Boys and girls want it
Mother Liu listened to her daughter's words and closed her mouth happily, of course she wanted a grandson.
But smiling and smiling, Liu Mu stopped laughing.
She said to Liu Xiaoai: "You girl, your dreams are all the opposite. When Xiaohu gave birth to his first child, you dreamed several times that you were a son, and you were born a girl. Don't talk nonsense this time. ”
Liu Xiaoai stuck out her tongue on the phone, but when her brother-in-law was pregnant for the first time, Liu Xiaoai had several dreams, dreaming that it was a boy in her belly, and even the child even named herself in the dream, everything was so real.
At that time, the Liu family believed it to be true, and thought that the child was dreaming of his aunt.
Because it was the first child at the time, the family didn't care about the boys and girls, and they didn't look for someone to check their gender.
As a result, she was born as a big girl.
The Liu family regretted it for a while, but quickly accepted it.
Liu's mother has a son and a daughter, and Liu Xiaoai got married a few years later than her younger brother because she went to college. So Liu Xiaohu's daughter is the first grandchild of Liu's father and Liu's mother.
Their love for the child has not been reduced by half a point because it is a girl, and the family is still very spoiled.
However, they still want a grandson, Liu Xiaohu is actually a northern man with a very feudal tradition, and he is also looking forward to having a son.
Although Liu Xiaoai is not patriarchal, she also hopes that her mother's family will have a boy in charge.
Liu Xiaoai's dream is not so much a dream for a child to her aunt, but a dream for herself day and night.
"Xiaohu's family is pregnant this time, try not to have a baby, and the son and daughter should have it. Now the sons and daughters are the same, which is different from the old society, and even the daughters are more popular than the sons. Liu Xiaoai comforted her mother.
It's one thing to think in my heart, but it's another thing to have a son or not.
Liu Mu said calmly on the other side of the phone: "Xiaohu's family said that this time I won't check whether it is a man or a woman." Both sons and daughters should be in good health. I won't say anything more to your dad. If they want, they can do it. ”
"That's fine."
Liu Xiaoai had to go to work and get up to make some breakfast, so she quickly hung up the phone with her mother and ended the conversation.
She has had two abortions herself, and she knows that even if the baby is not yet formed, she will often feel sad when she thinks about it after doing it.
Liu Xiaoai didn't think much about it before, but now she suddenly remembered that her brother-in-law's second child can check the gender, I'm afraid that the month is older and it has taken shape.
I heard that my brother-in-law cried for a long time after having a fetus, and I am afraid that I also know that the child has been formed, and the abortion is too cruel to the child.
Now my brother and daughter-in-law have told the family before they are ready to have a child, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as they are in good health, she will not ask for help, and if she goes to check on the boy and girl, she will give birth, and then she will not have another child.
In fact, the last child was also checked by herself and made a decision to kill it, and she should be worried that she would not be able to explain to her in-laws when she gave birth to two daughters. But after beating it, she regretted it bitterly.
But no one can blame this matter, she is in charge of it. Therefore, she can't blame others for all the regrets and blames.
Liu's father and mother have long accepted this reality, even if there is only one granddaughter, they will not say a word.