Chapter 734: Family Portrait
Dad still needs to be coaxed, but Yun thinks about it, don't get together to cut the land and pay compensation, whose man will do it himself.
"You're getting less and less right." Su Xiuling poked her daughter's forehead, although she was smiling and scolding, she couldn't hide the joy in her eyes.
Yun Xiangxiang has been quiet since she was a child, and she and her husband have always thought that this is her nature.
It wasn't until I happened to see her frolicking with her classmates, laughing heartily, and even scolding when she was angry, that I realized that she was actually just restrained in front of them.
At that time, Su Xiuling was actually quite sad in her heart, her own children released their nature in front of outsiders, but they were disguised in front of them.
She knows that the vast majority of children are like this, because they have a sense of reverence for their parents and elders, and are afraid of being criticized and disapproved by them.
Yun Zhibin is a serious person again, the child does not take the initiative, it is impossible for him to giggle with the child like a peer first, Su Xiuling has worked hard, but the effect is not great, Yun Xiangxiang still sticks to his own world and does not open it to them.
So much so that in Yun Xiangxiang's heart, Yun Zhibin is a stern person, so he didn't understand her father's tactful coquettishness and wanted to be coaxed by his daughter.
It is rare for Yun Zhibin to make such a change, but unfortunately Yun Xiangxiang didn't react, and he would return to his room at this time, feeling faceless.
I guess I was also annoyed by my own behavior just now.
"If you get into trouble, you can settle it yourself." Su Xiuling didn't plan to help, let their father and daughter talk on their own.
Seeing that my daughter is getting older day by day, I am afraid that she will not be able to stay for a few years, and she will be able to get along with each other and have fewer and fewer opportunities to talk to her heart.
"Mom~" Yun thought about trying to be coquettish.
"You think you're still such a little mother as Yunting." Su Xiuling touched her pretty little face, "Although this face is very beautiful, it is past the age of being cute and soft-hearted, don't use it to deceive me, go quickly." ”
Pushed by Su Xiuling, Yun wanted to think about it to make sure that Su Xiuling was iron-hearted, and in the end she could only regard death as home, and walked to the side slowly, and only knocked on the door after being mentally prepared: "Dad......"
"Please come in." Yun Zhibin didn't lose his temper.
Yun wanted to push the door in, and saw Yun Zhibin sitting in front of the dresser, holding two photo frames, she hesitated and walked up: "I'm sorry, Dad." ”
"Why apologize?" Yun Zhibin raised his head and looked at her.
"I ......," Yun thought about for a moment.
It can't be said that she didn't expect her father, who has always been old-fashioned, to be spoiled to her, right?
It's not good to say this, but if you don't say it, Yun can't tell a lie even if she thinks about it, to answer why she apologizes.
"Think about it, was Dad too you before?" When Yun wanted to rack his brains, Yun Zhibin took the initiative to ask.
Although Yun Zhibin is pedantic, he has really been serious since he was a child, especially in the case of Su Xiuling's gentleness, he has always believed that educating children requires one to sing red face and one to sing white, and he has always played such a role with Su Xiuling.
It wasn't until four years ago that Yun Xiang Xiang took sleeping pills that he suddenly woke up and had more reflection, and he tried to adjust his treatment according to his daughter's age.
The change that Yun thought about was also in his eyes, and she became cheerful and reasonable. So they got along more and more harmoniously.
But freezing three feet is not a day's cold, the inherent image of more than ten years, where can be changed overnight, and his daughter treats him and his wife with a completely different attitude.
Sometimes Yun Zhibin's heart also feels a little sour, and then he laughs at himself and cares about a child.
The wife said that children are indeed always children, but parents should have the courage to accept them in front of them to grow up, start not to influence them, and recognize them more.
Yun Zhibin began to learn how to put him and his grown up daughter on an equal footing in many ways, and not to put up the shelf of the elders.
But he was working hard, and he was very decadent to find that his daughter didn't seem to want to accept it. Maybe he feels awkward about such a change.
I can't tell you what it feels like in my heart, it's sour and astringent, and it's very uncomfortable.
"Dad, if you had asked me such a thing four years ago, I might have been silent, and I would definitely not tell you the truth, you have always been in awe and fear in my heart."
After a pause, Yun Xiangxiang walked to the chair diagonally opposite Yun Zhibin and sat down.
"But now that you're asking me that, I'm going to tell you the truth, that ingrained images don't change overnight.
But I'm very happy and happy, my dad, he will be willing to reflect on me and change himself.
I also want to be honest with you, as I grew up, I can understand how much you have given and loved me.
Maybe at a certain stage, it wasn't what I wanted, but it did make me a great person.
I am not a parent yet, I don't understand the hard work and hardships of being a parent, and I can't imagine what kind of mother I will become in the future.
But after I saw and understood more, I knew very well that the nature of children cannot be stifled, but they cannot be indulged unlimitedly. ”
Not to mention children, even if they are adults, they will become lawless without a little reverence.
Therefore, Yun Zhibin's severity is absolutely correct, at least Yun Xiangxiang and Yun Lin have no moral and moral defects, thanks to Yun Zhibin.
Yun thought about his sincere and heartfelt words, which made Yun Zhibin very moved.
She smiled at Yun Zhibin with crooked eyebrows: "Dad, for you, I will always have only gratitude and love." But you want to get along with me differently......"
Winking playfully, Yun thought about it and continued: "Who made me my daughter, I will suffer a little and accommodate you." ”
"You accommodate me!" Yun Zhibin, who was moved by pantothenic acid in his eyes one second, was on the verge of exploding the next second.
Who is accommodating whom!
Yun Xiang stepped up squeamishly and changed the subject: "Dad, what are you looking at?" ”
Yun Zhibin handed over the two photos: "Your photos." ”
Two photos, one is Yun Xiangxiang and Yun Lin's siblings and parents, and this photo is still taken by Yun Xiangxiang during the summer vacation before going to high school.
The other is only Yun Lin and Yun Ting and his parents, Yun Xiang Xiang saw two photos, only to find that after Yun Ting was born, she has been busy with various things, and she has been getting together with her family less and more often.
Their family didn't even have a family photo.
Yun Xiangxiang had an idea and grabbed Yun Zhibin's arm: "Dad, let's take a family photo, just in our living room." ”
After finishing speaking, he ran out and stood on the escalator and shouted to Su Xiuling below: "Take a family photo?"
"What? Photograph? I'll go see my hairstyle first! Yunlin, a stinky and beautiful child, immediately ran to his room.