34. Official Showdown
Su Man is completely aware of the Xu family's double standards and unreasonableness, and he doesn't have any ideas that can change the other party.
For Xu Jie, he was indifferent to her, and after marrying her into the door, he ignored her, as if he had married a maid to his mother and came back, and he just had an attitude of making a mistake, and Su Man was completely dead to him.
After Xu Jie's parents left, Su Man finally filed for divorce from Xu Jie.
When Xu Jie heard Su Man's words, he sat on the sofa and was silent for a long time, just lit a cigarette.
"You once said that as long as I seriously think about getting a divorce, I can come and tell you, and you will agree." Su Man said lightly, she was serious this time, she had been preparing for a long time.
"Well, I did." Xu Jie does not deny it.
"When are you going to go through the formalities?"
"Can you give me three days to think about it?"
"Yes."
Su Man is not in a hurry, the divorce is a foregone conclusion, as for whether it is a good gathering or a good dissolution, or going to court, she can do it.
She didn't think Xu Jie would disagree with the divorce, and what Xu Jie wanted was not a woman like her.
Three days later, before Su Man got off work, Xu Jie suddenly sent a message to have a good talk with Su Man, and Su Man agreed.
This is the first time that Xu Jie has been married for so long and has spoken to Su Man calmly, just like the handsome boy when he first met.
"I thought about it, can I not get a divorce?" Xu Jie said softly, "I know, it was all my problem before, and I will change it in the future, and I will help you share half of the housework, and I will be good to you with my heart, okay?" ”
Su Man looked at the man in front of him, he hadn't seen him for three days, he was a lot haggard, if it was before, she might have softened her heart, but now, her heart has no waves, her feelings for him have long been completely dead, leaving only strangeness and coldness.
"This marriage is divorced. You know we don't have any feelings anymore. Suman spoke.
Xu Jie was silent, in fact, he knew very well in his heart that Su Man was determined to leave this time.
After a long time, Su Man said softly: "Actually, there is something I have always been unable to understand, can you give me an answer?" ”
"Well, you ask." Xu Jie answered, and the cigarette in his hand had not been interrupted just now.
"Why did you do this to me?" This is what Su Man wants to know the most, and it is clear that he will die if he dies, right?
When Xu Jie heard this, he paused for a moment before he spoke: "I admit it, I have always had a person in my heart, that is, my first love, I was a high school classmate with her, her grades were particularly good, a standard academic bully, in the third year of high school, I was with her, and it was good until my sophomore year, when I was with her, there was love and love, and it was more of a quarrel, and I broke up after a few days, but I was reconciled a few days later, but then I was separated, but I never forgot it in my heart." In fact, I can't forget her, to be precise, I can't forget that love. She is already very vague in my heart, I can't even remember what she looks like, that day, when you proposed divorce to me, I thought about it seriously, only to realize that I was ridiculously wrong, and I actually treated you like that for several years for a vague shadow. ”
Su Man's heart suddenly hurt, not for Xu Jie, but for herself, it turned out that no matter how well-behaved and sensible she was, she couldn't get a little distress from him, and the reason was actually like this.
Tears couldn't help falling, she felt sorry for her four-year marriage, her own dedication, Linlin, her parents, and her ruined life.
"Is she beautiful?"
"Not as beautiful as you, she's the kind of person who is very neutral, like a boy."
Su Man was even more speechless, if that person was a school girl or something, she would not die unjustly.
"Manman, how about you think about it again, divorced, you are a woman, what should you do?"
"It's not something you should worry about, I've been with you for four years, I've been treated like your mother for four years, I've been disgusted by your father for four years, and I gave you a child, and I haven't seen you feel sorry for me in the slightest, so why should I be so hypocritical now."
"I just feel sorry for the child." Xu Jie took a hard puff of his cigarette and finally shed tears.
Su Man looked at Xu Jie crying, did he wake up? It's a pity that it's late.
"Since Linlin was born, within one year of age, I and my mother brought her up, every time you go back, nominally to see her, in fact, you do your own calculations, how many times have you seen her, how many times have you hugged her? Have you ever bought her food, play, and clothing? After I was one year old, I went back to work in X City, Linlin stayed at my house for 20 days a month, and stayed at your house for 10 days, and your mother often made excuses for sending Linlin back to my house after just three days of pick-up, so to speak, Linlin was brought up by my parents. Now, she is more than three years old, do you think back to yourself, how many times have you been with her? You don't know how she grew up! ”
Xu Jie didn't speak, just nodded, what Su Man said was not wrong, he was an incompetent father.
"You know what? When Linlin was more than a year old or two years old, she stammered, which was very serious, and your mother once put the fault on me, thinking that it was because of my bad genes, so she stammered. ”
"And here's the thing!" Xu Jie was shocked.
"Oh, what do you know, you don't even remember that you have a daughter." Su Man sneered, "Linlin has been smart since she was a child, she knew how to call people before she peed at four months, and she never wetted the bed again when she was ten months old, do you know why she didn't wet the bed when she was ten months old?" ”
"Why?"
"When I was ten months old, she went to your house for a week, and then I picked her up, and that night she peed a little bit on the mattress, so I quickly hugged her and sat in the urinal, she cried very fiercely, and then she lay on the mattress and beat her ass, I was very surprised, such a small child, my mother and I have never spanked her, where did she learn, I asked her, who beat the ass? She said grandma. Su Man said, looking at Xu Jie, "Your mother took Linlin just because she was afraid that your neighbors would say about her, and she didn't want to take it at all!" Linlin is only ten months old, she spanked Linlin's buttocks and didn't let Linlin wet the bed, you go and see whose child can not wet the bed at the age of ten months. ”
"When Linlin was a little younger, your mother could still take her back directly, and when she was two years old, she knew that it was a good day, every time your mother came to pick her up, she cried and didn't go back, the child is the most pure, whoever is good to her, she is willing to be with whom, she cries and doesn't want to go back to your house, you should also understand why."
Xu Jie was still silent, he knew too well what his mother was like, even if he wanted to refute it, he couldn't find a reason.