Chapter 870
On the day when they returned to their parents' homes for the Chinese New Year, most of the women of the Gu family never returned to their parents' homes, only the Yue family and the Cheng family returned to their parents' homes accompanied by their husbands.
Before the Chinese New Year, Gu You told Cheng Kejia that he would often accompany his family at home, but in fact, he didn't have many days at home, and he only spent two days with his family at the beginning and end of the year.
Cheng Kejia is used to such days, but Han is a little unaccustomed to such days, even if she believes Gu Youyi's words in her heart, she is used to the excitement of the New Year with the whole family in her mother's house.
Han came to Changyuan, Cheng Kejia and Gu Dingyang were walking in the yard, and they were followed by a young woman holding Gu Dinglei, who looked a little angry.
After Cheng Kejia saw Han, she and Gu Dingyang greeted her, and after they greeted each other, Han looked at the smiles on Cheng Kejia's mother and son's faces, and her heart suddenly breathed a sigh of relief.
Because of her pregnancy, she didn't go back to her parents' house during the Chinese New Year, and she was disappointed in her heart, but after she knew that most of the concubines chose not to go back to her parents' home, she was glad that she didn't get entangled and made a decision directly.
Gu Youyi was very supportive of Han's decision, and he privately told Han that in the first year of Gu's absence, their juniors had this attitude, and the old people in the family would probably feel a kind of comfort when they looked at it.
Han's belief in Gu Youyi really started after marriage, Gu Youyi let her see the true friendliness and perfection in human nature, and never let her have that kind of unattainable mentality.
In the Gu family, when the concubines get along, she can get along with the concubines calmly because of a husband like Gu Youyi.
Cheng Kejia took a look at the look on Han's face, she smiled and told Han the identity of the young woman, Han looked at the young woman with a little surprise after hearing this, in exchange for the woman's subtle and respectful smile.
Han said to Cheng Kejia with a little admiration: "Sister-in-law, you are very good to the people around you. ”
Cheng Kejia smiled slightly, she had never treated the people around her harshly, but only Daxi and Xiaoxi treated her the most affectionately.
Of course, Gu Niangzi also used to be Cheng Kejia's side, but in Cheng Kejia's heart, Gu Niangzi has always been a special existence, a bit like a master.
Cheng Kejia accompanied Han to walk slowly in the yard, and the yard that had been swept by the heavy snow was now relatively barren.
Cheng Kejia nodded at the empty space, talking about some plans in the spring, Han proposed some things, she muttered to Cheng Kejia in a low voice: "Sister-in-law, I think the backyard is the most suitable for growing vegetables, I think it is more useful than planting flowers." ”
Cheng Kejia agrees with Han's opinion, but she is not proficient in this matter, and Da Gu Niangzi and Xiao Gu Niangzi are also more good at taking care of flowers and trees, and they are very unfamiliar with growing vegetables.
Han looked at Cheng Kejia's face, and she asked tentatively: "Sister-in-law, I grow vegetables in my backyard, do you think the family will have any opinions?" ”
Cheng Kejia looked at Han and smiled slightly, and said, "Brother and sister, as long as Brother Yi supports you, the people in the family will generally not have any opinions. ”
Cheng Kejia also tried to grow vegetables, but she failed, the soil in the backyard of Changyuan was even less fertile than she imagined, and the vegetables in the backyard looked malnourished.
The concubines laughed at her, but Cheng Kejia knew clearly that it was a friendly joke.
Cheng Kejia told Han about her attempt, and Han decided to wait until the weather was a little warmer, she still had to try, and if she could succeed, as long as Cheng Kejia was willing, she was willing to share her experience with Cheng Kejia.
Cheng Kejia looked at the Han family with a happy expression on his face, and the Cheng family taught the juniors, there is this teaching method of knowing the source of food.
Cheng Kejia has always recognized the Cheng family's education direction, and she hopes that her children will have such a soil, and they can understand that food is not easy to come by since they were young, and they are willing to cherish the people and things around them.
Han is happy with Cheng Kejia's attitude, she can see that Cheng Kejia has never disliked her background.
The Han family naturally understands that the Cheng family has the intention to suppress her everywhere, but she never gives the Cheng family such a chance, the Han family never thinks that she is inferior because she was born in a peasant family, and she is not a woman crying and begging to marry into the Gu family.
Gu Youyi likes Han's attitude towards people, he and Han repeatedly show an appreciative attitude, and give his wife absolute affirmation from another aspect
Cheng Kejia likes Han's calm attitude, her maiden Cheng family ancestors are not very developed, I heard that the family was very poor at that time, but after the ancestors struggled one after another, the Cheng family will now come to the height of the family.
She once smiled and chatted with people: "There is actually no choice where people come from, but we can choose who we are good friends with." ”
Han likes to get along with Cheng Kejia, and Gu Youyi also agrees that she gets along with Cheng Kejia for a long time, and he also proposed to Han: "Lady, when you have free time, you should ask your sister-in-law more about reading and writing." ”
Han Shi blushed suddenly, when she was in her mother's house, she felt that she was a learned woman, she could know more than a hundred words, but after she married into the Gu family, she immediately understood that she only knew some words, and she had never understood learning.
She told Gu Youyi honestly and frankly, Gu Youyi just smiled after hearing it, and said, "I'm not a scholar, I can't answer you about it."
My sister-in-law's uncle and family are all in the business of teaching and educating people, you can ask her. ”
Therefore, Han chose a time that she thought was appropriate, and she asked Cheng Kejia very sincerely, and Cheng Kejia listened to her question, and she pondered very carefully for a while.
Cheng Kejia said to Han very sincerely: "Brother and sister, I really haven't thought about learning things. I read and write, but because of my family's arrangement, I need to study seriously.
I can't answer your question accurately, so I can't give random answers and mislead people. ”
Life is long, Cheng Kejia never thought that she would be the kind of person who can do learning, even the eldest master of the Zhuo family once said that he deeply admires the kind of person who really devotes himself to learning.
Han was a little surprised by Cheng Kejia's answer, in her heart, Cheng Kejia was a very learned woman, and she knew many things she didn't know.
Cheng Kejia therefore gave her a clear answer, saying, "Brother and sister, do you think I know a lot of things?"
In fact, I have copied the knowledge from books, I have never added any ideas to it, it is the essence of the experience of my predecessors, and I have learned to use it in my life. ”