Chapter 259: Invitation
Fan Jingjing and Niu Shijin are both people who know each other's advantages, and they are also people who can't get used to each other.
The mercy of the strong for the weak will also prevail, allowing Niu Shijin to take a step back.
But now, Niu Shijin feels that he has no way to retreat and can only defend his last dignity.
The two are arguing with each other, it seems that you don't accept me, I don't obey you, and you have to move your fists at any time, but Niu Shijin is a man.
Why do good men not fight with women, the most important thing is that women are easy to be unreasonable, and when men can't talk, they can go with a fist, and in the end they still have to rely on their fists to speak, but women are in front of a man, and the ancient rules make a heroic man unable to make a fist.
The reputation of beating women is not good for the powerful.
The two of them seemed to be arguing, but Sun Erlang stood next to him, but he was silent.
Sun Erlang has now grown into a manager.
Managers are well-informed and have long known that only quarrels can lead to better outcomes.
As long as you can subdue those who are not convinced, it is enough to withdraw the bottom and suppress it.
At the same time, as long as you keep enough sanity, arguing can enhance mutual understanding.
As long as there is one thing in common between two people, they will not really become enemies.
And Sun Erlang felt that Niu Shijin might become one of his masters.
Sun Erlang is not a slave.
Fan Jingjing has never treated anyone as a slave.
Fan Qi was fortunate to change her surname to Fan, so Fan Jingjing turned her into a family-like existence.
Sun Erlang was very envious, but Fan Jingjing did not allow him to betray his ancestors and abandon his ancestors.
For a person, there must be a bottom limit to be controllable, and if you are not controllable, anyone will think that he is an enemy.
Even the emperor.
Although Sun Erlang's most important master is still Fan Jingjing, she thinks that Fan Jingjing is more reliable than any man.
But as long as he is in Fan Jingjing's position, it will affect whether he can be the main steward of the Fan family's manor in the future.
In fact, no one knows better than Sun Erlang what kind of behemoth the Fan family manor will be in the future, even if he is not the main manager, he is also very beautiful when he is the second or third manager, as long as the person standing above him is not an acquaintance.
Otherwise, he would be very aggrieved.
Sun Erlang didn't expect that as long as Fan Jingjing introduced the population into the Fan family manor, he didn't need to go through his hands, which means that as long as anyone who entered the Fan family manor, they would become his acquaintances.
So this acquaintance ran to his head, did he still have to resist it, so he had to be broad-minded to be able to accept everyone.
Fan Jingjing is not a sophisticated person, in her heart, if a person is a talent, and can still use it, if it is central enough, Fan Jingjing will use it.
She believes that a person should stand in the most appropriate position with his ability at that time.
Fan Jingjing believes that the appointment of relatives is the beginning of the decline of a company or a country.
If a person wants to grow, it will be too hard to break through too many interpersonal barriers.
Everyone's ability will grow, some people will stalemate, some people will continue to improve, at this time, as a regulator, you must help them put a good position.
"You're too tired, come with me to the Fan family manor to live for a while. Maybe a little better. ”
Fan Jingjing sent out an invitation, and the clarity of Niu Shijin's eyes made her decide to believe her.
What she couldn't tolerate, at the beginning, she told Niu Shijin.
Whether Niu Shijin did anything to be sorry for her, Fan Jingjing didn't know, but she knew that in Niu Shijin's heart, he didn't feel guilty, nor did he feel sorry for Fan Jingjing, all he cared about was the difference in status.
But he didn't care too much, because he believed that he would make even greater achievements.
Meritorious service in battle is the most proud thing for the lords.
"Aren't the there? The emperor also goes there often, I can't get close to the Fan family manor, right? ”
If you want to have leisure and amusement, you have to go to the recreation area of the Fan family manor, which is an independent world, not something that he can be approached by an outsider.
"You can get in the role of worker, learner." Fan Jingjing said fairly.
"Living in the Fan family's manor, I'm not more tired, now it's putting a lot of pressure on me, if I haven't won you, how can I be qualified to marry?
