After-dinner entertainment, singing karaoke.

The mode is that a group of people order a private room, use a very original VDV color TV, and choose songs to sing.

Tang Mingyao and the others walked into the booked private room and found that there were dozens of pirated CDs stacked on the DVD, each of which had a track on the cover, but they didn't have to worry about being confused.

Singing is very interesting, and many people talk about it quite openly at the dinner table, but when they get here, they will stop the food directly, and let them resolutely not order when ordering songs, and Cheng will sit and watch the play.

There were twelve people in their group, one of whom left early, and eleven people remained.

When singing, only six people took turns singing, and the remaining five sat still.

When they were asked, they said, "I won't!" Didn't sing! Don't be ugly! Feel free to do so! Leave us alone......

Tang Mingyao sat on the sofa and fell into observation mode.

He was wondering, what kind of mentality did these people who like to sing have when they were willing to sing in front of everyone? It doesn't seem to be judged by the level of singing skills.

Some people dare to sing when the ghost cries and the wolf howls; But some people actually don't sing badly, but they just don't dare to speak.

After observing for a while, Tang Mingyao roughly understood the law.

If a person is optimistic, cheerful and confident, he is not afraid of making a fool of himself in front of outsiders, and he dares to sing even if he sings poorly; Usually more introverted, sensitive inside, unless you really sing well, you basically won't speak.

In a word: whether you dare to speak or not is directly proportional to your self-confidence.

was pondering, and suddenly everyone began to coax, asking Luo Wenxi to sing a song with him.

Tang Mingyao is not a person with stage fright, Luo Wenxi is also generous, the two chose a song "Crystal", looked at each other and finished singing, and everyone else had goosebumps.

After coming down, Tang Mingyao felt very good, and felt that the two of them were not ugly to sing, at least they were qualified, and Luo Wenxi still had a bit of potential to be a Maiba.

Next, a group of people coaxed each other, and asked others to sing some more difficult songs, and in the end, Tang Mingyao was recruited again, and was forced to sing two songs by his 25-year-old single sister, one "Don't be afraid of me being sad", and one song, "The People I Love and the People Who Love Me".

Tang Mingyao finished singing with tears in his eyes, because the lyrics of these two songs were too abusive, and he received deep malice from a single dog.

When the KTV ended, it was already past eleven o'clock at night.

Luo Wenxi walked in front, and when the others went out, he stuffed a red envelope into each of the clerks in the coffee shop, and said: "This time the costume design, you can only win the award with everyone's help, except for tonight's food and play, we will share the rest of the money together, please don't shirk it." ”

In fact, no one shirked at all.

There is food and play, and there are red envelopes to take after the end, and it is too late for everyone to be happy.

After the red envelope was distributed, a group of people went home, Luo Wenxi hugged Tang Mingyao's arm and said, "Ah, now I am relieved, three thousand five hundred yuan has been spent." ”

Tang Mingyao asked, "You didn't leave some for yourself?" ”

"I kept half a month's salary, and I made up for it for myself if I was deducted before. The other money spent a few hundred yuan tonight, and I wrapped 1,005 red envelopes for the store manager, and everyone else wrapped 300 yuan, and there was a little bit of change left, and I would take a taxi ...... later."

Tang Mingyao said: "You are so fine. ”

"That's it! You see, I'll be a man, so generous that I can't believe it. I guess they'll wake up laughing when they go back. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "It's very generous! But you did a good job, you went to a coffee shop for a month, and you got a lot of money, but money came second. By the way, did the store manager say, what's going on with your tie for first place? Doesn't it mean that the design of the first place will be promoted in all chain stores in the country? Now there are two firsts, do the waiters in the coffee shop still make two different uniforms each? ”

"I don't know, who knows what those people think. Hehe, it doesn't matter, I won the award, my summer career can finally be declared over, what to do with the uniform, that's someone else's concern, it's none of our business. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "Yes, it's none of your business, hang it high, go home and sleep well." ”

The next day, everything was back on track. Tang Mingyao went to class as usual, and during the recess, the homeroom teacher called him out of the door, gave Zhang Tiaozi, and asked him to receive this month's living allowance.

Tang Mingyao went to the office building to collect the money, and once again passed by the psychological counseling office next door.

I looked, the door was open, and this time there was someone.

Did the counselor, who took a month-long vacation, finally come back to work?

Tang Mingyao knocked on the door and asked, "Teacher, can I come in?" ”

"Please come in."

Tang Mingyao walked in and looked at the first practitioner in the psychological industry he met in reality - this is a young man wearing gold wire glasses, only twenty-six or seventeen years old, very young, with a bookish atmosphere, at first glance he is a person who has been edified by knowledge.

"Hello classmate, what are you looking for me? Sit down and speak slowly. The other party said.

Tang Mingyao sat down and waited for the other party to close the door before saying: "Teacher, I'm not here to do psychological counseling, I'm in my third year of high school, and I want to take the college entrance examination next year to major in psychology, so I want to ask the teacher about the relevant questions of this major." For example, teacher, is the psychological counseling you are doing now a psychological counseling? ”

The other person replied, "You can say that, but there are slight differences. Counseling is more professional, while counseling is more casual. ”

Tang Mingyao asked again: "Teacher, can you introduce what psychological counseling is like in practice?" ”

"My surname is Tao, just call me Mr. Tao. The actual operation is not easy to explain, because everyone who needs counseling is different, and specific problems need to be solved. However, I can tell you about some of the general procedures and precautions in the counseling process. Would you be interested in hearing about this? ”

Tang Mingyao said he was interested.

"First of all, it's important that you have enough professional knowledge before you coach other people. I said enough, at least to complete all the undergraduate courses, can you understand that? ”

"Yes!"

"During the specific counseling process, if someone makes an appointment, you should prepare in advance, and don't wait for someone to come and be in a hurry. Then, speak politely and don't ask the other person directly if you want to do psychological counseling; When the other party says their basic situation, you have to make it clear whether you do it or not, and give a clear answer; And also accurately tell the other party what psychological counseling can do and what can't be done, so that the other party has a reasonable psychological expectation; In addition to this, it is important that the tutoring process is confidential. ”

Tang Mingyao nodded: "I have seen similar instructions in the book, but it is not as detailed as what you said, Mr. Tao, thank you." ”

Teacher Tao continued: "These are the most basic, and you will learn them in college. I'm going to tell you something that isn't in the book...... Psychological counseling for others is a great test of personal ability, first of all, your language expression should be very clear and accurate; Secondly, you must have the ability to lead the topic, and not be led away from the topic by the visitor, which is similar to the host; Again, you have to have a very strong sense of feeling, and when people say I'm sad, I'm angry, I'm jealous, you have to be able to feel that...... If you don't have these abilities, you can't do psychological counseling. ”