Chapter 185: Persuasion
(Cat flutter Chinese) Zhu Qingyi quickly understood: "Don't worry, the two owners, during this period, I will definitely make sure that there is no mishap here!" ”
"That's good!" Nangong bowed, "You put the letter away, don't lose it, I won't write it a second time!" ”
Zhu Qingyi smiled and put the letter into his arms.
Qin Yun frowned, said a few more gossips, and sent Zhu Qingyi away, and then asked Nangong Che: "When did you decide to go to the capital?" Why don't I know any news? ”
Nangong Che took her hand and said solemnly: "I have been planning this matter for a long time, the reason why I don't tell you is because I am afraid that you will be distracted, your top priority is to bring the Qin family's heart together and revive the family's reputation." I'll take care of the rest. ”
Qin Yun's nose suddenly sour, in her previous life, her parents had been cultivating her ** sex in the boudoir, and she often stood by and let her find a way to solve it alone, after getting married, Yuan Shizhao was a hands-off shopkeeper, not only did she have to grasp it inside and out, but also did it quietly, she couldn't hurt Yuan Shizhao's face as a big man, how could anyone have considered her so considerately?
When she was in the boudoir, she was still young, vigorous, and competitive, and she didn't think there was any hardship, but she regarded it as an experience again and again, and she enjoyed it, not to mention that she knew that her parents were good for her; But after marriage, I have to preside over the family feeding, serve my mother-in-law, and take care of the housekeeping, the most important thing is to figure out Yuan Shizhao's emotions from time to time, I am simply exhausted......
"Nangong ......" tears rolled around her eyes, and she forced herself to go back, "Thank you!" ”
Nangong Che touched her head: "What a stupid girl, do you want to talk to me like this?" Let Yuan Caihou officially become the heir of the Qin family, are you ready? ”
Qin Yun smiled slightly: "Ready......"
She had already communicated with Yuan Caihou before, and Yuan Caihou was a little hesitant at first, saying: "I want to study hard, take the top exam in the future, become a big official, and let my grandmother be beautiful, and no one dares to bully again!" ”
Qin Yun asked him with a smile: "But is the scenery in front of people really good?" Have you asked your grandmother? If you want to be filial to your grandmother, the key is to please your grandmother, if everything you do will only make her unhappy, then what is the point of all this? ”
Yuan Caihou touched the back of his head, embarrassed.
Qin Yun smiled gently: "Brother Hou'er, have you thought about it, after ten years of cold windows, there are only 200 people in the whole country who will be able to enter the Jinshi in the future, and there is only one champion." As it stands, you are indeed a good reader, but there are even more people who are better at reading than you, and this is like a thousand troops crossing a single-plank bridge, and there are very few people who can really go to the other side. Have you ever thought about what if you don't walk well and get squeezed off the single-plank bridge? ”
Yuan Caihou's face was dazed.
With great patience, Qin Yun continued: "Do you know what is the purpose of your grandmother's hiring of celebrities to teach you to read? ”
Yuan Caihou said seriously: "I know, my grandmother often says, let me read and be reasonable, be an upright person, do things clearly, and be a big husband who stands up to the sky!" ”
"So," Qin Yun smiled, "do you understand what grandmother means?" ”
Yuan Caihou turned his head to look at Yuan Zheng, who had been silent.
Yuan Zheng raised his head with a loving look in his eyes: "Child, grandmother means that I don't want you to get high-ranking officials in the future, but I hope that you will be of good character." ”
Yuan Caihou nodded heavily: "Grandmother, grandson understands!" ”
Qin Yun continued: "Do you know, why do I have to ask you to inherit your grandfather's inheritance? ”
Yuan Caihou shook his head, but his expression was very firm: "The master said, 'Guangsha thousands of rooms sleep eight feet at night', 'the husband is not guilty of his crimes', no matter how many houses there are, the place to sleep at night is only so big, and he only eats three meals a day, that is, he has enjoyed the glory and wealth, and in the end, everyone is the same only a pile of dry bones. How much more so is the dead, how much more so the living? Money is exposed, often coveted, how many people are ruined because of the jealousy and jealousy of others? I understand all these truths, so I'd rather be an ordinary person who doesn't have to worry about food and clothing. ”
Qin Yun smiled faintly: "Well, your master is very good and can teach you such a truth." But I'm going to tell you something else. You are the only blood relative of your grandfather in this world, if you do not inherit your grandfather's inheritance, then, your grandfather's hard work for dozens of generations will be handed over, how do you let your grandfather look underground? Therefore, what you shoulder on your shoulders is not the glory of inheriting your grandfather's great family, but the burden of revitalizing your grandfather's family.
"The eldest husband was born between heaven and earth, and he did something and did nothing. Doing something includes being able to take responsibility for oneself. If you think that I am a woman with little knowledge, you can write these words down and consult your master another day, your master is a Confucian in the world, and he is known for his good character, you should always be trustworthy, right? ”
Yuan Caihou hesitated for a moment and nodded.
