Chapter 322: No matter how good the relationship is, there are contradictions

This question, if it is another major, Tang Mingyao may have to think about it for a while before he can give an answer.

But there is actually only one optimal choice for psychology.

Although there has been some development in domestic psychology with the passage of time in recent years, in general, there is still a big gap between Europe and the United States, not in the same order of magnitude.

If Tang Mingyao wants to continue his studies, going abroad is definitely the best choice.

So he said without hesitation: "It must be studying abroad." is also a graduate student, who can only communicate with the teachers and professors of the school in China, but can meet the world-class psychology masters face to face when he goes abroad. ”

"So you're planning to go abroad next year?"

"I have this plan, and if I choose this major, I plan to study to the end, otherwise it will be no different from giving up halfway."

In response to him, his girlfriend's muffled voice said: "Oh......"

Tang Mingyao didn't pay attention, still focused on the information, and kept seeing the plane.

It wasn't until they returned to the nest of the two in the capital that Luo Wenxi didn't say a word to him, and then Tang Mingyao found out about the problem - I don't know when it started, and his girlfriend ignored him.

What's the situation?

Did you say the wrong thing?

His mind is actually very sensitive, and the smooth path of life in the past few years has made this sensitivity somewhat restrained, but as soon as he encounters a problem, all the sensitive tentacles instantly stretch out to explore the truth of the problem.

He quickly recalled what the last conversation between the two had said, and quickly found what had gone wrong.

"So this is...... Not happy with my plans to study abroad? ”

has been in love for more than five years, and there are almost no conflicts between the two, because Tang Mingyao feels that he is an adult and will let each other most of the time, and Luo Wenxi has some inferiority complex in her bones because of family reasons, which makes it easy for her to put herself on the lower side of the two parties in love, and her tolerance for Tang Mingyao will be much higher.

In a word, the two let each other go.

This made their feelings, which should have been fragile when they were students, maintained to this day, and have always been very good.

But no matter how good the relationship is, there will be all kinds of contradictions because of daily interactions, after all, there will never be a other half who is 100% satisfied with you in this world.

Now, the contradiction between the two has emerged.

Now it's up to you how to deal with it.

If it is not handled well, there may be cracks in the relationship, and it is even possible that it will suddenly get out of control; If it is handled well, it is a catalyst for the warming of feelings. Whether it's good or bad depends on how the person in question operates.

"Why don't you talk to me? Angry? "Tang Mingyao's way of dealing with it is to raise the problem first.

The response was, "No, I just don't want to talk." ”

"Okay, I just don't want to talk. Let me recall, I remember the last thing you said to me, was to ask me if I was going to graduate school or studying abroad, and I said to study abroad, and then you stopped talking. I guess the reason why you don't want to talk is probably because I want to study abroad? ”

"No, studying abroad is a good thing, and it's too late for me to be happy when you go to study."

Yes, women all over the world are the same, duplicitous.

Tang Mingyao felt very novel.

Because this is the first time he has seen Luo Wenxi angry with him, it turns out that she looks like this when she sulks, which is a little cute.

He smiled and asked, "Then you have no problem with me studying abroad?" ”

"What can I say?"

Luo Wenxi's face was ugly, he turned around, and he was no longer facing him, it seemed that he really didn't want to talk to him.

Tang Mingyao said with a matter: "Okay, then I will seriously prepare for studying abroad." With my grades, it shouldn't be difficult to apply to the right school. This time next year, I should be spending the summer in the United States. ”

"You!"

Luo Wenxi stared at him, his heart fluctuated, obviously he didn't expect him to really say such a thing.

Tang Mingyao turned the conversation around and said, "Okay, just kidding, since you don't want me to go abroad, then we can discuss this matter again, and we don't have to go abroad." As long as you want to learn, you can get in touch with world-class knowledge anywhere, and the ancient countryside and mountain villages can also produce great sages. ”

Hearing these words, Luo Wenxi's mood also eased.

She is a sensible girl, and she knows that it is actually a good thing to be able to go abroad, so she did not express her opinion directly, otherwise she would have had trouble with Tang Mingyao just now.

At this time, Tang Mingyao said that she wanted to change her mind, but she felt that she should not be angry, so she said: "If you want to go, you can go, I will not stop you." I just feel that it seems that we rarely have time to be together all the time, you skip a grade after a year of junior high school, and you can't keep up with your footsteps for a few years, and I was going to college right away, I thought that this time I could finally live together for two years, who knew that you were going abroad again, I don't know how long we would be apart, and I couldn't be happy when I thought about it. ”

Tang Mingyao was suddenly stunned.

Only then did he feel that he cared less about his girlfriend's thoughts.

As a man, he pays more attention to his studies and career, so most of the time his eyes are on what books he should read at the moment, where he should read next, or what he should write and how to write well.

's affection for his children, although it is also intimate, is not so nuanced, so he does not have a real-time understanding of his girlfriend's psychological state.

Hearing Luo Wenxi's words, he suddenly realized that his girlfriend wanted to stay with him for a long time.

Originally, he thought that the two had known each other since childhood, and they had been in love for several years, and they had a short time to get along together every year, and these times were enough for the two of them.

Now it seems that this is a matter of course.

Tang Mingyao is not a typical machismo, and he found that introspection on the spot is the basic operation of studying psychology, so he immediately reflected on the problem and said:

"You're right, it's that I only think about reading and forget to think about your feelings."

"It's okay, you don't leave now, you still have a year to graduate from college. As you said, if you are young and study more, you will have the capital to stay together for a lifetime in the future, and we are all still young. ”

Tang Mingyao didn't know what to say.

My girlfriend is too understanding, and sometimes it's a little sweet burden.

But soon his expression froze, because Luo Wenxi suddenly threw out a new topic: "There is a question I have always wanted to ask you, have you ever thought that one day we will break up or something?" ”

"No, why do you ask?"

"Then why are you...... Not like other boys? In the past, you said that we were still young, but now we are not young, I am nineteen years old, long past the age of majority in the legal sense, and you are even about to graduate from college, right...... Could it be that what you really like in your heart is actually a man? ”

Tang Mingyao asked with a dark face, "What's the mess?" Where do you see these things? ”

Luo Wenxi made an innocent statement: "I watched a movie called "Lan Yu" two days ago, and I thought of you......"

Tang Mingyao's face darkened, and he rushed over viciously: "What do I think, you don't know?" It's so annoying, you doubt me for your own good, and today I'm going to prove my innocence! ”

"Humph! Just talk about it, don't practice, you come. ”

A certain girl who was out of the way was not afraid at all, and stared at him with her neck stalked.

And then......