One

Autism in children is a subtype of pervasive developmental disorder, which is more common in males and begins in infancy and early childhood, and is mainly manifested by varying degrees of speech development disorders, interpersonal communication disorders, narrow interests and stereotyped behaviors.

At present, there is still no cause of this disease and it cannot be prevented, and there is no ideal drug to treat it, so it can only be treated by corrective training.

2-7 years old is the best period for training. Overcoming autism has become a worldwide problem.

1. They thought I had abducted the child

Two years ago, when Xiao Xu's mother walked into the subway with her son and was suspected of being a trafficker, this strong mother could no longer bear all the pressures of the past, and cried bitterly with self-blame and grievance.

In my memory, it was a sunny summer day, Xiao Xu's mother led her 5-year-old son to an autism training center, which was the second training institution they had ever visited, and countless Saturday mornings, Xiao Xu's mother would get up on time at six o'clock in the morning to take her son to do rehabilitation training.

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Every time on the subway, Xiao Xu will cry and make a fuss as a "must-perform program" throughout the whole process, Xiao Xu's mother doesn't understand, how can a child who can't say a few words, how can he have so much strength to cry for several hours, as soon as the child cries, there will be sympathy or disgust around him immediately, at this time, Xiao Xu's mother can only helplessly smile at the passengers around her, express her apologies.

On this day, Xiao Xu's mother thought that it was no different from before: the child cried loudly for unknown reasons, and the people around him looked at him from time to time with incomprehension.

However, when changing stations halfway, a young woman suddenly grabbed her, questioned whether she was the child's mother, and asked Xiao Xu if this was his mother, where had Xiao Xu seen such a big battle, crying more and more hoarsely, attracting the subway staff, and finally called the police.

Xiao Xu's mother is also a person who is not good at words, and in the face of police questioning, she finally told the fact that her child has autism. Suddenly, there was silence in the office of the police station, and Xiao Xu's mother also cried aggrievedly.

"That girl thought that the child was abducted by me", recalling the past, Xiaoxu's mother is now very calm, but she still remembers the grievances and the despair and helplessness when she admitted that the child was an autistic child.

2. The feeling of going from heaven to hell, nothing more than that

Xiao Xu was diagnosed with autism when he was more than 2 years old.

Like other autistic children, Xiao Xu has almost no active language, likes to fiddle with the wheels of toy cars, is extremely picky eaters, and never plays with other children, but these are not unbearable, Xiao Xu's every inopportune cry is heavily hammered on the hearts of this young couple, Xiao Xu's mother is not very good at expressing her feelings, but you can imagine that it must be the feeling of going from heaven to hell!

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When they first learned that their son was autistic, Xiao Xu's parents didn't know exactly what kind of disease it was, but when they knew that current medicine could not completely cure this disease, the honest couple fell into deep despair.

But there is no way, life still has to be lived. Because Xiaoxu's father and grandmother are not in good health, the burden of the family's livelihood falls on her mother's weak shoulders.

Taking Xiao Xu to a training institution for rehabilitation training during the day and working night shifts at night to make ends meet has become her mother's daily routine, and the long-term overload of work has also made this mother, who is only in her thirties, much more haggard than her peers.

Because he couldn't afford the training costs, in the four years that Xiao Xu was sick until the child was 6 years old, Xiao Xu only underwent about two years of rehabilitation training. "I also want my children to be trained all the time, but I can't help it, our family can't afford it." Speaking of these, Xiao Xu's mother burst into tears.

Fortunately, God has not failed this poor family, with the help of the "Yuchanhua Foundation", Xiao Xu was 6 years old, and finally received free training at Xinyue Feiyang Children's Rehabilitation Training Center.

Teacher Zhang Qinqin, the teaching director of Xinyue Feiyang, said that when he first arrived at Xinyue Feiyang for training, Xiao Xu was simply a realistic version of the "little devil", in addition to crying and shouting for no reason for two or three hours, not listening to instructions, and even some "violent behavior", several teachers have been pinched and bitten by him, and Xiao Xu's mother's hand, Xiao Xu's traces of pinching are shocking.

After three months of training, Xiao Xu's mood has finally stabilized, and now he is not only able to take a quiet class in the classroom, but also has a basic sense of rules and the ability to listen to instructions; At home, you can also help your parents and grandmother with some basic household chores.

