Chapter 258: Gratitude Is Not Feelings
"Aunt Jenny, I'll go for a walk outside with Duoduo." After He Nuan finished speaking, he pulled Qian Duoduo out of the living room, Jenny just nodded politely, and then continued to talk to Joe.
Andre's house has a very beautiful big garden, and there is a fountain that sprays water 24 hours a day, which is beautiful, but unfortunately He Nuan and Qian Duoduo are not in the mood to appreciate it now.
"Duoduo, how do I feel that you are so weak when you face Jenny, I have never seen you so cowardly since I was a child." He Nuan felt that it was right that Qian Duoduo wanted to get along with Jenny, but it was wrong to be too careful to please, and now Qian Duoduo obviously has a problem with his mentality.
Qian Duoduo can be regarded as a baby raised by She Nuan, and she is still raised so well, so she can't watch her develop in the direction of a little daughter-in-law now, right?
Qian Duoduo pouted, "Where is the cowardice, I just want to get along with Andre's mother for the sake of Andre's face, and I don't want to add numbness to him." Otherwise, because she and Jenny don't get along well, Andre will have a lot of difficulties.
"Duoduo, you look at me." He Nuan held Qian Duoduo's face, looked at her eyes flying, and sighed.
"Duoduo, if you want to go down with Andre, then you have to have this mentality." Qian Duoduo was stunned for a moment, a little didn't understand what He Nuan meant, He Nuan pulled Qian Duoduo to sit down at the fountain, and the fragrance of flowers around them made them feel a lot more relaxed.
"Duoduo, Andre likes you, you know that, so now even if you are with him because you are grateful to him, Andre will not feel anything, and even because your guilt still has a promoting effect on your relationship in the early stage.
But Duoduo, you also know that guilt can't replace love, and gratitude is not feelings. When you go further, Andrei will be greedy, the more he likes you, the more greedy he will become, I hope you can like him, and if you keep getting along with him and his family with guilt, you will be tired after a long time, especially when you can't respond to Andrei's feelings, you will be even more tired, and Andrei will not be happy. ”
Qian Duoduo and Andre didn't have problems before, on the one hand, they were just together, it was still the honeymoon period, and Duoduo was too busy at that time, so neither of them found this problem, or ignored it.
But as time progresses, this problem will slowly become apparent, especially Qian Duoduo and Andre were not completely without problems before, Jenny and his family's dissatisfaction with Duoduo, Xi Hexuan's refusal to let go, this will affect their feelings.
If Qian Duoduo doesn't face up to this problem, they won't choose to let go first, so you can imagine what it will become in the future, He Nuan doesn't want Qian Duoduo to end up sad in the end.
"Duoduo, Andre doesn't need your guilt, and you don't need guilt, you can be grateful to him, but you can't always treat gratitude as an emotion.
Also, you don't have to feel sorry for Jenny all the time, Duoduo, you can work hard to have a good relationship with Jenny for Andre, but you can't put yourself very low because of the guilt in your heart, otherwise Andre won't be happy. "Qian Duoduo has always had many disasters, so He Nuan hopes that she can be happy instead of trapping herself to death.
Qian Duoduo pursed his lips and was silent, looking at He Nuan who didn't know what to say, He Nuan touched her head, "Duoduo, only you can figure out emotional matters yourself, and no one can help you, but everyone hopes that you can be happy, for sure." ”
Qian Duoduo nodded, she understood what He Nuan meant, and she would think about it, looking at the lights on the upstairs guest room and turning her head to look at He Nuan, "Nuan Nuan, Shen Rongjin and Ye Jingshen, what do you think?" ”
He Nuan sighed, "I don't know, my heart is upset, so I want to wait a little longer, time will give me the answer." Qian Duoduo looked at He Nuan with some worry, she didn't know what to say, so neither of them was talking but looked at the fountain and didn't know what they were thinking.
After coming over for a long time, Qian Duoduo got up and stretched his waist, "Forget it, I don't want to, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, it's not a big deal to get off the boat, it's useless to think so much, it's late, let's go to sleep." ”
He Nuan looked at the time and didn't speak, but went back to the room with Qian Duoduo, and when he passed by Shen Rongjin's bedroom, there was a faint light inside, He Nuan didn't bother him, but saw Ye Jingshen on the opposite side open the door and come out.
"Is Nuan Nuan going to rest?"
"Well, Brother Jing Shen is done?"
"No, those unconscious people are really speechless, I just heard the footsteps and came out to see, looking at you I can feel much better, and then I have enough energy to scold them." Ye Jingshen leaned against the door and said with a smile, looking like he wanted to see He Nuan's beautiful face to continue his life.
He Nuan sneered, "Just look at it, I can't imagine that I still have this effect, it seems that I will have to look in the mirror more when I am collapsed by prisoners in the future." He Nuan also joked, and the two of them laughed a few words and went back to their rooms.
Shen Rongjin let go of the doorknob, didn't push the door out, listened to the sound of the door and went back to work, but his face became colder and colder under the light.
Early the next morning, He Nuan really blocked Qian Duoduo at the door who wanted to secretly go horseback riding, Qian Duoduo looked at He Nuan and smiled a little embarrassed, "Nuan Nuan, why did you get up so early?" "Let's search for books
"Wait for you, yesterday you had to go to bed early in the morning, obviously because you wanted to steal to ride the cold snow, and sure enough, I caught you here." He Nuan looked at Qian Duoduo, who was dressed in a snow-white riding suit, and glared at her a few times with a flattering smile.
