Chapter 8 Know yourself and your enemy
These teachers who didn't have the opportunity to take classes with Mei Qingzhuo, originally Tang Guo thought that they might be relatively less familiar with Mei Qingzhuo because they had dealt with Mei Qingzhuo less often, so there should be no way to provide them with too many valuable clues, but he didn't expect that he really guessed wrong this time, those teachers who didn't have the opportunity to teach with Mei Qingzhuo, and other teachers in the same teaching and research department as Mei Qingzhuo, not only said more than other teachers who cooperated more with Mei Qingzhuo, but also had more unique content. It's no longer the same gentle female teacher, who teaches well, is popular with students, is loved by parents, and so on.
And more importantly, the evaluation of Mei Qingzhuo by these two parties coincides, and the polite expression is that Mei Qingzhuo is more arrogant, and he usually doesn't like to talk to people who don't deal with him very much. Another more straightforward statement is not so polite, several class teachers who did not have the opportunity to cooperate with a sought-after English teacher like Mei Qingzhuo because the class they led was not a key class, they all told Qin Cang and Tang Guo respectively that Mei Qingzhuo was a special snob, praising the high and stepping on the low.
For the head teacher of the key class and other more well-known teachers, he shows a very gentle personality, which makes people feel very friendly, is a very good person, and even behaves very good at caring for others, so the popularity among the teachers in those key classes is very good, and the reputation is naturally not bad, but in front of the teachers of other non-key classes, Mei Qingzhuo will behave very cold and detached, and those teachers in non-key classes will talk to her and say hello, Most of the time, she has a perfunctory attitude, and she is reluctant to say half a sentence to them if she can.
Other English teachers' attitude towards Mei Qingzhuo is also very ambiguous, on the one hand, they all recognize Mei Qingzhuo's teaching level and reputation, but the words reveal another meaning, although Mei Qingzhuo's level is good, but other teachers may not be much worse than her, but because Mei Qingzhuo is very good at creating the image of a gentle and good teacher among students, good at winning people's hearts, and her reputation among students is naturally nothing to say, In addition, she spent a lot of effort on weekdays to make friends with the class teachers of the key classes who are quite influential in the school, and fought with them, and the famous class teachers of the key classes who have a lot of say in the choice of the class teacher are also willing to choose her and cooperate with her.
So in this way, a virtuous circle has been formed, so that Mei Qingzhuo's road is getting smoother and smoother, it can be said that she is advancing all the way on the broad road, unstoppable, and other English teachers who are less qualified than her, if they happen to be in the same grade as her, it will be miserable, because Mei Qingzhuo is famous, so good resources are controlled by her, and good resources will naturally bring better and greater reputation, In this way, Mei Qingzhuo's existence seems to have built a dam in the upper reaches of the river, which was not particularly turbulent, and trapped the water on it and stored it, and the people downstream were anxious and stared at each other.
According to them, Mei Qingzhuo actually knows all of this, but in order for herself to climb higher, she doesn't care if she is "a husband and a wife" who blocks the progress path of many young teachers, and she seems to be calm on the surface, she doesn't care about anything in terms of fame and fortune, she just wants to be plain and teach her students quietly, but in fact, there is no honor less than her share, if a certain evaluation is advanced or something, There is another more competitive opponent, so before the assessment, Mei Qingzhuo will inevitably suddenly be slightly ill, insist on working with illness, and almost faint on the podium, or the child at home has a high fever and her husband is away on a business trip, she let her two or three-year-old child who is still sick be locked in the home alone in order to teach the students, and these things that should not be easy to be discovered will definitely spread, and finally the school leaders were deeply moved and decided to award the honor to Mei Qingzhuo.
After listening to their impressions and opinions on Mei Qingzhuo, Tang Guo had some new understanding of Mei Qingzhuo in her heart, originally she felt that Mei Qingzhuo's existence was too lacking in reality, and she was indifferent and lacked enthusiasm in front of her family and husband to the point that it was unbelievable, and when she arrived at work, she was full of enthusiasm and love for her students, as if she had become another person, no matter which one it was, it was like a mask, lacking a sense of reality. I can't tell which one is the real Mei Qingzhuo. Now Tang Guo finally understands that these Mei Qingzhuo with different performances are all her true faces, and they are not, true and false, false and true, depending on what Mei Qingzhuo wants to get from the object he is facing to distinguish between them.
For example, Mei Qingzhuo chose to be with her husband at the beginning, judging from various performances, she obviously did not have much love for the man who legally married her, so the initial virtuous and obedient may only be because Mei Qingzhuo needs a man who satisfies her in all aspects to meet her traditional concept of marriage and love - find a person at the right age who has more reasonable economic and personal conditions to marry, and complete the marriage and childbirth, which must be completed for her.
Her various performances in her work are much easier to understand, she wants to have a successful career, so whether it is the reputation of students or the importance of school leaders, this is very important, so she has a great enthusiasm to manage these interpersonal relationships at different levels. As for why she looked arrogant to those teachers in non-key classes, the reason was that they had no real value to her, so Mei Qingzhuo didn't bother to waste her energy on them at all.
In the final analysis, Mei Qingzhuo is actually a very shrewd and realistic woman, she knows very clearly what she wants from beginning to end, so no matter at which stage she will have a clear goal, she will definitely not waste her energy on irrelevant things and people, and in order to achieve different goals, she will also be very accurate in grasping the preferences of the other party, to create an image that can cater to the other party, in this way, this Mei Qingzhuo is not a harmless little white rabbit for humans and animals, On the contrary, he is a very remarkable person.
"You're amazing! If it were me, I probably wouldn't have imagined that there would be such a big breakthrough from these two groups of people! After leaving the school, Tang Guo said to Qin Cang with some emotion on the way back to the serious crime team.
Qin Cang glanced at her while driving: "There's nothing strange about it, think about it, where did I leave from, whether it's a university or a middle school, it's the same after all, it's just that the rank is high and low, and the complexity is slightly different." So I've just worked in this industry before, so I can know myself and my opponent. The so-called teacher table is just a shelf that comes out, no matter which stage of the teacher is not a living Bodhisattva who does not eat the fireworks of the world, as long as it is a person, there are selfish desires, and then a layer of so-called intellectual hypocrisy, so it is calm on the surface, and the dark tide is turbulent underneath the table. You haven't experienced it, so it's no surprise that you can't think of that much. ”
Tang Guo's tone was very flat when she saw Qin Cang's words, she remembered that when Xia Rong came to Qin Cang before, she had mentioned what setbacks and smooth sailing and so on, Qin Cang himself said that he was tired of some things, so he gave up his original promising career and became a policeman instead, thinking about it, it is estimated that Qin Cang was once in this whirlpool of open guns and hidden arrows, and he chose to withdraw because he was so annoyed that he chose to leave, so now that he heard about Mei Qingzhuo's things, I don't know if it is downright empathy, There is still a little bit of a feeling that adults are watching children play tricks.