The conversation lasted about an hour.

Huang Tao walked away from the office with a relieved expression on his face.

Tang Mingyao sat in his position and reviewed the process just now.

As long as you can grasp the essence of the problem, it is not difficult to find a solution to people's psychological problems, but the difficulty is how to clear the fog and find the hidden truth.

Huang Tao's question, when the moment he grasps the truth, he will feel like he is shocked.

Because his outward performance and his truest heart are doing two seemingly diametrically opposite things.

At this time, as a guiding role, Tang Mingyao's judgment and intuition are very important.

If you are not confident enough in yourself and are not sure that this is the truth, you are likely to miss it and analyze it in the wrong direction.

Of course, it does not mean that the problem is solved by finding the truth and giving advice, there is another process.

The subconscious mind has a sharper intuition and richer experience than the conscious mind, and it is like a "inheritance" in the fantasy, such as the inheritance of the dragon - we are born with the survival experience of our ancestors for generations, engraved in our genes, will not be forgotten, and are born with instinct.

These experiences are all controlled by the subconscious, and self-deception has no role here.

Plato said, "We cannot lie to the depths of our souls." In fact, it refers to the subconscious.

It sounds like the subconscious mind can do anything.

But on the other hand, the subconscious is just a child who doesn't grow up, kind, ignorant, and stubborn, and once it decides something, it is not so easy to convince it.

The easiest way is to use hypnosis to solve the problem in a short, flat and fast way.

But Tang Mingyao can't hypnotize now, so he can only solve it in another way - tell Huang Tao the truth of the matter and the solution, and after guidance, first form a concept in Huang Tao's heart, and then slowly digest it in his heart and convince himself.

How long this process takes depends on Huang Tao's own acceptance, and Tang Mingyao can only do some auxiliary work.

Perhaps, it can be completed before the college entrance examination; Perhaps, it will not be completed in three or five years......

At the end of the review, Tang Mingyao examined the whole process and found that this practice was a very valuable experience.

During the recording process, he hid Huang Tao's private information, so as not to accidentally be seen by others and expose what should not be exposed.

The days are moving forward steadily.

Tang Mingyao's review has basically come to an end, and what he is doing now is to continue to consolidate the knowledge points, and then do some questions every day to maintain his state.

In addition, He Ning recommended two books to him, he read a little bit every day, and finally saw the end.

Combined with the other books found from this book, in comparison, Tang Mingyao gained a lot.

Comparing his own situation, he further found a way to deal with death anxiety.

The first is to recognize the nature of death.

As an atheist, Tang Mingyao agrees with the idea that human consciousness is attached to the body and exists, and that when the body dies, the consciousness will naturally die.

After death, I don't feel it, and I am in a state of "nothingness and non-existence".

Since it doesn't exist and you don't feel it, then naturally there is nothing to be afraid of.

Further, this state of death is actually no different from the state before birth. The ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus believed that before and after death, there are two poles of symmetry. When people die, they just return to the state they were in before they were born.

We are never afraid of ignorance in life, and we do not need to fear eternal sleep after death.

There is also an argument for appeasement of wasted time.

That is, in the world, as long as you interact with others, you will unconsciously affect others, and your relatives and friends will be influenced by you, especially your children. When they receive this influence, it will further affect the people around them.

In this way, your influence will spread to infinity.

When we die, you may feel that you have wasted your life by feeling that you have achieved nothing, but before you know it, your influence on others has spread far away, and it is like a ripple, echoing in the long river of time.

In this world, you will definitely leave what belongs to you, and death is not the end for you.

And if you are a teacher, a politician, a successful businessman, a writer, an artist, etc., this influence will be magnified to the extreme, that is, the "history of history" that people pursue in the ordinary sense, and at that time, you will die without regrets.

Recognizing these points, Tang Mingyao felt that his anxiety had been alleviated again.

When I got home on the weekend, my father Tang Hui said that for some reason, the chain store of the pig farm owner was recently investigated by the tax department, and it was not long after it was newly opened, and a bunch of problems were found, and the pig boss was about to cry with the ticket.

Later, I don't know where he got the news, and when he heard that this was Tang Hui's hand, Boss Pig was instigated, and he personally came to apologize and whispered.

Since that day, there have been no more idle people coming to the door to cause trouble.

Now the two have temporarily entered a period of peace, no longer using off-board moves, and compete with their abilities.

Just looking at the current business situation, Tang Mingyao's franchise store, the business is much better than the opponent, as short as half a year, as long as one or two years, the other party will definitely not be able to withstand it, and leaving the scene is an inevitable outcome.

If the farm owner is decisive enough, it is wisest to evacuate quickly at this time.

Tang Mingyao listened to his father's words, and felt that this matter should still be ventilated, so that his father could know it in his heart, so he said that he had a classmate's father at school who was a big leader, and he happened to talk last time, so he mentioned by the way that it should be the leader who helped them.

Tang Hui suddenly asked if he wanted to make a special trip to thank others, Tang Mingyao thought about it and said that the other party's rank was too high, so don't do it deliberately for the time being, and wait until there is a chance in the future.

Before you know it, June is coming.

The annual high school entrance examination has begun.

Two years ago, Tang Mingyao experienced this experience and luckily won the top prize in the county's high school entrance examination.

This time it was Luo Wenxi's turn to go to the exam room.

After studying in this school for a year, although the girl spent a lot of time learning to draw, firstly, her grades were very good, and secondly, the teaching quality of the school here was better than that of the county middle school, so her grades did not decline too much, and still maintained an average level of early nineties.

In this high school entrance examination, Luo Wenxi's pressure is not great.

Her goal is not to specialize in art high school, but to prepare to pass the high school entrance examination and go directly to high school in this school.

Because he wanted to vacate the examination room, Tang Mingyao took a rare few days off.

As a qualified boyfriend, Tang Mingyao naturally would not let the girl take the high school entrance examination alone, so in the past few days, the task of picking up Luo Wenxi to the examination room was contracted by him. Even Luo's father and Luo's mother failed to snatch him.

Early this morning, Tang Mingyao sent his girlfriend to the examination room, and after seeing her in, he found a bookstore outside the examination room and went in, and read books casually.