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Xiao Xu's mother said with great gratitude: "After a few months of training in Xinyue Feiyang, Xiao Xu can now sleep honestly almost every night, no longer crying as before, violence rarely occurs, and can help us sweep the floor and wash the dishes." This was unimaginable before. ”

3. The child can't live without me, he can only rely on me

Like other families with autistic children, Xiaoxu's family is also indispensable for disputes related to children.

One day after four or five months of training in Xinyue Feiyang, Xiao Xu's mother had a lot of quarrels because she was dissatisfied with the child's father's "hands-off shopkeeper" behavior, and even planned to leave the house and never come back.

When she pretended to leave, something unexpected happened: Xiao Xu actually hugged her and didn't let her go!

You must know that autistic children are completely living in their own world, lacking the expressions or gestures of expecting hugs and caresses from their parents and others, nor enjoying the pleasant expressions when they are caressed, and even refusing the hugs and caresses of their parents and others. I can't distinguish between relatives and relatives, and I have the same attitude towards my relatives as I do with other people. Inability to establish a normal attachment relationship with parents.

Therefore, speaking of this, Xiao Xu's mother was full of tears, this strong mother finally took off all her "armor" at this moment.

After experiencing this incident, Xiao Xu's mother was even more determined to insist on taking care of her children, and if she had the idea of escaping before, this moment would have all disappeared. "The child can't live without me, he can only rely on me."

Written in the final words:

Now, Xiao Xu is almost seven years old, and under the professional training of Xin Yue Feiyang, he has been getting closer to a normal child.

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Although Xiao Xu's mother had to work night shifts until 2 a.m. every day in order to support the whole family, and after sleeping for 4 hours, she got up to send her children to the institution for training, but she was still full of hope for her children and the future. Because the child's progress is in her eyes.

The road ahead is still difficult, let us wish Xiaoxu's family good luck.

by: transferred from the Internet

Two

One day the girl had a birthday, and the boy gave her a cute stuffed bear at her birthday party, and among all the birthday gifts, this is not a gift at all.??

The girl was a little angry, maybe more angry, I didn't expect her boyfriend to be so stingy, today is her birthday, and so many friends came.??

Last year the boy gave her a very expensive Tibetan knife on her birthday, and the boy swore that if one day he betrayed the girl, the girl could cut his chest with a knife.??

This year, the two have been discussing the future of the two of them, so many friends have come to celebrate the girl's birthday, and it is the boy who said that on which day of the birthday he will give the girl a gift that will last a lifetime. It turned out that everything seemed to be out of everyone's way, mainly girls, of course??

In the face of the girl's angry eyes, the boy just smiled evilly, this gift really made the girl unforgettable for life.??

The girl drank a lot of alcohol at the party, and the boy just quietly drank Coke next to him??

At the end of the party, they were going back to their small home, on the third ring, the girl had been very angry, had been complaining, there were a lot of expensive gifts in the back seat of the car, and of course, the hairy bear. The girl began to complain that the boy did not love her and did not cherish their love, the boy just drove quietly and said nothing, occasionally with a smile on his face.??

Alcohol is driven by impulses. The girl threw up, the boy pulled over, the girl lost her temper and accused the boy of giving her such an unpleasant birthday and saying something very emotional, the boy was speechless all the time, just holding a tissue in one hand and mineral water in the other. The girl suddenly ran to the main road of the third ring road, the boy did not hold her, the two of them were pulling on the road like this, suddenly, a speeding express car drove straight towards the two people, and the boy threw away the things in his hand without thinking. Pushed the girl away, the girl's head fell to the ground heavily, and by the time she woke up, she was already lying in the hospital with a bandage on her head??

The driver of that speeding car, proven to be drunk driving??

The boy was knocked out of 15 meters, and when 120 arrived, he kept saying "Leave me alone, how about my girlfriend?" 〃??

When he arrived at the hospital, the boy had gone to another world, and his last words were the hairy bear, and the hairy bear was taken to the ambulance by the medical staff at his request, and he was in the last part of the world in this world, and it was this little bear that accompanied him all the time.??

When the girl heard the news of the boy's departure, she kept crying and fainted several times from crying.??

A caring nurse sent the bear to her pillow??

The girl woke up from the fainting again, looked at the bear, there was a boy's blood on it, it seemed to have a boy's body temperature, she held it tightly to her chest, gently stroked it, and suddenly touched a very hard thing, the girl took out something from the bear's pocket, a ring box, which contained a beautiful diamond ring, the girl saw all this, completely collapsed, she cried desperately, tearing her hair and the bandages on her head hard, but everything seemed to be meaningless??

