After returning home and packing up, Tang Mingyao turned on the computer and logged in to the forum.

Tianya emotional section, this is a place he has never been involved in before, because he feels that it is full of things such as parents' shortcomings, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law wars, cheating and breakups, etc., there are too many trivialities, and there is nothing worth watching.

But today, he felt like he was going to be slapped in the face.

Because he was going to make a post in this section and find someone to ask for help - Luo Wenxi's question made him feel more tricky, and he was thinking hard by himself, so it was better to brainstorm on the Internet.

Before posting, I remembered that the ID of the train king was already very famous, and many people knew that it was him, which was not conducive to privacy protection, so I reapplied for a new vest, and Tang was distracted.

[A girl, still in junior high school, has a very good family condition, and has an average score of about 90 points in each exam, but she is too demanding of herself, so that she is particularly tired of studying, how to solve this situation? 】

In the post, he hid his personal information and described in detail Luo Wenxi's current state - that is, although her grades are very good, she has always been in the middle and lower reaches of the top class, and she has a very good catch-up target, and her learning speed is much faster than her, so that no matter how she learns, she will never be able to catch up. Now she is emaciated from reading and has the idea of dropping out of school, although she was stopped by the adults in time, but the fundamental problem has not been solved. What should I do in this situation?

Click Post and wait for a reply from netizens.

After a few minutes, refresh the page.

There have been more than a dozen replies.

Sun Delusional: This kind of person is sick. This disease can be cured by a single blow.

Wu Mourning Zhi Ran Min: I can't imagine what it's like to be unable to read with an average score of 90, I'm still insisting on reading with an average score of more than 70 points, according to her standards, should I die directly?

Zhiye: With an average of more than 60 points, I still insist, should I die directly?

Boiling Stone Rain: An average of 50 points is still persistent, should I die?

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Lonely Night Maple 1360: ...... of 10 points on average The junk school expelled me, and it looks like I really should die.

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Tang Mingyao looked at these replies, he was much happier than netizens, and the formation was maintained very well, but he built more than a dozen floors, and he didn't put forward any useful suggestions.

Most of them think that girls with such good grades can't continue to read, either because they have brain diseases, or because they are sluts.

Tang Mingyao was silent, he still hoped that someone could put himself in the girl's shoes and look at this issue, thought about it, wait a little longer, and see if there are any new comments.

I turned my head to read the book, and after half an hour, I came back and refreshed again.

This review turned out to be close to the hundredth floor.

It is worthy of the emotional plate, and the speed of building is really fast!

Beyun Fengyue: Is it funny upstairs, everyone who has been in the top class knows that kind of pressure, this kind of thing doesn't look at the absolute score at all, and has been at the end of the crane in the class for a long time, who hasn't had the idea of dropping out of school? At least I thought about it when I was studying, but then I didn't dare to mention it for fear of being beaten by my father.

Deciduous Thoughts 89: In this case, you can actually transfer to the ordinary class. But what's the situation with her chaseman? If it can't be solved, it's probably useless to transfer to a regular class.

Instant solid drinks: Reading too much is a fool, and how many of those who make a lot of money in society now are honest readers? Parents shouldn't be in the way.

Qin, Han, Tang Ming 1234: Eliminate her chasing target, so that she doesn't have a chasing target, just do it.

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In these replies, there is finally some understanding and support.

It's just that understanding is understanding, but the methods proposed are all unreliable, or equal to nothing.

Tang Mingyao sighed, and was about to give up waiting to come back tomorrow, when he suddenly saw the latest reply from the first floor, read it, and immediately concentrated on it seriously.

Teacher Xiaoyu: The grades are good, if it is just because of the crane tail, you will not be able to read at all, this possibility is relatively small. She wanted to drop out of school, but she was more under pressure from outside the ranking of her grades, as the landlord said, she had a goal in mind to catch up but could never catch up...... Once she realizes that she has no hope at all, she will despair and give up completely. This is determined by the self-protection mechanism of the person – I give up, I don't achieve the goal, I don't do it, not I can't - can prevent the person from falling into a complete collapse.

Tang Mingyao thought about it and felt that this netizen was on the point, so he immediately asked alone: Is there any way to solve this problem? She is only in junior high school, and it is impossible for her family to let her drop out of school, but it is also a torment to let her continue to study.

Teacher Xiaoyu: Two solutions. The first is to find the reason why she has to catch up, and fundamentally let her take the initiative to give up catching up; The second method is to start with the target, so that the target disappears from her eyes, and she will naturally give up if she does not chase the object.

This one......

The second method seems to be unreliable, this Xiao Yu teacher is not clear about the relationship between him and Luo Wenxi, so this method is not in the scope of consideration.

However, the first method sounds more interesting, and this is what Tang Mingyao wanted to do before and did not do.

He organized the language for a while, and then asked: I have thought about it myself before. I think that in addition to giving up her studies in despair, there is another factor, that is, she wants to find another shortcut to catch up from other aspects. Is there a way to think about this? For example, let's explore specialties and so on. In addition, the first way you mentioned, I have already asked her, she can't say why, how do you need to dig deep in this regard?

Teacher Xiao Yu: Your method is feasible and can be tried. As for how to dig deeper, it is recommended to start with the people around her, after all, people have some painful experiences when they are young, and out of the mechanism of self-protection, our consciousness will selectively forget, but the people around us are clear.

Tang Mingyao: Thank you for your advice, I'll try some first, and then ask for advice if I don't understand.

Teacher Xiao Yu: Feel free to discuss.

Turning the chair in a different direction, Tang Mingyao turned his brain and summarized the ideas he had just gotten.

In short, there are two feasible ways, the first is to find Luo Wenxi's psychological root cause and solve the problem from the root - it is likely to be the psychological root cause of her fear of being abandoned; The second way is to help her discover her talents and specialties, so that she can feel that she is shining and brilliant in addition to studying.

The first one needs to start from Luo Ma, and the second one can only be slowly discovered from Luo Wenxi.

The two paths should be two-pronged.

With an idea in his heart, the person calmed down, Tang Mingyao returned to the computer and went to other forum sections to brush posts.

Tianya Literary Community.

The popularity of the post of "Martial Arts Supreme" has already dropped, after all, it has been serialized for so long, and it is impossible for netizens to discuss it all the time, even if they are professional trolls, there will always be times when they are tired.

Soon, though, he saw another post about himself.

The heat is not low!

[Curious! The first prize winner of the second New Concept Essay Competition, the only one in Group B who was specially recruited by Jinghua University, "Sprout" also did an interview, and the salary was not lower than that of Han Er in the previous session! May I ask which magazine did the two serialized novels mentioned in the interview be published in......]