Qin Yun continued: "Also, what you said about 'the husband is not guilty and has his guilt', what do you mean, Bi is the original sin?" But I don't think so, if you have the ability to protect this treasure, why don't you fear others coveting it? For example, if you have a very good sister, who grows up to be both virtuous and beautiful, such a woman will definitely be very eye-catching, but if a bad person has bad intentions towards Sister Hua and causes harm to Sister Hua, can you attribute the sin to having a wonderful sister? If you want to blame, you can only blame you for not being able to protect your sister! Think about it, isn't it. ”
Yuan Caihou thought about it seriously, and said heavily: "What my aunt said is true." ”
Qin Yun took a sip of tea and said: "For another example, there are many rich people in this world, some are rich and unkind, some accumulate virtue and do good, and the basis for being rich and unkind is because there is a lot of money, and they can act arbitrarily; Accumulating virtue and doing good deeds is also because of a lot of money, otherwise how to help those who are poor and needy? So, can money be attributed to the culprit that leads people to make mistakes? ”
Yuan Caihou shook his head: "No." ”
In the same way, some families are rich for less than three generations, and they will always lose their families and squander the wealth that their ancestors have easily accumulated, while some families can be passed on from generation to generation and become more and more prosperous. What is the reason for this? That's why there is a difference in human abilities! If you have the ability, you can not only keep it, but also open it up, and if you don't have the ability, you can't even keep the existing one! ”
Yuan Caihou listened carefully, and suddenly interrupted Qin Yun: "Auntie, am I strong enough, and others are afraid of me, so that no one will dare to hurt Sister Hua?" ”
Qin Yun didn't expect that he still remembered the analogy he had just made, which shows that he always cares about his sister...... I can't help but feel distressed and moved, "I can't say that, I'm afraid that on the one hand, for example, King Nan, there are few people in the world who are not afraid of him, so few people dare to beat him and the people around him, but it can't be generalized, if a person is cornered, that person will fight to the death, for example, King Nan will meet someone who will come to assassinate him even if he wants to die." Therefore, the highest state is the word 'service', and only by letting people obey you from the heart will they not have other thoughts about you. ”
Yuan Cai hurriedly asked: "Then how can I get others to obey me?" ”
Qin Yun said with a smile: "Then you have to cultivate both inside and outside, first of all, your character must be unpickable, and you must have the ability and means to make people feel that there are some things that you have to do, and those things are often something that they can't complete in their lifetime." You stand at a height that all must look up to. This is the service. ”
Yuan Caihou scratched the back of his head and said abruptly: "I don't quite understand." ”
Qin Yun nodded: "In the future, your husband will explain these truths to you carefully." ”
Yuan Zheng interrupted them: "Yun Niang, it's useless for you to tell him this......" She beckoned to Yuan Caihou, "Child, come here." ”
Yuan Caihou obediently walked over and snuggled up to Yuan Zheng's side.
Yuan Zhengshi said softly: "Child, you also know what kind of person your father is, although he is my only son, but I am not proud of him but ashamed of him in this life, this is the greatest sorrow of my life." I regret that he didn't teach him well when he was a child, so when it comes to you, I will do everything I can to get you the best gentleman...... What's best? In my eyes, good conduct is the best.
"Grandmother is glad that you are able to do it now without being rich. But do you know that the inheritance of you to your grandfather's house is not to let you enjoy the glory and wealth, but to let you revitalize the Qin family. Do you know that when your grandfather was here before, the Qin family was so beautiful, and the Qin family was proud of their surname Qin. But now, the Qin family is gone...... It's like a big house that suddenly collapsed, and now it's not about digging out the jewels under the rubble, it's about getting you back up and down! ”
"Let the Qin family stand under the sun again! This is also your mother's last wish. You know that your grandmother nurtured you, but do you know how hard your mother worked to give birth to your siblings? Raising children knows the kindness of their parents, and you may not understand these things now, but when you become a father, you will be able to deeply understand it.
"Only with the Qin family can you have your mother, and only then can you have two brothers and sisters. The Qin family is gone, and your grandparents will not even be able to keep the tomb, that is, your mother is not filial, and your mother's tablet cannot be enshrined in the Buddha hall openly, which is your unfilial piety. Child, this is also your responsibility! ”
Yuan Caihou burst into tears and choked up: "Grandmother, grandchildren all know ......"
Qin Yun turned his back to his face, and his face was already full of tears.
"Since you understand," Yuan Zheng wiped away Yuan Caihou's tears, "then grandmother asks you, are you willing?" ”
Yuan Caihou raised his head.
"Grandmother," Yuan Caihou's eyes sparkled, "Grandchild is willing." A grandchild is a grandmother's grandson no matter what his surname is! The grandson is willing to carry the burden on his shoulders! ”
Qin Yun's tears flowed down, and she was almost about to break out of the door.
Yuan Zheng said: "Yun Niang, what you said is a big truth, now that he says it, he may not be able to understand it, let him figure it out slowly in the future, the rice should be eaten one bite at a time, and people can't grow up all at once, do you say this is the reason?" ”
Qin Yun nodded hurriedly. Cat flutter Chinese