Yu Moqin was pushed away by Wen Niannian, then turned around and went to the bathroom to take a shower, and when he changed his clothes and washed off, he came out exhausted, and he nested next to Wen Niannian, intending to sleep with her.

It's just that Wen Niannian suddenly became interested again, and wanted to continue the conversation, she had just talked a lot with Yu Moqin, and felt that he really had a very correct concept, and suddenly became interested, so she wanted to ask him how he would teach their children in the future.

"You are now as serious about Yu Jinming as you are your own child, so if our child is born, will you also use this concept to teach him? I'm really looking forward to what you'll be like when you're a dad, and I don't know if it's going to be strict. ”

Wen Niannian has fantasized countless times, when the child in her belly is born, what kind of mentality will Yu Moqin have to educate him?

In fact, this has always been a question worth pondering, whether it is a strict father and a loving mother or a strict mother and a loving father, she thinks that there must always be one who sings red face and one who sings white face.

Otherwise, if both of them are strict, how tired the child's life will be, but if both of them are too kind, it will only encourage some unhealthy tendencies.

In fact, Yu Moqin also seriously thought about the same problem, he thought that he should still be stricter, but the specific decision still depends on the character.

After all, this matter is not as simple as imagined, "I think it still depends on what our child's personality looks like, many times we still have to prescribe the right medicine, we can't be too harsh, and we can't be too soft-hearted, otherwise there will be a negative impact, I still hope that my child can be carefree, and I don't want to put too much pressure on him since he was a child." "Housekeeper

They are capable families themselves, so their children can live better than other children anyway, but standing at such a height also has to bear some pressure that ordinary children can't bear.

Just like Yu Moqin has had high hopes since he was a child, but it is precisely because of Yu Moqin's personal experience that he will not impose these on his children.

He wants to let his children play freely in the future, who can know what will happen in the future? After all, there's still a long way to go.

"I think it's normal to want your son to become a dragon and a woman to become a phoenix, but I don't want to put so much pressure on my child, wait until it's a long time, look at his own wishes, after all, your childhood doesn't seem to be very happy, and I don't want my child to repeat the mistakes of the past." Wen Niannian said, and suddenly remembered Yu Moqin's claustrophobia that he hadn't had for a long time.

In fact, the doctor had been contacting her before, but later she saw that Yu Moqin had not relapsed, and the adjustment was very good, so she did not continue to force Yu Moqin to do things she didn't like to do.

This matter also slowly dissipated in their ignorance, which Yu Moqin was also aware of.

"It's because I've already experienced these things, and there are precedents, that I don't want me to force my child to do things he doesn't like to do, let's let him develop freely, as long as he doesn't indulge too much, let him develop an arrogant temperament, we can be considered a successful pair of parents."

After speaking, Yu Moqin gently put his hand on Wen Niannian's stomach, he closed his eyes as if he was feeling the existence of his child, it was hard to imagine that a new life was about to be added to their family.

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