After victory, after returning to Datang and retiring to rest, they can live a slightly more glorious life in Datang, unless they are forgotten by others, and the people in the village do not support them, they will become miserable disabled people.

If they are respected by the people around them, even if they are disabled, they do not need to move around with their limbs in their lives.

Of course, people still want to be able to remain whole, so that they can enjoy the most glorious scenery and be free

Live.

What is most important is a different answer in each person's mind, and each answer may be a positive answer to the difficulties of his current life.

What is the most important thing for Niu Shijin, naturally it is not the child in front of him.

For him, he is a Datang person, what is the most important thing for the Datang people?

It's the continuation of the whole family.

It seems that from birth, the continuation of the family is the mission of every family member, if some people can abandon all this, it is because he feels that the family does not need him, and no matter how he plays, it will not affect the family, so he can give up all this.

When the family is intact, you have to take part of the responsibility as an individual, especially when the family needs you.

In the Tang Dynasty, the women of the family even have to marry because of the needs of the family, marry someone who can maintain the survival of the family, and the survival of the family does not know how to make the people of the family very attentive to love, probably the survival of the family, which means that you can be worshiped after death, unlike in the scientific era, people only worship five generations of ancestors, or even three generations of ancestors, and the people in front do not worship the family.

It may be everyone's hope to be able to live in peace and stability forever and never suffer again. This kind of hope can allow Indians to live in peace and stability under extreme suffering, and after the suffering of this life, they can have a better life next time.

In fact, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, and it is normal to suffer, even if it is wealthy, they will suffer.

Don't say don't say anything else, just the fact that someone calls them every day to ask them to donate money is indispensable, and it is a painful thing for some people to think about how to refuse someone, and even the reason put forward by the other party is high-sounding.

How much money can be donated, the direction of the donation has already been decided, as the owner of the money, you can't change it at will, especially if the career is very large.

Having said that, Fan Jingjing can analyze the other party's psychological state, but she may not be able to agree with it in her heart.

In fact, she has always had a very complete grasp of other people's hearts, so every time she deals with things, as long as it involves a psychological state, Fan Jingjing often can't handle it well, the main reason is that because she can't imagine why others have such thinking and such a logical state, they can only deal with it in accordance with the basic requirements of society.

But most of the basic requirements of society are actually unsatisfactory, and Fan Jingjing simply handed over these things to Sun Erlang and them to deal with.

When Sun Erlang dealt with it, it seemed that there were no rules, but he was always able to satisfy everyone.

"It's a pity that I'm sick now, and they're really not afraid of my disease?

If they can approach me in this way, I believe that you are his mother and will not harm them, and besides, you have no reason to ask them to come near me to gain any benefit.

In fact, I have no other benefits for you except to be a man, and if there is no man, the imperial court and the yamen will be more or less troubled, because then people will not be able to manage other people, because they can only discredit you, otherwise if the people are not obedient, they will have no coercion.

In fact, it is the managers in the middle who are the most painful. ”

The role of Niu Shijin in the army is basically the role of the middleman, and the relationship with the above is relatively good, but it is still very inconvenient to deal with many things.

"Don't imply to me here, women just have to get married, otherwise the whole court will not allow it.

The most suitable age for a woman to marry is between twenty-five and thirty years old, if you want to marry earlier, then it is enough to have seven or eight children at the age of twenty-three or four, and it can already torture a woman's body.

At most, give birth to one or two children, if the nutrition is sufficient, you can have three children, in fact, if the child can be taken care of, it can be passed on, what do so many people do? ”

When Fan Jingjing said this, she actually didn't have a head, because in her mind, the population has always been a lot, the world's population is already seven billion people, and the concept of population in Datang is not like this, they think that there are only 10 million households, which is too few for the land of Datang, and there is no way to resist the Turks next to it, because there are many people who want to put down farm tools and work hard to pick up knives and guns, but the production of each knife and gun requires a lot of money and manpower.

The number of people who pick up knives and guns reduces agricultural production.

Therefore, in the imagination of the Tang officials, only the more manpower, the more taxes can be generated, and at the same time, the more soldiers can be produced.

In fact, the steppe peoples in the north have always been the external troubles of Middle Earth, and how to repel these people has been a major event for thousands of years.

Repetitive behavior continues to occur, because the steppe people don't know much science and technology, but just keep riding horses.

After the Tang Dynasty, gunpowder began to be invented, as well as the invention of various iron tools, with the change of tools, so that the steppe people after each injury, and with new tools, they continued to rise, and then slowly began to occupy and rule Middle-earth.

When the steppe peoples in the north of Middle-earth began to possess new technology, they became weaker and weaker, more and more aware of literati knowledge and technology, and began to have the mentality of seizing power.

However, the literati had no way to solve the problem of military strength until the literati were able to develop science and technology beyond the times, so that the people in the north could not imitate it even if they saw it, and this situation ended.

In fact, before this, they never included the grassland peoples in the idea of rule, because for them, there is no way to rule the grassland, these people do not live in one place fixedly, and constantly follow the water and grass to come and go, there is no way to live in a place fixedly, it is difficult to collect taxes, it is not easy to manage, it is easy to form robbers, and the formation of robbers has the problem of public security.