Chapter 5: A Good Teacher Bad Wife

"I see," Qin Cang nodded, and no longer expressed any doubts about Wan Hao, as if Fang Cai really asked casually and didn't mean anything else, "From the perspective of your spouse and family, tell us what kind of personality Mei Qingzhuo usually is." ”

Seeing that Qin Cang's attitude had been adjusted, Wan Hao's face also slowed down a little, he sighed, and said to Qin Cang and Tang Guo: "Mei Qingzhuo, this person is really a bit difficult to talk about. The two of us were introduced by someone back then, met on a blind date, and when I first met her, I had a general impression of her, after all, people are actually judged by their appearance, Mei Qingzhuo's appearance is indeed not the type that will make people particularly impressed at a glance, but at the beginning, it was because of the face of the introducer, I was embarrassed to refuse clearly, and I planned to contact her a few times, but after a few contacts, I was really attracted by her character, and my work pressure during that period was particularly great. So I've always been worried about whether it will involve more energy after falling in love, but Mei Qingzhuo gives me the feeling that she is a very quiet and gentle woman, staying with her, there will be no pressure at all, and she will not be willful or unreasonable, I felt that she was really a too precious woman at that time, other men are blind, how to leave such a good woman, or maybe God deliberately left her to me. ”

Tang Guo listened silently, she knew that no matter how well Wan Hao praised Mei Qingzhuo, there would definitely be a turning point in the future, so that the image of Mei Qingzhuo's whole person that was currently sketched would take a sharp turn, otherwise if Mei Qingzhuo had always been the perfect angel in Wan Hao's mind, then I am afraid there would be no divorce later.

As Tang Guo expected, Wan Hao quickly changed the subject: "But after getting married, I realized that I was really too naΓ―ve, Mei Qingzhuo She is not quiet and gentle, she is cold-blooded, she is not enthusiastic about anything, she doesn't care about anything, oh, you can't say that, she also cares about things, she cares about her own work and her future, except for this, she is really indifferent to who and everything, when she was in love before, the so-called don't block me, not willful and not pretentious, That's all because she doesn't care at all, when I'm busy and don't have time to ask her to accompany her, she doesn't care at all, so she doesn't lose her temper with me, it's the same after getting married, everything in the family has to be done by me, other people's families are men busy and forget, missed the wedding anniversary or even the love anniversary, my wife is furious, what about our family? I don't mention that she never remembers, I don't travel or go out to eat, she is not interested, and sometimes she is playing on her phone most of the time during the process of going out to eat, which makes me think she is having an affair outside. And...... And, even that aspect ......"

Wan Hao looked at Tang Guo who was a little embarrassed, and cleared his throat to hide his discomfort: "She is not active at all in that regard, I don't ask her to never take the initiative, she was like that before giving birth, and even more so after giving birth, she told me that the postpartum period was like this, and it dragged me for two or three years, in the past two or three years, she slept with the child, and I slept in my own room, have you ever heard of a normal couple living like this?" It's not that I haven't inquired in the hospital, the doctor said that having a child will not lead to these at all, it is simply a problem in her bones, the doctor also said that it may be a physical reason, it may also be a psychological reason, if you want to solve it, it is best to go to the hospital to check and check, if it is a physical problem, it will be conditioned, if it is a psychological problem, find a professional for counseling, I went back to communicate with her, but she is not right this time is not anything light, Furious, she scolded me, and said that I insulted her, said that I lived with her, and my mind was full of that kind of things, scolding me for being obscene and perverted or something, I was really wronged to death, I was legally married to her, we are all adults, what happened to my thoughts and needs in this regard? Isn't it normal? ”

Although Tang Guo knew that the profession she was engaged in would more or less require a little no-taboo spirit, as a young girl in her early twenties, let alone married, she had never even talked about her boyfriend, and listening to Wan Hao talk about this kind of topic still made her feel a little uncomfortable.

