Chapter 461: The children of the Jiang family discuss family affairs, and the children can be at will
After Jing'er held three banquets at home, the old lady looked at each other in many ways, and finally chose the choice of daughter-in-law, who was the girl of the Lin family of Shaoqing of Taichang Temple, that is, Lin Rui's niece, when Lin Shangshu was still there, she was also the granddaughter of Shangshu, and later Lin Shangshu passed away, her father was just a Shaoqing, and her status was much lower, and she was able to marry Jiang Dingnan as a wife, and everyone praised her for her good luck.
Lin Zhijun also feels that she is blessed, the son of the Jiang family is a decent young man and a promising young man, and the Jiang family is the top nobleman in Beijing, she will be a clan wife in the future after marrying the past, and after marrying the two sisters-in-law, there is no brother and concubine to fight for property, there is a stepmother who doesn't care about things, she doesn't know how comfortable she is to marry.
The golden boy heard about the marriage of Jiang Lin's two families, and sighed that the Jiang family knew the current affairs and knew that the rapids were retreating, but Jiang Dingnan didn't know much about the current affairs, and stayed in the military camp full of complaints, like Jiang Jun, he wanted to go to a place where there was a fight, but how could the golden boy let him go, isn't it enough for the Jiang family to have Jiang Ji and the brothers to support him now?
After Jiang Dingnan's family affairs were decided, Jiang Ji also set the son of an old friend for Jiang Chenxi, who was the son of the commander of the envoy of the Five Cities Soldiers and Horses, and the commander Chen Jingan was Jiang Ji's classmate when he was a child, he once came to Jiang's family to learn martial arts when he was a child, Jiang Ji did not have many friends, and the only two or three were also the same people as him. The Chen family kid doesn't have any bad habits, and he is still worthy of his daughter.
The old lady sighed and asked her granddaughter what she meant, Jiang Chenxi didn't have a mother with her, and she didn't move around much with these uncles and uncles, she didn't know whether the son of the Chen family was round or flat, she knew that her grandmother wanted her to marry her cousin from her uncle's family, but she was not very enthusiastic about her cousin, and she didn't like her cousin's over-eager appearance, and they were all relatives, if she was wronged in the Wang family in the future, it would make her grandmother embarrassed.
Jiang Chenxi said that she had no opinions, but she relied on her elders to make the decisions, and Jiang Ji was not interested in blind marriage and dumb marriage, so let Jiang Dingnan take Chenxi to meet Chen Lin, if she was still satisfied, she would settle it.
Jiang Dingnan felt that he was just this one sister, but he couldn't be hasty, Chen Lin knew him since he was a child, but the two couldn't get along, and there was no contradiction, they could say hello when they saw it, but they just couldn't get along, they didn't talk speculatively for more than half a sentence, they each had their own groups, and they didn't have to play together.
Now that his sister wants to marry Chen Lin, Jiang Dingnan told the elders not to worry, wait for him to investigate, some people are used to pretending in front of the elders, and they will reveal their true form in front of their peers.
Jiang Dingnan also has a fox friend by his side, let them stare at it for a few days, and they didn't find anything unusual, they all said that Chen Lin was well-behaved, he was on an errand in the Royal Forest Army, and he got off and off on time every day, thinking of this, Jiang Dingnan was sad again, even Chen Lin could enter the Royal Forest Army, but he was idle in the military camp, not that the military camp was bad, but what could he learn from being an errand boy under his father? Everyone regarded him as the second ancestor of his son, and when he saw his father's cold face at home and saw it again in the barracks, he really couldn't escape.
He secretly wrote to the second uncle, asking if the second uncle had a place to stuff him in? You don't have to give him any position, just let him start as a small soldier, he doesn't rely on his family, he can get ahead in the barracks by relying on his own ability.
The second uncle replied that he couldn't be the master, Jiang Dingnan knew that the only one who could be the master was the emperor, and the emperor was already restricting the development of their family, his father was his brother-in-law, and the second uncle was his friend.
Grandfather said that he refused to give in to his stepmother back then, but now he is suffering, right? The emperor doesn't have to punish you much, just let you be raised in the capital for a lifetime, wear out your fighting spirit, and grind you from a high-spirited young man to a chaotic middle-aged man, which is the best punishment for you.
He asked his grandfather, "If I gave in to them, they wouldn't have restrained me?" You said, no matter the family and country, if you go uphill to a peak, you should go downhill, our family has been prosperous for several generations, how can the monarch see that our family has been prosperous, and it should go downhill to my generation, but I am not reconciled, if there is no successor in the family, I will admit that I will go downhill, and my fate is so, but I am obviously motivated enough, but I am forced to be mediocre, so that I am how peaceful. ”
The old man sighed fiercely, he also knew that he was uneasy, what about unsettled, their family was a courtier, could they still go against the monarch? What's more, the emperor did not persecute their family, but his family's military power was just distributed to other families, if they muttered and complained, I was afraid that the emperor would be even more suspicious of their family.
Jiang Dingnan's career has not succeeded, the family urged him to start a family, there must be a family to settle down first, can not carry forward the family business, then inherit the incense first, the Lin family girl he has seen once, the appearance is acceptable, but the temperament is plain, he doesn't have much good feelings, and he doesn't hate it, the elders like to marry it,! Marry him back to help him take care of the housekeeper and be filial to his grandparents.
Jiang Dingnan is not very concerned about his own family affairs, but he is very concerned about his sister's family affairs, he feels that he is not afraid of a man marrying the wrong one, and he will marry another one after he divorces, or he will mistake her as a decoration and accept a few lovely concubines. But it is difficult for a woman to marry wrong, he is willing to take his sister home to raise, but how uncomfortable it is for his sister to return home, she is such a sensitive and caring person, if she has a child, I am afraid that she will have to swallow her anger for the sake of the child and rub it in her husband's house, it is too miserable, he has to find out in advance, and immoral people can not marry.
After Jiang Dingnan squatted for a few days, he didn't find anything unusual about Chen Lin, Jiang Ji said that he looked at people more accurately than Jiang Dingnan, Chen Lin was sincere and down-to-earth, unlike your friends who were slippery and weird, naturally they couldn't play with you, but it didn't mean that he was a bad person, and in the same way, your friends got along with you, it doesn't mean that they are good people.
Jiang Dingnan was a little embarrassed by his father's revelation, he also knew that it was some fox friends and dog friends, his best friend was one, and Jia Juma He Ziying, but He Ziying got married in his early years, and now he has a pair of children under his knees, and he can't often play with him, he mostly plays with those fox friends and dog friends, and he doesn't think those are good people, but his father said this, as if they were like people and groups, those fox friends and dog friends are not good, and he is not a good person.
Jiang Ji also cares about his daughter's family affairs, not only has he seen it himself, Jiang Dingnan has stared at it, he also invited Chen Jing'an's family to the banquet, so that his father can also take a look at Chen Lin, his father's eyes are more vicious than him, can't he understand a hairy boy? The old lady and Jing'er entertained Mrs. Chen, the two families had dealings before, Mrs. Chen had a good temperament, and they didn't feel that there was anything wrong, as long as the old man and they all saw Chen Lin, this thing could be done.
Jiang Chenxi sat beside her grandmother in a daze, listening to Mrs. Chen praise her for her beautiful and beautiful beauty, she smiled numbly, saying that she didn't dare to be a lady and praise her, the whole person was in a fog, is this her future mother-in-law? She's getting married? Marry someone you don't know......