finally knew why Ye Lingbi didn't even bother to argue. Those accusations, he just listened, and Hang Erlang listened lazily, seemingly indifferently and never took it to heart, just listened and never defended.

Now understood.

Don't talk about Ye Lingbi, she is tired. It's not that I'm really tired, it's that I'm too lazy to argue with them anymore.

They only thought about themselves, how great they were, how much sacrifice they made, and what important things they gave up, they never thought about Ye Lingbi.

In the Ye family, no one really thought about Ye Lingbi.

There's nothing to argue with.

But there are some things that must be made clear.

can't let them hurt Ye Lingbi, but also feel that Ye Lingbi has no conscience, and he can't even care about the grace of nurturing, it is Ye Lingbi who hurts their hearts and disappoints them.

Mu Nian'an touched Ye Lingbi's cheek painfully, looked at him sideways, and tried to raise a smile for him: "Do you want me to continue?" If you're really tired, I won't quarrel with them. Let's go to Brother Jiu, let Quan Shaoting cook food for us, and let Brother Jiu make tea for us after eating. ”

But if Ye Lingbi really gave up on his relatives and didn't even bother to quarrel, then she wouldn't let him feel a little embarrassed and unhappy. No matter how much she can't bear it, she will suppress these words and emotions.

She just wanted to make Ye Lingbi happy. Ye Lingbi really doesn't care about these anymore, and there is no need for her to stand up for him. Because he doesn't care anymore.

The opposite of love is not hate, but not love, indifference, and not caring.

Ye Lingbi smiled: "Quarrel, it's all like this, let you suddenly stop, I can suffocate you to death." ”

He really didn't care. But she wants to stand up for herself, she wants to tell him all the grievances, unwillingness and grievances of those years, she feels sorry for herself.

She stood up for him, and he was her back.

It's as simple as that.

As long as she wants to do something, he will support her behind her.

Brother and sister are like that.

He said, "Hurry up and finish the quarrel, let's hurry home." ”

"I'm not going to quarrel with them." Mu Nian'an supported him with his body and leaned on his body, and the two of them became each other's support.

Ye Lingling angrily gouged out her eyes with hatred: "Mu Nian'an, you made our family restless, but now you want to leave." Are you using my dad as a tool for you to vent? Let me tell you, our Ye family can't tolerate your Quan family bullying like this. If you don't give me an explanation today, don't you think about ......"

"Lingling, shut up." Old Man Ye held Ye Lingling's arm hard, and his tone was blunt like never before.

What the hell does this have to do with the Ye family of the Quan family, what she said is a family matter, and it is a matter of Ye Lingbi and his relatives. The right family and the Ye family who pulled a few handfuls. She is Ye Lingbi's sister, what the hell does this have to do with the Quan family?

Mu Nian'an endured it for a long time, but he still couldn't hold back, and said bitterly: "It's quite slippery in politics class, Ye Lingling, you all know that personal problems have been raised to the class level." The Quan family bullied the Ye family, why don't you say that I bullied the old chief, that I insulted the incumbent soldiers, and directly sent me to a military court? ”

If it weren't for the wrong atmosphere, Ye Lingbi would definitely have to laugh out loud, lying on her back and laughing.

Ye Weikang took a step forward, and Ye Lingbi hugged her tightly vigilantly. Seeing this, Ye Weikang didn't move again, standing in place, and his tone was angry: "I can pretend that I didn't hear anything else." But you just said that his mother didn't feel sorry for him, Mu Nian'an, apologize. Apologize to Ye Lingbi's mother. ”

"I'm not wrong, I don't apologize." patting Ye Lingbi's cheek and signaling him not to worry about himself, Mu Nianan looked at Ye Weikang's eyes that suppressed anger.

took a deep breath and said word by word: "Teacher Chen cares about Ye Lingbi, but she cares about you more." Compared to her son, Ms. Chen loves her husband more. She only felt sorry for her husband and put herself in his shoes, she didn't put herself in the same shoes for her son. I said that she didn't feel sorry for Ye Lingbi, and I wasn't wrong. At least, I said that Teacher Chen didn't feel sorry for Ye Lingbi like she felt sorry for her husband, and I wasn't wrong. ”

In his ears, there was a faint sigh from Ye Lingbi. It seems to be aggrieved, it seems to be helpless, it seems to be forbearing, and it seems to be understandable, and it is extremely complicated.

Mu Nian'an's eyelids twitched, and he didn't dare to mention Teacher Chen more, just looked at the old man's majestic face: "You only blindly impose the responsibilities of the Ye family and the Ye family on Ye Lingbi." He is the son of the Ye family, and you think that he should inherit the mantle and become a soldier like his father and grandfather, which is understandable. I'm not qualified to say anything more about that. ”

She looked at Ye Weikang again: "You all think it's Ye Lingbi's fault, I just want to ask you, how old was Ye Lingbi when the accident happened?" He was just a little kid, a little older than Biscuit. Why do you have to make him understand the sacrifices and trade-offs of soldiers? He doesn't understand, it's that he's wrong, why? Is there a problem that children can't understand the trade-offs and sacrifices of soldiers? Why are you accusing Ye Lingbi one by one, and forcing him to understand. There can be no reluctance yet, you must understand from the bottom of your heart, and then accept it. ”

Ye Weikang's pupils twitched suddenly, and he slowly looked at his son, who was still frivolous and dissolute, and looked like a gentleman.

