Chapter 768 Know
Cheng Kejia looked at the curious look on Cheng's face, and she said with some feelings: "Yes, there are many special needles in our family, but I don't have that talent, so naturally I haven't studied it." ”
Cheng looked at Cheng Kejia with a look of pity on her face, she looked down at Cheng Kejia's hand, she still shook her head in disbelief and said: "Sister-in-law, your hand obviously looks like a hand that is good at needlework, and your needlework is very good." ”
Cheng Kejia raised her hands and looked at it, she was indeed born with a good pair of hands, but most of the women in the Cheng family did not have ugly hands.
Cheng Kejia looked at Cheng's with a smile and said: "Our sisters' hands are all good, but needlework has its own strengths, my needlework is ordinary among sisters, you look good, it's just because I do the same work more." ”
Cheng shook her head in disbelief, she raised her hands to Cheng Kejia, and said, "Sister-in-law, my mother-in-law said that she didn't give me a pair of hands that could do needlework, no matter how hard I try to do the same needlework, I can't catch up with people with the same progress." ”
Cheng Kejia understood Cheng's mood, and she also felt that she had worked hard, but she couldn't catch up with Cheng Xing two or three times at will.
Cheng Kejia looked at Cheng and sighed with a slight smile: "We are particularly talented among our sisters, they just do a few stitches at will, and they can immediately make us feel their extraordinary." ”
"The elders of your family teach them in private?" After Cheng listened to Cheng Kejia's words, she immediately pointed out the difference.
Cheng Kejia sighed at Cheng's sensitivity in this regard, she could only nod lightly and said, "The teacher is also willing to teach students well, so worry-free." Our husbands have always been open-minded and straightforward, and they never mind that we know. ”
After Cheng's surprise, she suddenly remembered what her mother's family had mentioned, she looked at Cheng Kejia and said a little angrily: "Sister-in-law, your parents won't ask why the masters treat the above to distinguish between high and low?" You are all the same people who learn from them. ”
Cheng Kejia looked at the Cheng family and smiled slightly, and said: "The masters of our family have merit to the family, and many times, they consider the interests of the family. ”
There are many things in the Cheng family, which are actually difficult for outsiders to understand, such as the rule that only five generations are allowed to divide the family, as well as the matter of the concubine living together.
Cheng Kejia is getting older, she understands many things at home, and the Cheng family accepts that way of life calmly.
Cheng shook his head and said, "Sister-in-law, there are many people in your family, and your parents naturally can't take care of your daughter's family." ”
Cheng Kejia smiled slightly and said, "Men have to take on the inheritance of a family, and if they are prosperous, women will naturally be able to enjoy the benefits given by their mother's family."
We women can't take advantage of us, and we have to feel that our elders have neglected us in some ways.
In fact, I think my mother's family has done a good job in this regard, we have been free of food and clothing since we were children, and we have also received a certain amount of knowledge. ”
After Cheng Kejia got married, she saw more people, and all the Gu family concubines knew how to read, but she heard from them that many of their cousins did not have the opportunity to read.
In this era, a woman's life is like a mustard, and it all depends on how she chooses to be reincarnated.
The women who came in the Gu family were all good fortune tellers, all of them were concubines, and they had never been treated unfairly in their parents' family, and their hearts were growing towards the sun.
A straightforward person like Mrs. Gu Wu, when she mentioned some of the chaos in the inner house, she made it clear that what those women felt since they were children were all kinds of conspiracies and calculations.
After they get married, most of them just follow the path of their predecessors, how can they understand that they can actually live an upright life?
That kind of calculation and conspiracy has been engraved in their bones, and they can't get rid of it all their lives, and they don't dare to get rid of it.
When the Gu family chooses their daughter-in-law, the first thing they choose is the family style of each family, but then the character of the husband and wife who are in charge of the house, and then the character of the future daughter-in-law.
Cheng Kejia kept in mind Mrs. Gu's words, others thought that Mrs. Gu lived too casually, but Cheng Kejia felt that Mrs. Gu lived wisely.
What Mrs. Gu Wu sometimes says is very reasonable.
A person has lived for more than ten years, and she will not be able to break off the bones that she was born with because of the environment of her husband's family after marrying into her husband's family, and immediately become a person who is completely adapted to the life of her husband's family.
In order to adapt to the living atmosphere of her husband's family, she may temporarily pretend to become the appearance that her husband's family likes, but the things in her bones require years of time to polish her habits, and it is possible to slowly change her personality.
After Cheng Kejia married into the Gu family, she acted according to the rules of the Gu family in her face, but she has always maintained the behavior and style cultivated by her mother's family in her bones.
Cheng Kejia doesn't think this is bad, she won't deny the past, it is precisely because of that past that she will give the Gu family and Gu You a match, if she slowly changes in time, it must be because the Gu family and Gu You have changed and become more sunny.
People like to grow towards the sun, and living in the homes of people with sunshine is naturally colorful.
Cheng looked at the smile on Cheng Kejia's face, she actually didn't understand why Cheng Kejia, who was a sister-in-law, could live so comfortably.
Gu You is rarely at home, and even if Gu You is at home, he will not stay in the long garden.
Cheng Kejia lives her life alone in a courtyard most days.
In this way, she can't look forward to the day when her husband returns from morning to night, Cheng thought about it carefully, she felt that she couldn't accept it, she liked the days when she was accompanied by someone.
Cheng could see that Cheng Kejia was living very comfortably, even though she was pregnant, her appearance had not changed in any way, but she looked more radiant.
Cheng Kejia was used to Cheng's eyes looking at her, she looked at the sympathetic look in Cheng's eyes, and she thought to herself, fortunately, this younger brother and sister are more famous, but the bottom of her heart is not bad.
Cheng's attitude towards Gu Dingyang was indifferent, and she also told Cheng Kejia that when she was in her mother's house, she couldn't stand the noise of her nephews.
Cheng Kejia accepted Cheng's explanation, after she had Gu Dingyang, she didn't like other people's children as much as before, and all her likes were about Gu Dingyang.
Cheng Kejia couldn't stand the drooling of children in the past, but now she looks at Gu Dingyang's drooling appearance, she can see the cuteness.
Cheng Kejia usually doesn't mention the matter of children to Cheng's, but Cheng's is anxious, she has several unhappy days every month, and she now calmly tells Cheng Kejia to know.