Mrs. Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng's blank look on her face and said, "Sister-in-law, they have been married for so long, and their husband and wife have a good relationship, so they can't regret it because of Yu'er's unadaptability, right?" ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng and shook her head lightly and said, "Yu'er has always been high-minded and ambitious, and this kind of character has advantages and disadvantages.

If she marries low, she will definitely be able to live a prosperous life in her husband's family. But she is now married, and her heart is high, which is not too good for her.

I can see that Yu'er is satisfied with this family business, and now she just needs to learn to bend down slightly to recognize the reality. ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng and smiled bitterly, and said, "Our family has always had men who are ambitious and backbone, and most of the children in the family are also like this.

Yu'er's temperament is almost the same, the character that has been cultivated over the years is now going to be discounted to change, Yu'er is only afraid that it will be difficult to bend down, and I feel uncomfortable when I think about it. ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng and fell silent, Mrs. Cheng never thought that Cheng Yu would not be able to figure out such a thing, it is obviously the easiest truth to figure out, why is she so competitive in her heart?

Mrs. Cheng secretly thought, is it because the family was too indulgent and allowed her in the past? ”

Mrs. Cheng Da therefore made up her mind that her cultivation of her granddaughter must first teach her to be self-aware and to be at peace with what happens, and not to fail to learn self-suffering first.

Mrs. Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng for a while, shook her head lightly and said: "When you get along as a family, you can use discounts or something, it's just that you understand each other in getting along and give in to each other in case of trouble."

If Yu'er is unwilling to try to change her behavior like this, how can her life be smooth in the future.

When people live, they can't take advantage of others in everything, and they should also know how to give in and give small benefits to others in some irrelevant things.

Suffering a loss is sometimes taking advantage, and the men in our family are just unwilling to take advantage of others in this regard, so the Gu family will take the initiative to marry this in-law. ”

Mrs. Cheng was not convinced in her heart, she always thought that Cheng Yu herself was very outstanding regardless of which side, except for the family background of the Cheng family, Cheng Yu did not lose to anyone in other aspects.

Mrs. Cheng looked at the expression on Mrs. Cheng's face, she shook her head lightly and said, "Actually, we seniors can't stand the juniors, and we don't give them a good opportunity to learn.

Yu'er's concubines have a better background than ours, they have more knowledge since they were young, and their vision and way of doing things are naturally different from those of people like us.

After Yu'er married into the Gu family, her sister-in-law above her was born as a woman from a family, and such a woman looked gentle and harmless, but the edification she received in her mother's family also made her much better than Yu'er in all aspects.

Little brother and sister, these are the things that Yu'er has to face the reality, she is completely ignorant of some of the things that the concubines said, and some of the things she knows, the concubines' mother's family has always been handled by loyal people.

Yu'er's life in her husband's house is not bad, it's just that she can't find a suitable speaker, and if she has a heart, she needs to learn a lot. ”

Mrs. Cheng did her best to explain to Mrs. Cheng, as for how much Mrs. Cheng could experience, Mrs. Cheng didn't have the heart to ask, after all, everyone is a grandmother, and she still has to take care of Mrs. Cheng's face in front of people.

On the way to visit her daughter, Mrs. Cheng felt that her steps were heavy, she had heard Mr. Cheng inadvertently comment on people, and he sighed: "Virtue is not worthy, it is not a good thing." ”

Mrs. Cheng was thinking about her heart, she looked at the expression on Cheng's face in the guest house, she sighed lightly and said to Cheng's: "Yu'er, I am your mother, you can tell me anything you want, don't keep everything in your heart." ”

Cheng thought about it carefully, she felt that Mrs. Cheng couldn't understand her mood, and no matter how much she talked to Mrs. Cheng, she could only make Mrs. Cheng upset, and it couldn't solve it.

Cheng looked at Mrs. Cheng and said with a smile: "Mother, I have no good news, my husband's family does not urge, but my heart is not very comfortable, I want to go back to my mother's house for a few days, I have nothing to worry about, don't worry too much about me." ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Cheng and sighed lightly and said, "Since your brothers and sisters grew up and became married, I sometimes feel that I am not close to you, and you don't tell me anything about anything." ”

Cheng Yu looked at Mrs. Cheng Xiao and shook her head with a smile and said, "Mother, my brothers are fine, my sisters-in-law are fine, and I am fine, so naturally I don't need to tell my mother."

Mother, I've only been around Gu's house all day long. I've only been to the temple once recently, where I had a vegetarian meal, and then nothing else. ”

Mrs. Cheng immediately became curious and asked, "Your father-in-law and mother-in-law should also prepare for your little uncle's family affairs, right?"

Last time you went to the temple with your uncle, you went to worship for the sake of the child? ”

Cheng thought about that time, it was not completely impossible to say, she whispered to Mrs. Cheng, Mrs. Cheng listened to Cheng's words, and the tips of her fingers poked directly into Cheng's forehead.

She whispered: "You person who has no heart, the people of the Yu family are so sweeping the face of your family, what are you going to do with them?"

Do you care if they are left out in the cold? If they had the heart, they could have separated the three little women, instead of having the three little women show up together.

Yu'er, let me tell you, no matter how shrewd this man is, he is not as sensible as a woman in the affairs of the inner house, and you will still respect your mother-in-law's practices in these matters in the future. ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Cheng and shook her head gently, and Cheng defended in a low voice: "Mother, my father-in-law is very protective of me at home, and I don't want to go against his will." ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Cheng and shook her head and said, "I think it's a good thing that your father-in-law doesn't protect you, the more he protects you, the less good it is for you."

Your mother-in-law is straightforward and kind-hearted, and your mother-in-law is willing to protect you, which is a really good thing. ”

Cheng lowered his head and whispered: "Mother-in-law is better to sister-in-law, mother-in-law is willing to talk to sister-in-law about many things, she will never tell me." ”

Mrs. Cheng looked at Cheng and shook her head lightly and said, "You spoiled the embryo for everyone in your mother's house, so when you were in your husband's house, you never understood in your heart, how could your mother's family be the same as your husband's family?"

Your mother's family will act according to your temperament, because you have only been in your mother's family for more than ten years, and everyone is reluctant to restrain your temperament, thinking that after you marry in the future, you will not have this freedom. ”

Cheng was stunned all of a sudden, she always thought that her mother's family doted on her because she had the ability and ability.

I never thought that the people in the family thought that she would always get married, and thought that she would be restrained in her husband's family in the future, so they first gave her more than ten years of freedom.