The girl went to the morgue, the blood on the boy had been wiped dry, he was clean and lying there peacefully, there was still a wicked smile on the corner of his mouth, the girl stroked the boy's head with her hand, tears fell from the corners of her eyes, she didn't want to cry, because the boy didn't like her to cry.??

The girl was discharged from the hospital the next day and returned to the harbor they once loved??

Opening the door, she was stunned by what she saw, the room was full of roses, a big cake on the table, a warm lunch box and a card next to it.??

When I opened the lunch box, there was her favorite soup.??

Open the card and it says: ??

Marry me, you will never regret it for the rest of your life, you will feel warm for the rest of your life, I will make you happy for the rest of your life, I will always be by your side, I will wake you up every day, make you your favorite breakfast, send you to work, always think about you, give you calls and messages at any time, do not let the feeling of loneliness accompany you for a moment, I will pick you up from work at night, cook dinner for you, and let you sleep quietly in my arms at night. You are in charge of the housework, but I will do the housework, my health is better. If I have a party, I will go home before 11 o'clock, and if I am on a business trip, I will prepare your food for the next few days, and of course your favorite snacks. In fact, love is simply the happiness of two people, our happiness has just begun, hope ......??

The girl could not stand it any longer, and she saw that the room seemed to be full of laughter and laughter, full of their sweet words,??

The scenes of the past suddenly poured into her heart, she was blaming herself, remorseful, complaining......??

Wondering who the hell betrayed that once good thing??

The happiness of the past has become sharp at this time, and the laughter of the past has become gray at this time??

The girl didn't go on the day the boy was cremated??

The girls stayed quietly in the harbor of their love alone, lying on their often **** bed, watching the video of them going out to travel, and gently cut his wrist with the Tibetan knife that the boy gave him on his birthday last year......??

There is a card in the window: ??

Honey I'm coming, I'm so sad without you??

It's me who was wrong, in the past few days since you left, I've been reminiscing about the days we spent together, your body temperature, your smell, your bad smile and the food you cooked, you're a liar, you said you've guarded me all your life, it's so cold to sleep alone, I'm so hungry without you cooking, I'm so lonely without you, you go slowly, I'm coming, although you didn't fulfill your promise, but I still really love you, bad guy I'm coming, go slowly, wait for me in front, I'm coming, ......??

Transferred from the Internet

Three

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The first story takes place in a desert region in Qinghai Province in western China where water is extremely scarce. The water used by the residents here is all transported by military vehicles from far away by the garrison, and each person is limited to 3 catties of water per day. People can't do without water, and neither can livestock.

One day, a cow, who had always been faithful and honest, was so thirsty that she broke free from the reins and forced herself to run to the side of the road where the water truck had to pass, waiting for the arrival of the military vehicle. Finally, when the water transport military vehicle arrived, the cow quickly rushed onto the road with incredible recognition, and the military vehicle came to an abrupt stop with an emergency brake.

The cow stood silently in front of the cart, unwilling to move even a step as the driver drove her away. Five minutes passed, and the two sides were still deadlocked. The warriors who carried the water had encountered cattle blocking the way and asking for water before, but none of them were as stubborn as this cow.

The people and the cows were consumed in this way, and finally there was a traffic jam, and the driver tried all means to drive the cow away, but the cow just refused to leave. Later, when the owner of the cow came, the embarrassed and angry master raised his long whip and beat the skinny cow so hard that the cow was beaten until the skin was torn open and cried out, but she refused to let go. The blood poured out and stained the whip red, and the cow's terrible mooing looked particularly tragic in the silence of the desert.

The water transporter on the side cried, and the driver also cried. Finally, the soldier carrying the water said, "Let me break the rules once, and I am willing to accept the punishment once." He took out half a basin of water from the waterwheel - exactly about three pounds and put it in front of the cow. Surprisingly, the cow did not drink the water that she had fought to the death, but looked up to the sky and mooed at the sunset, as if calling for something.

At this time, a calf ran behind the sand pile not far away, and the wounded cow lovingly watched the calf greedily drink the water, stretched out her tongue and licked the calf's eyes, and the calf licked the cow's eyes. In the silence, people saw the tears in the eyes of the cow and calf, and many people present could not help but shed tears of emotion. Without waiting for the owner of the cow to shout, in silence they turned around and walked back slowly.