"So this is the trigger for the divorce between the two of you?" Qin Cang asked, "According to your statement, Mei Qingzhuo has such an indifferent attitude towards everyone?" In other words, she didn't have an affair? ”

"I can be sure of this, I don't have anything to hide now, or in other words, if I don't take this opportunity, even if I provide you with information, or confide in me, it is estimated that I will be suffocated to death, every day I live under the same roof with Mei Qingzhuo, I feel that I am living in a grave, our home is a coffin, Mei Qingzhuo and I are two walking corpses at all, and I can't feel a little bit of enthusiasm with life," Wan Hao complained with grievances, " I really doubted it at the beginning, I think there is no reason, a wife, would be so cold to her husband, this is absolutely unreasonable, no one will have a headache or stomach ache every day or be very tired and not in the mood. So I hired a private detective at that time, and I deliberately stared at Mei Qingzhuo for a while, and I had already made up my mind to divorce her at that time, but I didn't want to make it unclear, but ...... Nothing was found. ”

"Then the divorce of the two of you doesn't seem to be going very well, I heard that it has been entangled for a long time, why?"

"Because she doesn't want to divorce, if she has to leave, she wants to take the child away, but I have to divorce, I must not continue to live with her, and I can't give the child to her, do you think, can she be considered normal like that? is such an abnormal woman, I handed over the child to her, didn't that make the child a pit? I can't harm my children for the rest of my life, I have to let my children be a sound person. Wan Hao said indignantly.

"Is there any other reason for this?"

Wan Hao was asked by Qin Cang like this, his face became a little scornful, he was a little entangled, and then decided that it might be more beneficial for him to be honest, so he replied: "In addition to these two reasons, there are also differences in the division of property, which is also more important. Mei Qingzhuo advocated one and a half, but I couldn't agree, so the two of us didn't reach an agreement on this issue, so we couldn't reach an agreement, I was about to go to the court to sue for divorce, and I was already consulting a lawyer, but I didn't expect that she would have an accident at this juncture. The reason why I can't agree to divide the property in half is because first of all, my salary is higher than hers, so more than half of our family's savings itself comes from me, and the marriage between the two of us can come to this point, the main responsibility is on her Mei Qingzhuo, if it weren't for her character disorder, and unwilling to make adjustments, we wouldn't have come to this point, I have also suffered serious mental trauma in the course of her marriage in the past few years because of her coldness and indifference, so there is no reason for me to share my property with her equally. ”

"Then the reason why Mei Qingzhuo refused to divorce you, in addition to the fact that the two issues of property division and child custody were not agreed, are there any other reasons?" Tang Guo noticed that Wan Hao mentioned that the difference between Mei Qingzhuo and him on this issue was first of all that she refused to divorce, so he realized that Mei Qingzhuo's refusal to divorce Wan Hao must not only be a matter of property and children, but also other reasons that ranked first of the two.

"She said she couldn't afford to lose that person." Wan Hao is not difficult to answer this question at all, after all, it does not have much to do with him, so naturally there are no concerns, "She said that there is no one in her family who can't marry or marry a daughter-in-law when she is old, and she doesn't have to be divorced after a few years, so as long as she gets married, she will live for a lifetime, and she will be pointed at and poked in the backbone when she divorces." I think she really has a psychological problem, and I suspect that she married me and had children from the very beginning, just to follow their family's so-called non-shameful tradition, not because she liked it at all. ”

"Aside from being like you at home, how does she behave at work?" Qin Cang asked.

"Do you mean how well you work in the workplace, or how well you interact with your colleagues?" Wan Hao smiled bitterly, "But no matter which one it is, it's better than being in front of me at home." She is recognized as a good teacher in the school, the quality of teaching is not to say, many class teachers are eager to fight for a duel in order to fight with her, and she is also very serious and responsible for the students, sacrificing personal time or something is trivial, I heard that the popularity among the students is also very good, and the students like her. According to my side understanding, her appearance in school is not the same as at home, after marrying at home for a long time, she doesn't even bother to hide it, she is lukewarm to me every day, there is no temperature, but at school she is known for her gentleness, it is said that she is always smiling, even if the student does not behave well, she loses her temper is also quiet, so that the student is embarrassed to disobey her, and feels that she is sorry for her conscience. ”