Listening to Fu Chunhua, Song Ziyan came to her because the Song family wanted to marry him as a stepfamily, but he was unwilling, and he still had nostalgia for Fu Chunhua, so he came to ask for reunion.

Zhou Jingrong asked, "Then do you want to get back together with him?" ”

Fu Chunhua didn't answer and asked: "Rong Niang, what do you think I should do?" ”

Zhou Jingrong replied: "I can't help you with this, I have to ask yourself, do you still like him?" ”

Fu Chunhua shook his head without thinking about it: "The likes of my youth have been worn out in the disappointment day after day. Even if he had resisted hard for me once, we wouldn't be what we are now. Just to survive in the hands of his mother, I have already spent all my strength, how can I have the heart to talk about what I like? I didn't resent him, I was the limit of what I could do. ”

Zhou Jingrong was puzzled: "Then what are you still hesitating about?" ”

Fu Chunhua paused, looking a little worried: "At least one thing he said is not wrong, Sister Zhu should grow up in the company of her father and mother, instead of suffering from the lack of affection brought about by her parents and separation at a young age." ”

Zhou Jing was stunned: "So, do you think that in order to give Sister Zhu a complete home, you should reunite with Song Ziyan?" ”

Fu Chunhua was dazed for a moment, his tone was stunned, as if he was talking to Zhou Jingrong, and as if he was convincing himself: "He promised me that if I go back, we will move out of the Song Mansion and live alone, and nothing like before will happen again." ”

Zhou Jingrong nodded and said, "Well, after going through so many things, not only have you learned to grow, presumably Mrs. Song and Song Ziyan will definitely grow as well." Mrs. Song is afraid of gossip, and because her daughter has been framed, she has the ability to empathize, and she will not do anything to tribulate her daughter-in-law again. Song Ziyan will also know that you should strive for what you want, become more courageous, and protect you and your children. ”

Fu Chunhua thought that with Zhou Jingrong's temperament, she would definitely refute it, but she didn't expect her to say this, I don't know if she was talking right or back, and asked tentatively: "Do you also think that I should be with him again?" ”

Zhou Jingrong said: "It's still the same sentence, it's not what others think you should do, but what you want to do." If you still have feelings for Song Ziyan and want to continue to live with him, it is not a shame to be reunited, and you don't have to care what others say. But if you no longer love him and feel disgusted or even resistant to living with him, then you shouldn't do anything in the name of Sister Zhu'er's good, because it's not really good for her. ”

Fu Chunhua was even more confused: "Why? ”

Zhou Jingrong said: "If you are not happy, how can Sister Zhu be happy?" You think that children are not sensible, but in fact they have a strong sense of the emotions of adults, they are very sensitive, and the hypocrisy of adults will only bring them anxiety and stress. In the long run, none of you will be doing well. And one day, you will inflict your misfortune on her, and you will say that sentence, I am all for you, I will endure all this, and live such a painful life. And this sentence will become a shadow that will accompany her for the rest of her life. ”

Fu Chunhua subconsciously retorted: "I won't say that, I'm obviously for her good, how can I blame her?" ”

Zhou Jingrong looked at her and said very firmly: "You will, you will." ”

Because this is her personal experience, and it is also the nightmare of many children's childhood.

Once parents have a quarrel, no matter what the reason for the quarrel is, there is a 90% chance that the sentence will be said to the child in the end. It may be unintentional, but the pain and damage it brings to the child is immeasurable.

The phrase "for your good" is like a tight mantra stuck on Sun Wukong's head, reciting it once hurts once, and it can't be shaken off, becoming a shackle that is difficult to break free, shackling people's behavior, thoughts, and even life.

Zhou Jingrong breathed a sigh of relief, and continued: "Parents are the best teachers for children, and at the initial moment of the formation of a person's ideology, most of them come from the words and deeds of their parents. You think you are trying to make compromises, but in fact, what your children learn from you is only forbearance and obedience, but not courage and perseverance. If she encounters the same situation in the future, she will make the same choice as you. Would you like to see her go through what you've been through like you? ”

Fu Chunhua listened to Zhou Jingrong's words, and had a strong sense of substitution, as if she had seen that Sister Zhu'er, who had grown into a big girl, was not living an unsatisfactory life, and shook her head again and again in horror: "No, no, I don't want this!" ”

Zhou Jingrong soothed her in a soft tone: "Sister Chun, I don't want to interfere with your choice, but I don't want you to make a choice against your will because of anyone or anything, especially your self-righteous sacrifice, which may not bring good results." In fact, about this matter, you can ask Sister Zhu'er's opinion and where she wants to live. Although she is small, she also has her own likes and dislikes. ”

Fu Chunhua was empowered, grabbed Zhou Jingrong's hand, and said to her gratefully: "I know what to do, thank you, Rong Niang." Every time I feel lost, you wake me up in time. You are a very wise woman, and I am sure that you will be a good mother in the future. ”

Zhou Jingrong was silent, according to the progress of her and Fu Yunshen, I am afraid that the matter of being a mother is still far away.

She laughed: "I'm just good at talking on paper." ”

Fu Chunhua was amused by her.