And Yu Chi Aya seems that I am sorry for her again, if it weren't for me, she wouldn't have gotten the epidemic, resulting in a disfigured face.
The Wei Chi family is not something that our Niu family can offend, and my father thinks that I must accept Wei Chi Aya. ”
Niu Shijin finally explained the reason for what he did.
Fan Jingjing's heart is indeed much better, but this matter still has to be investigated in the end.
After all, it is quite important to fight for a father for her child, but she doesn't want his father to spend all day drinking outside.
For her, it's a matter of health and face.
If people are well fed and clothed, they will pay attention to the problem of saving face.
Face is a thing that can be comfortable when interacting with people.
When people live in people, they must care about their position in interpersonal relationships.
Fan Jingjing finally persuaded Niu Shijin.
Because Niu Shijin is in his heart, it is impossible to have no **.
And in the war, his ** grew rapidly.
Compared to when he hadn't seen blood, his ** was even stronger.
When Niu Shijin asked the people around him to go back to report and report directly to the Fan family manor, he was a little dumbfounded.
"Aren't I living in the Fan family's manor?"
He also wanted to visit Yu Chi Aya, in his heart, it was a sister.
That's why he hasn't been able to get into his sister's bed.
If it were an ordinary woman, he might not have that endurance.
After all, it was his mother who didn't let him gain an inch.
It's still in his nature that he really wants to try it.
"What do we do in this place, for the convenience of work, there are specific places to stay, unless it is the whole family.
But it's easy to get into a distraction.
Generally, if you start a family, you will live in Fan's town.
If you're not going to be a chef, you may have to choose something that suits you.
In my heart, you are the best chef, and you should show it to the girls. ”
Three black lines appeared on Niu Shijin's face.
"I don't want to be famous as a chef...... My specialty is in martial arts. ”
"Do you still want to show force in front of your mother? It's too dangerous.
I see, there's a place where you can incorporate what you saw and heard on the battlefield into the stories of human life and spread them to these girls.
The ladies have never been to the station, hiding in the harem, they don't know the normal appearance, maybe the emperor will accompany them to the play, and now the emperor comes much more often.
Seems to have a bit of an interest in drama.
Let's talk about it first, there is no battlefield in my Fan family manor, and we all live in peace. ”
"Isn't there a guard in your Fan family manor? Can I teach them martial arts? ”
"You want to compete with Liang Shu for a job? Yes! You can fight and see who is stronger. ”
What the enemy likes, that Fan Jingjing doesn't like, wants to destroy.
The love scene is like a battlefield, playing some small tricks, Fan Jingjing has no burden in her heart.
Although Niu Shijin has a powerful mother-in-law, so far, his views on women are still relatively simple.
Even for him, women are no different from men except for bed exercises.
The woman Niu Shijin most often contacts is not Fan Jingjing, but Wei Chi Aya.
In the past, when he was young, Yu Chi Aya fought and killed him all day long, and his sister is still young now, and he has not used a woman's expertise to find trouble, so Niu Shijin feels that being with a woman is no different from a man.
Fan Jingjing is weak on the outside, but she is actually very strong, and what she is doing is no different from that of a man.
The woman who would discuss with Niu Shijin's brothers, he felt that there was a world of difference.
He sometimes wonders, does his brother have some misunderstanding about women?
Because the woman he saw seemed to be different from the woman everyone else saw.
But now Niu Shijin saw that Yu Chi Aya and Fan Jingjing were arguing, and felt that there seemed to be another type of woman.
And the reason why this type of woman appears seems to be the relationship between Fan Jingjing.
In Datang, as long as a woman can marry a wealthy man, she is already very happy to be a wife, and Fan Jingjing's requirements were too high and too much for him before.
Well, now Fan Jingjing is indeed qualified to ask him to marry only one of her.
It's just that now Fan Jingjing and Yu Chilin's status is very high, there is no way to let one person be a wife and the other person be a concubine, and there is also a difference between high and low as a flat wife.
What's more, Fan Jingjing either gave up, or asked that she could only have one wife in the future, and no other women.
How can a man be without other women?
