"Honestly, have you ever had a crush on me? I feel like you've been biased against me...... Is it because I spoke more vulgarly when we first met? I've tried my best to change it. ”

Tang Mingyao avoided answering.

Bai Jing smiled self-deprecatingly: "Sure enough, ......"

"No, it's just something you came up with. If I had been prejudiced against you, I wouldn't have helped you chase your boyfriend in the first place, you know? ”

"Then why are you so cold-blooded and hard-hearted towards me?"

Tang Mingyao thought for a while, didn't answer the question, and asked rhetorically: "Imagine, if I agree to your pursuit now, can you describe your feelings?"

"Mood? I'm going to be ......."

Bai Jing wanted to say that she would be very happy and happy......

However, when the words came to her mouth, she opened her mouth, but she couldn't speak.

All of a sudden, she was stunned.

If you like someone, if the other party agrees to your pursuit, shouldn't you be happy and happy? Why don't you feel this way...... Can't even think of it.

Is it chasing for too long and dragging the other party and yourself tired? But it didn't take long, only a few months.

But what else could be the reason?

Bai Jing couldn't understand it, and said, "You are quite similar to my father."

"What do you mean?"

"They're all very sensible people, and I never see the emotional side in them. Every time he talked to me, he would say that I was not good here and not good there, and he would always have a tone of reprimand...... It's the same with you, although you don't say it, in fact, every time I see you, I can feel that you are saying that I am not good. ”

Tang Mingyao didn't answer.

In fact, he didn't say it in his heart, and he never felt that Bai Jing was an annoying girl, and his three reasons for rejecting her had nothing to do with these.

"Forget it, there's no point in mentioning these anymore, so be it. I wish you happiness~"

Bai Jing finally said a word, turned around and walked away.

Tang Mingyao stood for a while before going out to accompany Luo Wenxi to choose photos together.

I chatted with the photographer yesterday and learned about some of the situation between Bai's father and Bai Jing.

On the way home, he mentioned Bai Jing's attitude to his girlfriend, saying that Bai Jing would not pester him again in the future, and this matter was over.

Luo Wenxi was a little happy.

Although she always felt that Bai Jing couldn't snatch her boyfriend, there was a competitor eyeing her, and she was still a little pressured.

This matter can be solved, and she is much more relaxed.

Sending his girlfriend home first, Tang Mingyao returned home alone, ready to write a new book.

However, when I turned on the computer, I flashed the words that Bai Jing said to him in the office, as well as the things that the photographer said later.

"Bai Jing's father, it's very old-fashioned, and it's a bit patriarchal. He has always felt that his daughter is not very good, and he thinks that girls can't compare their abilities with boys when they grow up, and he has said more than once that it would be nice to have a son......

"Bai Jing doesn't like to come to the photo studio very much, because every time she comes, she will be reprimanded...... I remember one time, the little girl ate bubble gum and blew a bubble, and her father saw it and disciplined her for a long time......"

Recalling these, a complete idea in Tang Mingyao's mind gradually took shape.

At the beginning, he felt that Bai Jing's feelings for him were too abrupt, and it was a phenomenon of empathy.

Now it seems that there is some truth to it.

The prototype of empathy is Bai Jing's father.

This is not to say that Bai Jing has transferred his father's love to him, but ......

Since Father Bai thinks that his daughter is not good, no matter what Bai Jing does, Father Bai will look at her with prejudiced eyes.

Did you score 99? Not enough, if I had a son, he would definitely be able to score 100 points.

You came first in the school? It's still not enough, if I had a son, he would definitely be the first in the city.

Are you pretty, well-behaved, and cute? What's the use, you're not a son......

…………

At this time, as a daughter, what should Bai Jingneng do?

Since he was not recognized by his father, he had to learn to rebel - swearing is just an outward manifestation.

But as a child, she still hopes to be recognized by her father in her bones, so she will subconsciously seek recognition again and again, and when she hits a wall many times, she realizes that it is impossible for her father, so she will transfer this feeling (obsession) to other men.

Zhao Hao, who Bai Jing chased before, was the first target to be transferred.

She thought that Zhao Hao was a projection of her father, and when she had a hazy good feeling, she tried every means to pursue him, which is actually a process of seeking recognition, once the other party agrees to pursue, it means that the other party agrees with her as a person.

At this time, Bai Jing would stop and carefully examine the other party's face.

When I saw that it was not my father, I was instantly interested.

This is why Bai Jing did everything possible to wait for Zhao Hao's confession, but refused it.

And Tang Mingyao is her second empathy target.

In the office today, Bai Jing couldn't answer that question, for no other reason, because she subconsciously knew that Tang Mingyao was Tang Mingyao, not her father, and the moment Tang Mingyao promised her was the moment she discovered the truth, and it was also the moment when she abandoned this persistent pursuit.

In other words, if Tang Mingyao was really moved by Bai Jing's pursuit, he would end up with the same fate as Zhao Hao.

It's a bit strange to say, under the pure and beautiful love affair of a simple and beautiful student, what is hidden is the cruel truth of such a red fruit.

But that's exactly what happened.

If this state does not change, when Bai Jing grows up day by day, she may really become a scumbag who plays with men in the future, as Tang Mingyao guessed at the beginning!

Why?

constantly seeks recognition in men, and constantly finds that this person is not what he wants, so he is torn and confused between men, and what will become of him in the end, Tang Mingyao can't say well.

However, in reality, as soon as he grabbed a handful of such examples, he didn't need to think about it at all, he could think of several possible outcomes.

Solving this kind of problem is as simple as it is difficult.

The breakthrough is actually in her father, as long as her father can change his concept and sincerely accept his daughter, then all problems will be solved.

However, how easy is it for a middle-aged person who is dozens of years old to change the concept that has been formed for a long time?

And then it became very difficult.

Tang Mingyao pondered for a while, consciously figured out the logical relationship, and was a little hesitant to take the initiative to find Bai Jing and tell her this.

After thinking about it for a while, I decided not to go to her, and next time I went to the photo studio to get photos, I would have the opportunity to talk to her father first.

Of course, only to talk.

Entering this industry, this kind of thing will appear in front of you in an endless stream, and you can't take the initiative to manage it. Just like doing charity, you will find that the world is full of people in need, and you can't help at all.

Moreover, there is a rule in the psychological counseling industry, if others do not take the initiative to ask for help, psychologists should not take the initiative to help.

Letting go of this matter, Tang Mingyao changed his mind and began to write his third story.

This story comes from Huang Tao.

Before writing, he had asked for the other party's consent.

Huang Tao's performance in the college entrance examination is not bad, listen to him, although it is not the best level, but it is not too bad, the estimated score is about 680 points, which is more than 50 points more than his college entrance examination last year, which shows how abnormal his performance was last year because of psychological problems.