Zhou Jingrong doesn't think she is smart and wise, she just lives in an advanced and enlightened era, is infected and nurtured by the social environment, and has a more independent personality consciousness.

People must love themselves first, and then they can love others and be loved, this is her belief.

Zhou Jingrong and Fu Chunhua chatted so much that they forgot the time, and it wasn't until the maidservant came in to take charge of the lamp that they suddenly realized that it was getting late.

Zhou Jingrong got up to say goodbye, Fu Chunhua sent her, and the two went out of the house together, but saw Fu Yunshen and Fu Yu playing with Sister Zhu in the courtyard.

Although Sister Zhu is only more than two years old, she is very sensible and well-behaved, always quiet, does not cry or make trouble, but she does not like to talk or laugh.

At this time, she was laughing and giggling under Fu Yu's teasing, running all over the yard, followed by a group of maids, shouting "Slow down, girl". She probably thought that these people were playing with her, laughing more and running more happily.

Fu Chunhua's eyes were slightly moist, and he choked up and said to Zhou Jingrong: "When I was in the Song family before, Sister Zhu had never been so cheerful. ”

Zhou Jingrong also knew that Mrs. Song didn't like Fu Chunhua and was patriarchal, how could she like Sister Zhu? Even though she was not mistreated, she could feel her grandmother's dislike and her mother's suppression, so she developed such a taciturn character.

Zhou Jingrong gently squeezed Fu Chunhua's hand to show comfort. Everything is over, everything will be fine.

She smiled and changed the topic: "Brother Yu is very good at getting along with children, and he is also very liked by children, and Brother Zhen also likes Uncle Yu the most." ”

Fu Chunhua nodded approvingly, his eyes moved to Fu Yunshen, who was looking at Sister Zhu with a smile, glanced at Zhou Jingrong meaningfully, and said with a smile: "Erlang also likes children." ”

Zhou Jingrong silently closed her mouth, yes, she shouldn't be owed, what topic she likes about children, she was born!

Fu Yunshen wanted to take Zhou Jingrong away, and Fu Yu also said goodbye.

Sister Zhu hadn't played enough, holding Fu Yu's thigh and refusing to let go, but she didn't say a word silently, but her expression was a little lonely.

Fu Chunhua was rare to see Sister Zhu so happy, she couldn't bear to be harsh, and looked at Zhou Jingrong in embarrassment, wanting everyone to stay for a while.

Zhou Jingrong had an idea, and said to Fu Yu: "Sister Zhu is rare to have such a good time, if Brother Yu is fine, you might as well accompany her for a while." I had a stomach ache and wanted to go back and rest. ”

As she spoke, Zhou Jingrong secretly poked Fu Yunshen's arm.

Fu Yunshen didn't know what Zhou Jingrong meant, but he still cooperated and persuaded him: "Yes, big brother, you can stay, and I will send Rong Rong back first." ”

Fu Yu naturally had no objection, leaned over and hugged Sister Zhu'er: "Come, Sister Zhu'er, uncle will take you to play!" ”

Sister Zhu'er's happy laughter sounded again, and Fu Chunhua also smiled with relief.

Zhou Jingrong walked out of the courtyard and looked back.

In the courtyard where the shadows float in the dim light, the rise of men and children playing, the hearty laughter and the immature children's voices are mixed, and the women stand aside and watch gently, quite a sense of harmony and happiness of a family of three.

She hurriedly pushed Fu Yunshen and asked, "Do you think they are a good match?" ”

"Ahem." Fu Yunshen was so frightened by Zhou Jingrong's description that he coughed, one was his brother and the other was his sister, how could he feel so weird when he used the word "match"?

Zhou Jingrong snorted lightly: "Song Ziyan can marry again, our sister Chun can marry again, and it will break Song Ziyan's covetousness for her!" I think Brother Yu is very good, what do you think? Ah, he hasn't married a wife, so he can't be a sweetheart, you know? ”

Fu Yunshen suddenly remembered that it seemed that she had also inquired about Ye Xiyang for Qin Sang before, and was dissatisfied that she always inquired about other men: "Why do you like to be a matchmaker so much?" Just don't draw comics at all, and change your career to be a matchmaker. ”

Zhou Jingrong actually thought about it seriously and was a little excited: "I think it's good!" ”

Then, she continued to count Fu Yu's advantages with her fingers: "They grew up together since childhood, have an emotional foundation, and know the roots; Brother Yu is an orphan and will not have a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem; Although he is a little older, he also has benefits, and it hurts to be old; And he has a good temper, likes children, and will not treat Sister Zhu harshly; He has a hearty and generous personality and is very manly......"

Zhou Jingrong was talking, and was suddenly hugged by Fu Yunshen, she was startled: "What are you doing?" ”

Fu Yun glanced at her and snorted: "Although I am not as old as Brother Yu, I am also very good at hurting people, and I am also very manly!" ”

After Zhou Jingrong was stunned, she laughed out loud and poked Fu Yunshen's face with her hand: "Fu Yunshen, did you grow up eating cuteness, I really want to bite you!" ”

Fu Yunshen's face was not red, his heart was not beating, he leaned his cheeks over, and said very seriously: "Bite it." ”

Zhou Jingrong lay on his shoulder, smiling sullenly, unable to straighten his waist.