"Hehe, let's go together, if those few wake up, it will be inconvenient for us to do what we want to do." He Nuan was dressed in a fiery red riding outfit, and Qian Duoduo knew that she was not here to stop her.
"It's okay to ride a horse, but you can't ride cold snow."
"Why, I was already familiar with the cold snow yesterday." Qian Duoduo is not convinced.
"I think Leng Xue likes me more than you, so don't think about it, that maroon pony is good, that's it." He Nuan and Qian Duoduo said as they came to the racecourse.
Leng Xue saw He Nuan greeting happily, completely ignoring Qian Duoduo, Qian Duoduo came to Leng Xue's side to make friends, "Leng Xue, let's go out for a run together, okay, can you take care of me, if you agree, no." ”
He Nuan looked at Qian Duoduo who was talking to Leng Xue and smiled angrily, Leng Xue ignored Qian Duoduo and still tried to get to He Nuan, He Nuan touched Leng Xue's head.
"Cold snow, my skills are not good, when my riding skills are better, we will play together." He Nuan said that she wanted to pull the little black horse she took a fancy to yesterday, and then found that the hem of her clothes was bitten by Leng Xue, and it was obvious that Leng Xue wanted to be with He Nuan.
"Leng Xue, Nuan Nuan doesn't want me to be willing, you see my riding outfit today, how much match you are." Qian Duoduo didn't give up, in order to make Leng Xue like her, she also deliberately painted a makeup today, which is absolutely beautiful, and she will definitely be able to suppress He Nuan without makeup, but she was not ready yesterday.
"Nope." Without waiting for He Nuan to refute, Xi Hexuan walked up quickly and then put his coat on Qian Duoduo.
"What do you do, I'm not cold." Qian Duoduo wanted to return the clothes to Xi Hexuan, Suddenly his face suddenly stiffened, and then he became popular, her good friend seems to be here, the key is that she is wearing a snow-white riding uniform today, now?
"I'll send Duoduo back first." Xi Hexuan said to Shen Rongjin that He Nuan also wanted to leave, but Qian Duoduo said that it was okay to let He Nuan have fun, and Leng Xue was still biting the hem of her clothes, so He Nuan could only watch Qian Duoduo and Xi Hexuan leave.
Qian Duoduo didn't feel anything before, but this time the good friend came a little early, not to mention that her stomach is still hurting, could it be that she has been on fire recently?
Xi Hexuan found that Qian Duoduo was sweating a little on her face, and knew that she was not feeling well, so she picked up Qian Duoduo horizontally, and was suddenly hugged by the princess, Qian Duoduo was a little stunned.
"Xi Hexuan, what are you doing? I can walk on my own. Put me down. Qian Duoduo wanted to struggle and was suddenly slapped under Xi Hexuan's buttocks, and then the two of them were stunned, both of them were a little unnatural.
"Ahem, how many grapes did you eat yesterday? Grape cold, plus I ate a cold drink at night, who is to blame for the stomach ache now? Be obedient, I'll send you back. ”
Although Xi Hexuan's expression was still a little unnatural, the hand holding Qian Duoduo did not relax, Qian Duoduo was also really in pain, and no matter what she said, Xi Hexuan would not listen, so he closed his eyes and pretended not to see.
Andre was called by Jenny to speak in the morning, and as soon as he came out, he saw Xi Hexuan coming in with Qian Duoduo in his arms, his face was ugly for a moment, but he looked at Qian Duoduo's pale little face and was suddenly worried.
"Duoduo, what's wrong with you, what's wrong?" After that, he stretched out his hand and wanted to take Qian Duoduo over, but was avoided by Xi Hexuan, Qian Duoduo found that there was something wrong between the two and struggled to get off the ground, Xi Hexuan pursed his lips and did not refuse.
"It's nothing, it's just not comfortable, I'll go upstairs first." Xi Hexuan looked at Qian Duoduo and did not return Xi Hexuan's clothes to him, but pulled them a little unnaturally, and suddenly blessed his heart.
"Okay, you have a good rest, I'll let the kitchen boil some ginger soup for you." Qian Duoduo knew that he had guessed his situation when he heard Andre say this, so his face was a little bloody, and he said I will go back to the room and run away.
Andre looked at Xi Hexuan and didn't speak, but turned around and went to the kitchen, Xi Hexuan's eyes narrowed, and he saw that Qiao in the corner of the upstairs seemed to have been paying attention to them, and Qiao was not embarrassed when he was discovered, but smiled at Xi Hexuan and went back to the house.
It's just that Qiao, who returned to the house, didn't look good, and his fists were clenched tightly, as if he was a pity and seemed to be a little worried. On the other side, Shen Rongjin watched He Nuan being bitten by the cold snow, thought about it and said, "Otherwise, you can ride it, I'll follow you, it's okay." ”
Leng Xue seemed to like He Nuan very much, and should take care of her, He Nuan couldn't bear to refuse Leng Xue, who had been looking at her with big watery eyes, nodded, and the two rode through the forest together, the fresh air made He Nuan feel a lot more energetic, and the smile on his face was also a lot more real.