Mother Zhao told the three old ladies of the Cheng family her hardships without reservation, and the three old ladies of the Cheng family sighed after hearing this: "Women are not easy. ”

The three old ladies of the Cheng family understand the hardships of Zhao's mother, but she taught the Zhao family to be such a character, and the three old ladies of the Cheng family can only sigh, it is not easy to be a mother, but that mind is not used in the right place.

When the third old lady of the Cheng family taught Cheng Kejia, she said bluntly, don't be a vicious person, but don't be a person who only knows how to be wronged.

There are some roads, when you really can't go, you can still turn back, and there will always be a road for you to walk.

Cheng Kejia felt that all the women of the Cheng family should be grateful to the old ancestor, and he gave all the women of the Cheng family a way to retreat.

Cheng Kejia therefore understands Changfang's intentions to treat Pingyuan better, and the Mu family and the Ning family treat it completely sincerely, hoping that Pingyuan can continue.

Even if the master inside is replaced by someone from another family, as long as there is a peaceful paradise, the women of the Cheng family are not afraid of having a hard time in their husband's family.

No matter how sad the days are, the old aunt and grandmother can come over, no matter how weak they are, they can't weaken the last backbone of the Cheng family's women.

The Zhao family is different, the Zhao family is a woman who can't tolerate going back to her parents' house.

All of Zhao's mother's sad thoughts finally fell on this point, and the meaning revealed in her words made the three old ladies of the Cheng family frown slightly after hearing this.

The three old ladies of the Cheng family said bluntly: "The women of the Cheng family, as long as they do not do the wrong things that the heavens and the earth will not tolerate, our Cheng family will not divorce their wives." ”

Zhao's mother left with peace of mind, but the third old lady of the Cheng family couldn't rest assured, but she heard too much about the dirty things in the inner house, so she wrote directly to Cheng Enjie.

After the Kong family married the Cheng family, she lived a different life from her mother's family, and the three old ladies of the Cheng family and the Qian family were not so strict in the matter of getting up early to ask for peace.

Kong initially greeted Qian early, but Qian smiled and said to her: "You are still young, sleep more in the morning."

We still have to get along for many years, and after a long time, you will understand that as long as you have this filial piety, these rules really don't need to be strictly followed. ”

Qian would go to Qingzhengyuan every day to ask for peace, but the time was very arbitrary, and she reminded Kong: "Your grandmother is generous, you treat her sincerely, she can see it." ”

Kong went to Qingzheng Garden to greet the three old ladies of the Cheng family, she rarely met the three old ladies of the Cheng family, and the three old ladies of the Cheng family never had any requirements for her to ask for peace.

Kong asked Cheng Fangfang in private, and he smiled and said: "You go to see my grandmother and mother every day, when they are free, you accompany them, and when they are busy, you just go to find Jia'er to talk." ”

Kong only felt that Cheng Fangfang's attitude was too casual, and she made a special trip to ask Cheng Kejia in private, but Cheng Kejia smiled and said to her: "Sister-in-law, you just have to listen to your brother with peace of mind, and your brother will never harm you." ”

"But that doesn't make me look too unruly?"

Kong Shi looked at Cheng Kejia with a little worry, but she smiled after hearing this, and whispered: "Sister-in-law, if it takes a little longer, you will understand that the elders of our third room treat the younger generations the most."

As long as we are the younger generations and have the elders in our hearts, then we can get by with the rules on the surface, and in private, the elders are very casual in their demands on us. ”

After hearing this, Kong nodded slightly, and she told Cheng Kejia that the Kong family must abide by the rules of implementation, and there are certain requirements for the younger generations in terms of inviting peace.

After hearing this, Cheng Kejia looked at Kong with an admiring look on her face, and said: "Sister-in-law, your family's background is really deep, and the new daughters-in-law who marry into your family are no wonder they are all the most dignified little women." ”

Kong sat so casually, and he looked very elegant.

Hearing Cheng Kejia's words, Kong smiled slightly, her mother was willing to bring her family to the family, but she felt that the Cheng family was a well-behaved family, and the rules were not as strict as the Kong family.

When Mother Confucius married into the Kong family, at the beginning, she also suppressed her nature to act according to the rules of the Kong family, until she slowly adapted to it.

Kong's family gets up very early every day, and Cheng Fangfang doesn't go out, and he always doesn't get up early.

After Kong's got up early, she could only wait quietly for her husband to change his clothes, but Cheng Fangfang said to her: "Lady, I am a big man, I have hands and feet, I can do it myself." ”

Kong thought that Cheng Fangfang was considerate of her, and her heart was very warm, until a long time later, she knew that this was Qian's basic requirement for her sons.

Cheng Kejia and Kong's got along well, and sometimes, my sister-in-law went to Youyi Garden and Yuzheng Garden together.

Cheng Fangfang also told Cheng Kejia in private, asking her to introduce her relatives to the Kong family as much as possible.

Cheng Kejia raised his eyes to look at him at that time and said, "Brother, aren't you worried that the prejudice in my heart will mislead my sister-in-law's perception of the family?" ”

Cheng Fangfang made her laugh and said, "Okay, it just so happens that I also met the person that my little sister hates." ”

Cheng Kejia thought about it carefully, she had never really hated anyone, even to Cheng Xing, she just disliked Cheng Xing so much.

When Cheng Kejia introduced her family to Kong's family, her attitude was very peaceful.

After Kong Shi conveyed it to Cheng Fangfang, he smiled and said a few more words, saying: "Jia'er has a pure temperament, you take a look at it, and when necessary, you can help guide her." ”

Kong Shi looked at Cheng Fangfang and nodded lightly, and said, "Husband, I think Jia'er is not only favored in our third room, she is also favored when she goes to the long room." ”

Cheng Fangfang nodded with a smile and said, "Jia'er is an atmospheric person, and she will never steal the light of her brothers and sisters. The elders have a pair of discerning eyes, so they naturally like the younger ones who are so sensible. ”

Seeing that Cheng Keling and Cheng Kejia got along, the Kong family looked closer than the sisters, and the Qian family treated Cheng Kejia only a little bit worse than Cheng Keling, almost a little bit that he couldn't see clearly if he didn't pay attention.

Cheng Fangfang treats Cheng Kejia as a sister-in-law, and when the brothers and sisters in the third room are in the same place, they really can't see what the three families look like.

Of course, Kong also recognized Cheng Fangfang's attitude, and the younger siblings in the family were completely welcoming to her sister-in-law.

After the newlywed for a month, Kong went back to her parents' house alone, and the comfortable look on her face could hardly be concealed.

Mother Kong's heart was really relieved, she heard Kong mention some things about the Cheng family, and she was a little envious after hearing it.

The in-laws are loving, the husband is lenient, the younger siblings in the family respect her, and the people in the third room and the other rooms in the family also get along peacefully.

Kong's family still rarely reminds her daughter, but don't do the virtuous thing of the fourth aunt in her husband's family, that is Shengsheng gave her husband to others.

Kong nodded gently, in fact, Cheng Kejia also mentioned it to her, but he didn't tell her explicitly, my brother is really not a lover.