Fan Jingjing can't be young and beautiful for a lifetime, right?
Niu Shijin didn't know that Fan Jingjing was the darling of the sky, and it might be possible to be young all her life, at least her youth could last longer than other women.
If you are more beautiful than youth, marrying Fan Jingjing is earned.
But no matter how beautiful the face is, it will be ordinary after looking at it for a long time.
For men, it is still not as attractive as countless young beauties.
The only thing that can make a man feel good is poverty, and there is also morality.
But if a man's moral heart is to be established, it is actually very difficult, unless the man's mind is not on the woman, but on power or on the battlefield.
Every man's pursuit is actually similar to that of a woman, and they all have different pursuits, but most men pursue beautiful women, and most beautiful women pursue a rich life.
Fan Jingjing knew that Niu Shijin had a pursuit of merit on the battlefield, he wanted to establish merit on the battlefield, and if he wanted to come back safely on the battlefield, he must have stronger force than others, so he never lagged behind when exercising his body.
It's just that when a man doesn't focus on the woman he loves, a woman is just an object, an item that is placed at home, can be used for fun when he is leisurely, and when he focuses on the battlefield, he will not miss it at all.
Fan Jingjing didn't want to be left behind, so she didn't like Niu Shijin to go to the battlefield.
Fighting with weapons is the desire of all capable men, not to mention the power that can build up merit and possess the desire.
But Niu Shijin has no way to understand Fan Jingjing's desire for men to stay at home in peace and live an ordinary life, and Niu Shijin has no way to understand Fan Jingjing's various developments in Fan's manor.
In his heart, a girl just stays at home and deals with things, and she doesn't need to show up.
What's more, now Fan Jingjing has such a big family business, and she still goes to the field every day to farm, and her body is full of mud and sand, although Fan Jingjing is also very fond of cleanliness, and her temperament is something that others can't learn.
But he still thinks Fan Jingjing is an eccentric woman.
In fact, since the first day he met Fan Jingjing, he didn't feel that Fan Jingjing was normal, but most of the time, Fan Jingjing's abnormality was very interested.
Of course, Niu Shijin can't write scripts, but now although a noble family can't invite famous Confucians, it is no problem to find a few literate people to enlighten.
And the most important thing in the script is the ups and downs of the plot, so it does not require too much knowledge of words, and there are naturally people with deep writing skills who can polish it when the time comes.
As long as you can express the whole plot in words, it's fine.
The whole dialogue and the process, these actors will master it, and the actors hired by Fan Jingjing are not simple characters.
Fan Jingjing's requirements for Niu Shijin are very simple, just integrate the battlefield into the story and express the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the characters.
The Fan family's theater in the recreation area is the most efficient theater, and the scripts written in it can be staged on the spot.
If they can't be popular, or if their popularity is relatively low, these scripts will be put away and there will be no chance of coming out.
Or sell it to some small theater companies at a relatively low price.
As soon as the drama code of the Fan family manor came out, within a month, other small troupes were about to come over to suck blood.
At that time, when Niu Shijin joined the playwright of the Fan Family Troupe, Emperor Li Shimin came.
I heard that there is a new drama code, and the new drama code can make people's blood boil, and I especially like the emperor himself who can't go to the battlefield.
It's just that there are really too few similar dramas.
In fact, not all mothers like battlefield dramas.
Ladies love to cry, but the tears are different.
I like it very much, and I despise it very much if I don't like it.
The eldest grandson queen herself is very fond of it, because she is also the queen who came out of the battlefield, and she often has a sense of memory for this kind of war drama, but as a queen, she has no way to go in and out of the battlefield as before.
She had to obediently do her own thing according to the requirements of the law of the Tang Dynasty.
As a daughter of a family, she is actually very accustomed to this kind of life.
Since he was a child, education is to adapt to such a life, and her husband is also the husband she likes in her heart, so there is no big problem for the two to get along.
What's more, so many children have been born between the two of them, and Li Shimin did not wait for her to give birth to a child and desperately find other women, every time it was her turn, she would come back with peace of mind, for a woman from a family, this is already a very good situation.