In any culture, as long as the form is greater than the content, it must use the color of the form to cover up the emptiness and paleness of the content.

Think about it, is the love we give to our children equal to the love we give to our parents? The answer is no, we can give everything we have to our children, but we spend very little money on our parents. Is this fair?

It is obviously not enough for our parents to raise us with the love of their lives, and we only show our love when our parents are gone. We can spend less energy on funeral culture, but we can't overstate the material and spiritual support of our parents. Just do your best, you don't have to do so many tricks. It is a good thing to make culture a tradition, but it must be a healthy, positive and rational culture with some spiritual nourishment.

The waste on the wine table is shocking, it happens every day, everyone has an inseparable relationship, the extravagance and waste on the wine table is not right, it is definitely not right, but some people just don't change. When you are poor, you don't have enough to eat, you are poor, and you are extremely pitiful, and once you have a few money in your pocket, you start to waste it extravagantly and show off, and some people also talk about it as a culture. Not ashamed, but proud. There is indeed something to be proud of on the tip of the tongue, but what is exposed is impetuousness, stupidity, shallowness, vanity and ugliness.

Traditional culture is a good thing because they are a precious legacy left to us by our ancestors, but we should take the essence of its inner and not live with its shell all day long.

It's time to take a good reckoning with the so-called culture. The essence should be left behind, and the dross should be removed. Leave the authentic and remove the disguised and blurred.

"If they hadn't given me away, the trajectory of my life wouldn't have changed so much, I admit that Abba and Aunt are really good to me, and I am grateful to them from the bottom of my heart, as well as the two brothers, Tashi and Hul, they are very good to me, but this can't soothe the pain in my heart." ”

"If you don't know, that's it, but I know. Now that I know, I can't lie to myself, I have to follow my own heart to move forward, since I know my own background, I don't want to go on according to the fate they arranged for me. ”

"They have changed my destiny, and I will change theirs. Maybe that's my life! It should also be their fate. So, I don't regret it at all now, I've done what I had to do. ”

"It's not entirely their fault, they're too deeply influenced by feudal culture."

"But after all, they did it, a weak life came to this world and needed the care and care of his relatives, but they deprived him of the rights he should enjoy, and they regarded me as the bane of the calamity - cursed me, except for the marks on my body, they never left anything behind, and cut me off from the Wang family." Descending Yang Gaya gritted his teeth, angry flames erupted from his eyes, and he kept waving his right hand, and two green tendons bloomed on his temples.

"My only regret is that I can't point to their noses in front of them and shame them for their stupid and cruel actions. This is their retribution, the old man and Wang Hongbao have already gone to hell, and the old woman is about to go to reunite with them, and the family of three will soon be reunited in the underworld. ”

It's a very vicious curse.

Zhao Zimeng did not interrupt Yang Gaya's words, if he did not let Yang Gaya vent all the things that had accumulated in his heart, the subsequent interrogation could not be carried out.

"I heard you've served a prison sentence?"

"The trajectory of my life has changed a lot since I knew where I was born, and I know it's not good, but I can't control my emotions. Abba and Grandma have always been very nice to me. ”

"After Abba and Grandma have two younger brothers, they are still very good to me, I am happier than all children, I have been strong since I was a child, and my personality is quirky, I don't mean to complain about Abba and Grandma, I have a lot of responsibility for myself, and I can't control this thing by myself."

"My two younger brothers usually let me, no matter what kind of things happen, they blindly let me. This made my personality more and more perverse and more distorted. I know it's bad, but I can't change my personality. ”

"Even if I wanted to change my personality, I wouldn't have a chance."

"What do you mean by that?"

"The long prison life has not changed my personality, but has made me even worse and more perverse. Look at this scar on my temple—"

Do you remember? There is a scar above the right temple of Jianyang Gaya, when Zhao Zimeng, Linghu Yunfei, Xiang Daimo and Jianyang Gaya first met, Jianyang Gaya said that this scar was knocked on the bed frame by him because he was drunk in Ma Po Nunnery.

"What the hell is going on with this scar?"

"This scar was caused by a fight with my roommate while I was serving my sentence, and in addition to this, I also broke one of my ribs."

"When I was at home, my aunt and grandmother spoiled me, and my two younger brothers let me, so it was different in prison."

