This is a real story, and behind the absurdity, a lot of interesting things are revealed.

It reflects a common phenomenon in the field of family education in our country.

The precipitous growth of a Chinese boy!

When they were studying, parents thought that falling in love would delay their studies, so they forbade their children from having contact with any opposite sex......

Like the male protagonist in the story, he went from not being in contact with the opposite sex to getting married, and the process in between was extremely short, and he directly skipped falling in love at this stage.

As everyone knows, falling in love is a real technology that requires time and experience.

This skip and the problem arises, the marriage can only last for a year or two, and then it is on the verge of breaking down, just like the fable "pulling out the seedlings and helping them grow".

From here, Tang Mingyao's thinking gradually diverged, and he deeply analyzed the phenomenon of cliff-like growth, and analyzed the consequences of this education method.

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Immediately after that, he started a new topic to discuss.

Chinese parents are the best at ignoring their children's feelings.

For example, when I was a child, when a boy was naughty, his parents would threaten: "If you don't behave, I'll take you to get an injection!" However, when it comes to getting sick and needing an injection, the children are so frightened that they cry, and they will say in a nonchalant tone: "What are you crying about, it doesn't hurt to get an injection!" ”

Whether it's right or wrong, it's in the hands of parents.

The feelings of the little ones are completely ignored.

Such children are likely to grow up with a serious problem, which is "highly narcissistic personality damage" - they will not be able to express their needs authentically, lack real feelings about external stimuli, and generally be more prone to depression.

To put it more bluntly, the happiness shown by this kind of person is not necessarily really happy, he may just feel that he should be happy, so he tells others that he is happy by "acting".

Observing life, if someone has been angry for a long time because of a little thing, they are extremely easy to get angry, lack both hobbies, and lack of self-motivation and motivation to change their lives, they ...... More or less, there are such problems.

Tang Mingyao spent a long time analyzing this topic and gave a solution to it - through professional consultation, he made up for the missing part of his feelings.

After that, he also formulated a few topics that he wanted to write about, all of which were very representative.

For example, the introverted and lonely feelings of Chinese boys, the confusion of the younger generation entering the city in the process of rapid urbanization, and so on.

It is expected that I will write about a dozen topics, the largest of which is about a group of people.

Giant Baby!

The formation of this ethnic group is due to the improvement of social conditions, and parents over-arrange the affairs of their children, so that children become dependent on their parents.

One day, their bodies grow, but their minds don't.

Then, when the group needs to be independent, it finds itself that it simply does not have the ability.

This point is the heaviest, because this problem is also the most serious problem in his generation, and the age of reading may not be obvious, and when it comes to marriage, the giant baby family will be one of the biggest killers of marriage.

Tang Mingyao wrote it out to give his readers some inspiration and make more people aware of this problem.

Because, the giant baby clan is really a kind of sadness.

However, what is even more sad is that the vast majority of people in this group, they will not find this at all, they are ignorant, and they just live with instinct.

Speaking of which, Tang Mingyao wrote this book with ambitions.

In this era, there is almost no interpretation of these questions raised by him in China, and he wants to be the first person to eat crabs, write books and speak, and raise his own height.

During college, I didn't write for nearly three years, and I was also preparing for this ambition.

When he first started writing, he was still a little handy, but soon he entered the state, and in half a month, he wrote tens of thousands of words.

You know, it's not, when you write it, you just have to think about the plot and type it brainlessly, it needs to think word by word, which is much more laborious.

Thankfully, thanks to the way it was written, this book wasn't slow to write.

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When the creation was in full swing, Luo Wenxi's school examination results came down.

She played steadily, and several schools that took the exam, all passed smoothly!

The day he heard the result, Tang Mingyao's hanging heart was relaxed. Next, it's time for Luo Wenxi's college entrance examination.

It's April now, and the college entrance examination time has been adjusted last year to June every year.

This means that the exam is only two months away.

Because he spent a lot of time in professional classes, Luo Wenxi's cultural performance was not very top-notch, and his scores fluctuated in more than 500 points in several diagnostic exams in the third year of high school, and his performance was not particularly stable.

This result, compared with the three art academies she applied for, is a little bit unsafe.

Therefore, in the next time, she has to step up her review, and every minute and second must not be wasted.

Tang Mingyao asked her on the phone if she wanted to open a small stove alone to make up the class, Luo Wenxi said confidently: "No, I can do it myself!" Tang Mingyao didn't force it.

It's just that two days before the exam, he still went back to the provincial capital in advance, personally cheered for his girlfriend, and sent her into the exam room.

After the exam, Luo Wenxi was a little apprehensive.

In the next two days, the score was in full swing, and after the evaluation, it was not bad, and it was more than 30 points higher than the highest requirements of the same major in several colleges and universities last year.

That's stable.

When it came time to fill in the volunteers, Luo Wenxi didn't think too much about it, and directly filled in the fashion design major of the Beijing Academy of Fine Arts in the first choice.

This is her favorite major for a long time.

In fact, last year, she compared back and forth between the Shuimu Academy of Fine Arts and the Beijing Academy of Fine Arts, but she couldn't make up her mind.

Because the design majors of the two colleges are not much different, and even Mizuki's is slightly better, but in the end, it is the artistic atmosphere of the Beijing Academy of Fine Arts, which tilts the balance in her heart.

The moment he finished filling out the volunteers, Luo Wenxi suddenly relaxed.

Since she was in junior high school, she has been in high-intensity study, for six years, at this time, as soon as the college entrance examination is over, the string in her heart can finally relax.

"I'm going on a long vacation!"

She snorted to herself: "It's too difficult for me, from now on, until the start of the university on September 1st, I will resolutely not touch the paintbrush or the textbook!" ”

Then she said to Tang Mingyao: "I want to go back to the capital with you, I will stick to you every day this summer, and you don't want to get rid of me for a moment." ”

Tang Mingyao smiled and nodded in agreement.

Since he went to college, in the past few years, the two have spent more time apart than together, and he is finally happy to have a summer vacation to stick together.

So when he returned to the capital, Tang Mingyao changed from one person to two people.

When Luo's mother sent the two out, she said disdainfully: "Really, why don't you know to accompany your mother at home after a summer vacation, and you know how to turn out with your elbow." ”

Luo Wenxi replied unceremoniously: "Isn't this what you've always wanted to see, hmph, not only will I not be at home during the summer vacation, but when I go to the capital to study, I won't come back to see you for a year in the future." ”

"You dare!"

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