Chapter 541 Experience
Cheng Keling used to imagine her husband as too detached, she thought that he only had everyone in his heart, and he never had a small family.
Cheng Keling decided that Brother-in-law Wang was a good brother to his filial son, as for his father and husband, Cheng Keling was a little bit worse here.
As a result, the husband and wife had a rare heart-to-heart conversation last night, and they understood that they misunderstood each other and didn't know how much.
In Brother-in-law Wang's heart, Cheng Keling is a rare and extremely selfless filial daughter-in-law and good sister-in-law, in her heart, there is no place for her husband and children.
After the husband and wife explained everything in their hearts, they knew how many good things they had missed, but they were also glad in their hearts that they were still young.
Brother-in-law Wang was a little curious about how Cheng Keling was so enlightened all of a sudden, and he heard Cheng Keling mention what Cheng Kejia said.
Of course, Cheng Keling calmly told the brother-in-law of the Wang family that most of those words were what the three old ladies of the Cheng family had said to their sisters in the past, but she listened to them casually that day, and Cheng Kejia listened attentively.
Brother-in-law Wang looked at Cheng Keling, he nodded lightly and said, "You take the children back to your parents' house more in the future, and the children will receive more good words and deeds, which will be of great benefit to them in the future."
We have a very wise grandmother, and in the future, we will be more filial to her.
These truths are life experiences that cannot be known from books, and our husband and wife have not understood that guessing is the stupidest thing for several years. ”
Cheng Keling glanced at Brother-in-law Wang, she thought about it for a while and whispered: "I see that my mother doesn't like children to get close to her uncle and family. ”
Brother-in-law Wang looked at Cheng Keling and said bluntly: "Children are our children, as for how to teach them, all the consequences in the future will only be returned to our husband and wife." ”
Mrs. Wang's age, even if she lives a few more years, she will not live longer than her son and daughter-in-law.
Cheng Keling looked at Brother-in-law Wang with a smile and said, "Husband, father and mother, I still need my husband to talk about it." ”
Cheng Keling thought about these things, and in front of the three old ladies of the Cheng family and Cheng Kejia, her face turned rosy again.
She pretended to slap her face with her hand and said, "Grandmother, Jia'er, it's a little hot in this yard." ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family exchanged glances with Cheng Kejia, and Cheng Kejia smiled and said, "Sister, your heart is calm and naturally cool." ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family is proud of her granddaughter, but she doesn't like Cheng Keling and Cheng Kejia to use ice cubes casually, she means very clearly, the woman's body is too cool, but it is not good for fertility.
The third old lady of the Cheng family would rather be hot, she is also a person who uses less ice cubes, she said that when it is hot, she sweats, but her body feels much lighter.
The Cheng family is about the only one in the second room who uses ice the most every summer, and in other places, men use ice more often, while women use ice very little.
After Cheng Keling married into the Wang family, the Wang family naturally did not use ice cubes in the summer, Cheng Keling was used to this kind of life, but the younger brothers and daughters-in-law who married in later were all a little unaccustomed to the Wang family living without ice cubes in the summer.
It's just that the old lady of the Wang family didn't speak, and Cheng Keling resolutely supported the decision of the old lady of the Wang family, so Cheng Keling's concubines had to give up those ideas.
Cheng Keling thought about it carefully, she used to think that some decisions were good for the concubines, but in fact, no matter how much she did, in the hearts of the concubines, she still had a stingy reputation.
Cheng Keling smiled with the third old lady of the Cheng family and said: "Grandmother, I don't have much family affairs, and in the future, with my younger siblings helping to take care of family affairs, I will have more days to spare."
Grandmother, I often bring the children home to talk to my grandmother, and if the children are too noisy, you tell me, I will take them to quarrel with my mother and sister-in-law. ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family said with a smile on her face: "You brothers and sisters have quarreled with me since I was a child, but now that you are older, my yard is quiet, you bring the children to quarrel, I think the yard is going to be lively again." ”
Cheng Keling laughed and said, "Grandmother, I'll wait until the family affairs are handed over, and I'll take them back every few days." ”
Cheng Kejia looked at Cheng Keling's expression, she looked at the contemplative look in the eyes of the third old lady of the Cheng family, and she said with a smile: "When my sister brings her nephews back, you can also talk to me, and I will also come back to get close to my nephews." ”
Cheng Keling looked at Cheng Kejia and said with a smile: "Okay, when I come back, I will talk to you, but you are acting according to your arrangement, don't let us come back." ”
Cheng Kejia nodded lightly, looked at Cheng Keling with a little puzzlement and said, "Sister, since you got married, you will come back at most once a season."
No matter how free you are now, your mother-in-law above, the ladies in the middle, and the children below, you can only come back once a month at most. As long as you talk to me in advance, I have adjusted the day, and naturally there will be no compromise. ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family looked at Cheng Keling from the side and reminded: "Ling'er, your brother is now on the official career, but he is just standing at the door, as for what will happen when he enters the door, it depends on his ability and talent to get to that point."
Ling'er, you and Jia'er should be low-key in this matter, after all, there are hundreds of readers on the list every three years, but there are very few people who can stand out. ”
Cheng Keling and Cheng Kejia looked respectful, and after the sisters looked at each other, they almost said in unison: "Grandmother, we understand, after we are happy, we will still act the same as before." ”
The third elder lady of the Cheng family looked at their sisters, she smiled and nodded, "Both of you sisters are sensible children, I still trust you." ”
The three old ladies and grandchildren of the Cheng family were talking in the courtyard, moving slowly all the time, the first of the Kong family to congratulate, and then the guests slowly increased.
Cheng Kejia quietly asked Cheng Keling: "Sister, when will the people of your family come?" ”
A shy look flashed on Cheng Keling's face, when she went out in the morning, whether it was her parents-in-law or brother-in-law and concubines, they all said congratulations to her, and asked her to say hello to her family on her behalf, but no one took the initiative to say anything like going to her door to congratulate her.
Cheng Keling understands in her heart that the rules of the old lady of the Wang family are like this, she easily does not go out and walks around, and her requirements for her daughters-in-law are also to move less, and it is best not to move around too much with her mother's family.
Cheng Keling couldn't understand the actions of the old lady of the Wang family at first, but after she was the housekeeper, she knew that the old lady Wang's maiden family had always had the intention of using her, and Cheng Keling was able to understand some of the actions of the old lady of the Wang family.
The old lady of the Wang family's maiden affairs, Cheng Keling was naturally inconvenient to discuss with others, so she could only be silent.