"When I first went, I had a fellow inmate who had been sentenced to 11 years in the same name, and his nickname was Huo Yama. I don't know he's the boss, the living Yama will let me do this, and I will let me do that, when I was at home, who instructed me! I didn't accept it, but I still endured it, and several other inmates listened to Yama, don't heroes suffer immediate losses? But he had to inch in, slander my things, and search my body. ”

"Why do you want to scam your things and search your body?"

"Once, when Abba and Grandma visited the prison, Abba brought me two cigarettes, and Grandma also put a few hundred dollars in my trouser pocket, and the living Yama snatched my cigarettes, and wanted to take those hundreds of dollars——"

He took a puff of his cigarette and said, "W-can I agree?" As soon as I said a 'no', the living Yama and a few other people rushed up, pinned me to the ground, and covered my mouth. The scar on my temple was left at that time. ”

"Don't you care about disciplining cadres?"

"Living Yama threatened me that if I told the correctional cadres, he would put me to death, and I told the correctional cadres that I accidentally broke it. But I'm not admitting defeat, I'm waiting for my chance. ”

This is more in line with the character of Jianyang Gaya.

"They were too bullying to let me sleep on the bunk — they made me sleep on the concrete floor. I couldn't sleep all night. One night, when they were all asleep, I got up from the ground, picked up the commode and smashed it on the boss's head, and he rolled over, but instead of smashing it, I just splashed dung on him. ”

"A couple of men got up from the bunk, pinned me to the ground and beat me so hard that I broke a rib. When the correctional cadres arrived, they let go. Later, the living Yama was transferred to another trumpet. After this incident, I finally understood a truth. ”

"What do you understand?"

"People are bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, and the hard are afraid of the horizontal. The other inmates were all soft eggs, and without the living Yama to give them courage, they all turned into pustules and soft eggs. ”

"You mean you became the boss?"

"I don't want to be the boss, but I can't help it, if you are soft, others will bully you, so I have to be more ruthless than them. I won't do anything illegal, but if anyone dares to bully me, then don't blame me for being ruthless. As long as we can get along, we don't want to break the rules in prison, I don't want to stay in that kind of hell place forever, I still have something important to do? ”

"Something very important to do? Are you referring to revenge on the royal family? ”

"Captain Zhao is right, originally, I wanted to find a chance to take revenge, after a long and difficult period in prison, my desire for revenge became even stronger - if they hadn't rashly changed the trajectory of my life, I wouldn't have taken such a detour and suffered like that."

Jianyang Gaya's thoughts are extremely extreme, and his psychology is also seriously distorted, which has a lot to do with his perverse and distorted personality that he has formed for a long time.

There is a very good saying: character determines destiny. There is no doubt that his twisted and extreme psychology and perverse personality led him to a point of no return.

"When did you start eyeing Wang Hongbao?"

"After I was released from prison, I didn't go back to Kangding directly. I spent some time in Honghe Town. ”

"What are you doing in Honghe Town?"

"Learn about Wang Hongbao's situation."

"Are you preparing to kill and replace Wang Hongbao?"

"Yes, as a result, Wang Hongbao's life is relatively easy, and it is not easy to replace Wang Hongbao, so we must find out all the circumstances related to Wang Hongbao - especially some details, and understand them as clearly as possible."

"How long have you been in Honghe Town?"

"More than a month."

"Who did you talk to about the situation?"

"Daddy Liu—it's mainly the midwife's man, Daddy Liu."

"Did you ask someone for help?"

"No, this time I went directly to Daddy Liu."

"Aren't you afraid that Daddy Liu will recognize you? You look exactly like Wang Hongbao, and he can easily tell it. ”

"I made up my makeup."

"Makeup?"

"Yes, I wore a wig and glasses, and I had some mustaches on my lips and chin, and although I looked exactly like Wang Hongbao, I had a very different skin from him, and I was in prison – working in the sun every day, so my skin was very dark. As long as I don't want him to see it, he won't see the flaw. Besides, as soon as Daddy Liu drank the wine, he threw everything behind his head. I invited him to a small restaurant. ”

"You must have a proper identity to get close to the old man!"

Suddenly entering the life of the elderly will be more abrupt.