Mu Nian'an's tone trembled a little: "Ye Lingbi is just a child, in his heart, he only knows that because his father killed his favorite mother, and his father should have protected his mother." His dad can protect the whole country, but he can't protect his mom, why can't he blame his dad? Why can't he be mad at his dad? Why can't he hate his dad? And not only is he deprived of the right to anger, but you also treat him as an adult, forcing him to understand his father's choices and sacrifices. ”

Ye Lingling, who had been struggling desperately in the old man's arms, suddenly became quiet. The old man had already let go of her hands, and she was still obediently motionless.

In the huge villa without too much furniture on display, only Mu Nian'an was forbearing, trembling, depressed, and sobbing with a questioning voice.

"Why? I will ask you, "Why do you?" Why did you treat Ye Lingbi like this, and why did you accuse him for so many years? You are his relatives, his trusted relatives in the world, you should understand him and tolerate him, right? If you don't tolerate or understand Ye Lingbi, why do you want a child to tolerate you and understand you? ”

"Isn't it wrong not to understand the sacrifice and dedication of soldiers? Not to mention that the child's Ye Lingbi can't understand it, and even now I can't agree. That's my mom and dad, my favorite mom, my most admired dad. Why should I dedicate my life to the birth and death of my father for the sake of irrelevant people? Let my mother be affected by this, and endure the piercing pain day and night? I just want my mom and dad to be with me safely, is there a problem? ”

Old Man Ye closed his eyes painfully and let out a long sigh: "An An, but you know that some responsibilities have to be borne by someone." If everyone is like you, then who ......"

"Is that the point?" Mu Nianan shook his head in disappointment: "You still think about the glory of the Ye family, the vocation of a soldier." That's not what I'm talking to you, old man. It's Ye Lingbi. Everyone's thoughts are different, it's not wrong, it's normal. Just because Ye Lingbi can't become the same person as you, you accuse him of wishful thinking and want to be disappointed in him, feeling that Ye Lingbi has failed your expectations and teachings. Don't you think, are you too cruel to Ye Lingbi? ”

What she blamed was never Ye Weikang's choice, nor was it the concept of the Ye family.

She admired Ye Weikang and the old man, very much. Because of their sacrifice and dedication, she was able to lie on the bed in the air-conditioned room, holding her mobile phone, scrolling through Weibo, eating fruits, and watching gossip.

There are no quiet years, but someone carries the weight for you.

That's right. Ye Weikang deserves to be respected.

But as a father, Ye Weikang owes his family and son more than a star.

What is the saying? Since ancient times, loyalty and righteousness have been difficult to achieve.

Ye Weikang chose the vocation of a soldier and was ashamed of his son. Ye Weikang is not wrong, it is just his choice. But why does Ye Weikang want children who are not yet ten years old to understand their choices?

Ye Weikang's fault, the Ye family's fault, it is not that they chose the vocation of a soldier and gave up their family, it was they who forced Ye Lingbi to understand them with a lofty attitude!

"Do you love Ye Lingbi? If you really love Ye Lingbi, you will stand in Ye Lingbi's perspective and put yourself in his shoes to think about his thoughts. Is Ye Lingbi's idea very profound? Mu Nianan shook his head slowly, his heart twitching and aching.

She bit her lip to prevent herself from crying in embarrassment: "No, his thoughts are not profound at all. You don't even need to spend too much thought, you just need to think about it from Ye Lingbi's point of view, and you will understand. But you don't, all you think about is how great your sacrifice is, how worthy of praise and respect, and none of you have thought about it for Ye Lingbi. I said that no one in your Ye family felt sorry for Ye Lingbi, and I was not wrong. ”

Even Teacher Chen, who felt so sorry for Ye Lingbi, she didn't think about Ye Lingbi. Mr. Chen loves Ye Weikang more than Ye Lingbi.

Teacher Chen also takes it for granted that Ye Lingbi is the son of the Ye family, his surname is Ye, he is the son of Ye Weikang, he was born to understand the vocation of a soldier, and he should dedicate and sacrifice.

It doesn't make sense.

Whether to understand or not, what to choose, is the behavior of adults. It's not a problem for children!

Why didn't anyone think that Ye Lingbi was just a child who was no more than two years older than a biscuit?

Why does Ye Lingbi, who is not yet ten years old, have to understand these questions?

Why?

Are these questions difficult to understand? She also drilled the tip of the horns, and the ninth brother also misunderstood, everyone thought that the knot and problem between Ye Lingbi and the Ye family was that Ye Lingbi could not agree with the Ye family's choice. But after watching the movie "Ordinary Heroes", she suddenly realized.

At the end of the movie, the son of the fire captain also becomes a firefighter. He would fight alongside his father and rush into the flames.

But he still can't forgive his father.

He hated his father, who was a firefighter, but he eventually became a firefighter as well.

There is no conflict between not being able to forgive his father and his voluntary choice to become a firefighter.

She is not even Ye Lingbi's relatives, she can come out of the horns and see clearly what Ye Lingbi's heart knot is, they are Ye Lingbi's relatives, why can't they understand?

It's not that they are stupid and can't understand, it's that they don't really want to understand Ye Lingbi at all.