face when I go out with me.
I will buy some men's clothes for Zimo, he is a hanger, even if it is a stall, he can wear a big brand feeling.
But he's a cop and doesn't really have much time to wear these clothes.
He often complained sweetly: "I'm a burden of happiness, I don't have a chance to wear so many clothes every time you come back, I can't stand you." β
Of course, no matter how busy he is, he will take a day out to accompany me shopping, watching a movie, and having a romantic dinner.
When I first went in March.
He put his heart into it, added an extra marching bed in his bachelor dormitory, and carefully arranged it, which was similar to the bed I had when I was a child, although it was small, but it was very warm.
I joked: "Zimo, it's not good for us to be in the same room with lonely men and widows!" β
He replied, "What's not to do, you and I didn't live together on the first day. β
I was amazed, and he said, "Isn't it considered that we have slept in the same room for three years?" β