Chapter 130: Instead of blaming, it's better to solve the problem

Seeing the three children stacking blocks in the living room, Xia Xiaoyu suddenly breathed a sigh of relief, it seems that the child was not affected because of the loss of the suitcase, but all this could have not happened, if she didn't take back the super coke, Hu Tianyou would not have other ideas, let alone throw the super cola suitcase.

"Hu Weicheng."

She sat down beside him and called softly.

"Wife, what's wrong?"

Hu Weicheng's sharp and distinct face softened because of his wife's call, and he turned his head and looked at her with gentle eyes.

"Hmm...... I'm sorry about this, but if I hadn't taken it upon myself to take Super Coke home, these things wouldn't have happened. ”

Xia Xiaoyu, who was hesitant, finally said what was in her heart, originally thought that what greeted her was a scolding from the storm, or a smelly and long truth like a footwrap, but it was not.

"Wife, look at the children."

"Huh?"

Three children, playing with building blocks, there is no problem, why did Hu Weicheng call her to watch the children? She looked confused.

"Aren't they having a good time?"

"Hmm."

The two brothers are helping their sister build blocks, as long as the sister laughs, the two brothers will be happy to find the southeast and northwest, it seems that they are indeed having a good time, so what does it have to do with her apology?

"Do you think they realized they were wrong?"

"I think you should be aware of it."

Although she didn't admit it, she had already replied in her heart that she shouldn't have realized the mistake when she looked at this playful appearance.

"Wife, they don't realize that they have made a serious mistake."

"Really?"

It seems that some people agree.

"Yes, it's not so much that they realize a serious mistake, it's just that they are afraid of punishment if they make a mistake."

"Hu Weicheng, what do you want to express?"

The more Xia Xiaoyu listened, the more confused she became, does this have anything to do with her apology?

"Children don't realize their mistakes, that's because their world is very innocent, they think of anything, they do it, not so much, they realize their mistakes, but this incident, they have taught them a deep lesson, which makes them remember the concept of stealing, so that they will not do similar things again on the road of life in the future."

This is the so-called idea of sin in the cradle, and it cannot be allowed to fend for itself.

But Xia Xiaoyu was confused.

"And then?"

"And then, that is, you don't have to apologize, you're not wrong about this, and the child is not wrong."

After going around for a long time, what Hu Weicheng wanted to tell her was that she was right, but she didn't agree.

"No, Hu Weicheng, actually, I was really wrong, when I knew that there was so much cash in the suitcase, I shouldn't have given it to Super Coke to place, but should have put it in a safe place myself."

However, in Xia Xiaoyu's heart, home is a safe place, so she didn't expect that the child would suddenly do such a foolish thing, which blames her, the mother's dereliction of responsibility, but, being a first-time mother, it's really difficult!

"Wife, in this world, there is no if, everyone is bumping and bumping to the end, but I think that this incident is not a bad thing, not only to make us aware of the problem as parents, but also to make children understand the concept of stealing."

Yes, when encountering a problem, the first thing to think about is not to blame and shake the blame, but to solve the problem fundamentally, so Hu Weicheng does not feel that anyone is right and who is wrong in this matter.

Even if you can't find it, if the other party asks for the forcible return of the property, they as parents must also pay for the child's mistake, after all, children make mistakes, as parents, as guardians, they also have the responsibility, born to raise, to teach, to teach and be responsible.

The child's mistake is deliberate, and scolding is useless, it is better to tell what stealing is, the seriousness of the consequences of stealing, and guide it correctly so that he will not do it again next time.

Xia Xiaoyu nodded, feeling that what Hu Weicheng said was reasonable, and his unhurried way of handling things also made her admire from the bottom of her heart.

"Well, what you said is right, instead of blaming right and wrong, it is better to take this incident as a lesson, experience, and you will not do it again when you encounter it in the future."

Yes, hundreds of thousands of people bought an impressive lesson, and it feels difficult to forget it in this life.

"Wife, you're so smart, you can get it all right, then, can you bother your wife now, put the suitcase away, don't let the child take it randomly."

"I put the suitcase, what about you?"

"Being a husband is naturally cooking a hot meal for his wife and children, say, what do you want to eat?"

"Can I order again?"

"Hmmm......"

"I want to eat, sea cucumber, abalone, dragon meat!"

"Wife, the meat for the husband is also delicious, do you want to try it?"

"I don't want to eat your meat, huh."

"Whose meat do you want to eat?"

"You're not talking nonsense, you're not as good as pork!"

"Wife, be careful what you say!"

"You made me order, backtracking."

"Wife, the family is full of home-cooked ingredients, so I can only order home-cooked food."

"You didn't say it sooner."

"Wife, it's not too late to say it now."

"Okay, spare you once, I'll eat whatever you do."

"Okay, no problem, I promise to satisfy my wife."

"Then I'll take the suitcase to the study and put it away."

"Okay."

Hu Weicheng's food, not to mention, is really delicious, so she will not refuse, he cooks, she does some chores.

Immediately, Xia Xiaoyu took the suitcase of Super Coke and walked towards the study, and behind him, the voice of Hu Weicheng talking to the child was heard.

"Children, you have a good time here, when you are thirsty, pour your own water and drink, you are greedy, there is fruit on the table, if there are other things, you can no longer make your own decisions, you need to get my or your mother's consent, remember?"

"Remember."

The three children replied in unison, apparently gladly agreeing to the improvised rule.

Xia Xiaoyu carried the suitcase of Super Coke, opened the door of the study, and entered the study again.

Where should I put my suitcase?

Her eyes were swept around, and in her mind, she kept asking and answering herself.

Otherwise, it will be placed in this corner, but as soon as I enter the study, I will be found, and I feel uneasy. No, no, no, you can't put it here.

Otherwise, it is placed under the desk, which is not easy to be found, but it is the place where Hu Weicheng works temporarily, and if he is like an office, there is no place to put his feet.

Hey, there's a cabinet here, there's no lock, it's just here, and it's so happily decided.

Xia Xiaoyu squatted in front of the cabinet, opened the cabinet door, and just wanted to put the suitcase in, but found that there was a black photo frame placed inside, and she was worried about crushing it, so she picked up the photo frame.

However, in the next second, she was stunned, in this photo frame, there was a photo, which looked very familiar, as if it was a photo of her, looking dressed, as if she was eighteen years old.

Hey, that's not right!

Why, in Hu Weicheng's study, there is a photo of her at the age of 18?

Could it be that when arranging a blind date, the photo was given?

It's not right, the blind date is generally a recent photo, it can't be an eighteen-year-old photo, if you really take an eighteen-year-old photo blind date, then there is a suspicion of pretending to be tender.