It's not the first time that Sister Ting has talked to Jing'er about this distress, they used to think about having another son, if Brother Lian didn't want to inherit the title, let his younger brother inherit it, but after they gave birth to Sister Mao, there was no movement, and it was good to have a son and a daughter, but Sister Mao couldn't inherit the title, so it was a pity to abandon the title of the family.

It's Sister Ting'er who wants to be in-laws with Jing'er, Brother Lian married Chaoyang, and became today's nephew and son-in-law, this title may be able to make an exception if you ask for mercy, Brother Yi will ascend the throne in the future, Brother Lian'er is not only his companion, but also his sister-in-law, and his own talent is not bad, but also worried about not being able to rise to the top?

She has always thought this way before, but last night's incident, she was really not so satisfied with Chaoyang's prospective daughter-in-law, she always said that she wanted a daughter like Chaoyang, Chaoyang's temperament is very similar to her when she was a teenager, but her daughter-in-law is different, Chaoyang If she is her daughter, she will be very happy, it is not easy to say that she is her daughter-in-law, she also knows her own temperament, if she marries a wife, she will definitely not get along with her mother-in-law, she is lucky to pick up the treasure of Qiao Qingyun, so that she does not have to worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, For so many years, she can still be as wanton as when she was a teenager, but Chaoyang is not a son-in-law, she is going to marry into their family, if she is still like this after marriage, she is a mother-in-law, I really don't know how to get along with her.

Jing'er and Sister Ting have been friends for many years, and now they will not twist and turn, she said: "The children are all older, our two families have always had a tacit understanding, a few years ago it was said that the children were still young and should not be set up as a baby, and now the children are also of age, do you want to settle down?" Chaoyang doesn't have a brother, last night's incident, Sister Mao has Brother Lian'er with her, it has no effect on her, but Chaoyang and the reputation of the Zhao family girl is not good, I think if she and Brother Lian settle, no one can put a beak when they play together in the future, what do you say? ”

Sister Ting hesitated for a moment and asked her: "The second prince was also there last night, hasn't Your Majesty always wanted to hire Chaoyang as his daughter-in-law?" Do you want to talk to him, let's settle it like this, I'm afraid he won't be happy. ”

Jing'er smiled: "If Chaoyang doesn't want to marry, can he still marry?" Chaoyang's marriage is still up to me and her father, even if he is unhappy, he can't really be angry with me. ”

Sister Ting also smiled: "That's what I said, but Your Majesty has always boasted that he is Chaoyang's second father, if we secretly marry Chaoyang without him, I am afraid that many people will suffer if he gets angry, and your brothers and sisters naturally can't be really angry, I don't dare to provoke him." ”

Jing'er said, "Then I'll ask him another day." ”

She came in the evening, sat down in the small building near the mountain for a while, and said what she should say, Qiao Qingyun came back from work, Jing'er said hello to him and was about to leave, Sister Ting left her for dinner, she refused, how could she be alone to insert into the dining table of other people's families to eat, and she also has old and young at home.

After Jing'er left, Qiao Qingyun asked Sister Ting what she was doing here, Sister Ting said that she was here to comfort Brother Lian and Sister Mao, and mentioned the family affair between Brother Lian and Chaoyang, Qiao Qingyun asked her if she answered? She said that she hadn't yet, and asked Jing'er to ask the golden boy, if the golden boy didn't die in the Yellow River, how could he easily agree, it would definitely drag on for two or three years, and she would be able to take another assessment.

Qiao Qingyun said to her: "If you are dissatisfied with Chaoyang, make it clear to her, if you are so consumed, don't drag other girls up and you don't want it anymore, then you will have a grudge, and the friendship between you and the county lord for so many years will also be exhausted in children's affairs." ”

Of course, Sister Ting knows the relationship, "I don't want to observe one or two more, Jing'er and Jiang Ji are not bad, Chaoyang is their daughter, and they can't be any worse, but now they are not sensible, teach for a few more years, teach a good girl, wouldn't it be better to marry into our family again?" ”

Qiao Qingyun said: "Three years old, Chaoyang is now eleven years old, his temperament is set, no matter how he grows up to be a lady in the future, her family background dictates, and she will not be entrusted to beg for a full lady, you expect her to become a virtuous and virtuous housewife is unrealistic, and it is even very likely to be worse than you back then, although you don't have Aunt Weng to serve, but the situation of your mother's family forces you to grow up, and Chaoyang, she can never grow up for the rest of her life, her parents have paved her life." So, if you want to figure out her family background, and the help she brings to Brother Lian'er, you have to accept her character flaws together, or take her into the door for you to teach, of course, it is very likely that you can't teach her well at all, after all, Zhenguo Gong and his wife are so good that they can't teach her, or you should make it clear to the county lord earlier, she is not suitable to be Brother Lian'er's wife, let's find a virtuous and virtuous woman for Brother Lian'er, you expect Zhen Guogong and his wife to teach her well in the past few years, and then marry into our family to teach her husband and children, It's a fool's dream. ”

The more high-ranking the nobles are, the more arrogant they are, that is, the two princesses in the palace will pretend to be, and the palace banquet has always been long-sleeved and good at dancing, dignified and virtuous, but the people close to them can not know the virtues of those sisters? Chaoyang just disdains pretending, but no matter how bad her reputation is, she doesn't worry about getting married, she is definitely a low marriage when she marries Brother Lian, and Sister Ting still expects the Jiang family to teach her to learn about Shu Dali and marry again? To put it mildly, even the emperor wanted to hire Chaoyang as his daughter-in-law and didn't mention finding her a nurturing grandmother, recuperating her temperament and then marrying over, in his opinion, Chaoyang is such a character, even if he marries into the royal family, he doesn't need to be more restrained, how can he marry into their Lijun palace and have to compromise and seek perfection? Could it be that the threshold of their house is higher than the threshold of the palace?

Sister Ting's little abacus is a little calculation, she wants to take advantage of everything, but don't let her daughter-in-law be gone, and her sisters for many years will become enemies.

Sister Ting was also very entangled: "But I haven't thought about it yet, I already like Chaoyang, so I let her go, what should I do if I regret it in the future?" Besides, Jing'er and I agreed many years ago, Chaoyang has been clamoring to marry Brother Lian'er, and the whole capital knows that they are a couple, so I regret the marriage, Jing'er can't be separated from me? Chaoyang also has to alienate our family. ”

Qiao Qingyun said: "Since you like Chaoyang so much, don't treat her as a daughter-in-law, marry her as a daughter, if she doesn't understand anything, you will tolerate and help, so that your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be harmonious, but in this way, you will be very hard, and it will be very hard to refine your brother." For this daughter-in-law, you can only choose whether you want it or not, but you can't choose what kind of one you want, Chaoyang will never change her nature because of your preferences. ”

Sister Ting sighed again and again, and decided to ask Brother Lian, does he like Chaoyang? Do you want to marry her? If you want to marry her, you have to be prepared to help her clean up the mess in the future and tolerate her bad temper, if he still wants to marry, she should also go down, and go through the process with Jing'er.

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