Panyu 48 See clearly
The lynx was stunned, thought about it and smiled and said, "You think too complicated, which of those big people is clean?" It won't be that serious. ”
Although the bobcat is eight years older than the little rabbit, because there are people who help him with many things, the biggest setback he has experienced is the early death of his mother, and he has not seen as many disasters as the little rabbit. It's good to watch life happy, and being too optimistic will affect judgment.
It's a pity that sometimes it's useless to be able to judge the pros and cons, for example, the rabbit sees the future very clearly, but it can't change the result; If you can't change the sober perception of the result, you can only add to your worries, and it is better to be confused.
The little rabbit was silent, and the lynx chattered as he walked, "You don't know yet, do you?" During the Chinese New Year, my brother made it clear to Ah Ling's relatives that he had already broken up with Ah Ling and could help them financially, but he couldn't say that he was their son-in-law and brother-in-law......
Xiaotu has heard this kind of thing more than once, no matter how much you say that it is useless to break up, relatives will only think that it is a small couple quarreling and awkward.
Xiaotu asked rhetorically: "Did Ah Ling admit to breaking up?" Remarried? I guess I still live in your old house, right? ”
The bobcat opened his mouth for a few moments before he spoke, "My dad needs to be taken care of, and you know my mom is gone...... But it's like a daughter taking care of her father...... Let me tell you a secret, since Ah Ling became pregnant with a child until now, my brother has not had a good relationship with Ah Ling, and he has long since separated......"
Different ways of thinking, different angles of looking at problems, and different conclusions. Bobcat feels that it is normal and simple to separate if there is a discord, as long as they are considerate of each other, there will be no terrible consequences. If you look at it according to Shanying, it is simpler, he said that many foreigners can still get along like friends after divorce and reorganization.
But the little rabbit could predict what would happen if the boar was with him.
The little rabbit raised his face, as if the lynx said that it had nothing to do with him, and said: "He is so indifferent to Ah Ling, and Ah Ling also raises his son and takes care of his father for him, which shows that Ah Ling treats him sincerely, and he should not let Ah Ling down." ”
"Why don't you understand? My brother likes you! You said that he was indifferent to Ah Ling, but were you just as ruthless to him? ”
"You know I'm a ruthless person, and you still come to me to say this?" The little rabbit walked briskly back to the dormitory, ignoring what the lynx was yelling about.
The little rabbit washed up and got into the bed, but she couldn't sleep at all, and one thing after another flashed in her mind.
After she decided to go to the president's promotion quota tomorrow, she resigned and went back to Sweet Potato City to find a job, otherwise something would really happen.
She didn't admit it, but in her heart she knew that she had love for the boar, and the emotional world of the boar was too complicated, and if she couldn't control her heart, it would be troublesome to show her love.
After knowing each other for so many years, Little Rabbit understands the boar, and it is precisely because of this understanding that he will not give birth to the delusion that he is his only true love. Occasionally, the little rabbit's dream will appear in the scene that the boar is just waiting for himself to grow up and has never paid attention to other women, and there are many romance novels written like that, but when he wakes up, the little rabbit still has to face the facts.
For example, the boar can't take the initiative to break up, and it can't chase after his girlfriend leaves.
He's the kind of person you want to leave, and I won't keep it; If you don't leave, I won't let you go.
The so-called repeated breakups with Ah Ling are just distancing themselves from Ah Ling's relatives, and telling relatives and friends at the wine table not to get him and Ah Ling together, instead of directly saying things that hurt Ah Ling in person.
He just refused to live with Ah Ling, but he would never treat Ah Ling badly, Xiao Rabbit had never seen him treat any woman badly, and not only did he not treat Xiao Xiong, Bing'er, and Tian Tian badly, but he was also very attentive.
He will try to make her amuse, because the bear has the cutest smile. For Bing'er, he will try his best to restrain his bad temper and behave like a gentleman. It's better for Tiantian, except for some small contradictions in how to get along with the elders, other aspects can really be called spoiled.
Of course, the little bear and Bing'er and the other women that the rabbit didn't know disappeared into his life, and even if they met by chance, it was just a salty and indifferent greeting.
But Xiaotu knows that Tian Tian and Ah Ling will not let the past pass, and these two women may be entangled with the boar for the rest of their lives.
Tiantian is because she is unwilling, she has a good family background and is beautiful, she and the boar quarreled when they were in Jinxi, and they were divided and merged many times, but they didn't really break off their relationship.
Tian Tian always felt that if it wasn't for her parents forcibly taking her back to Rongcheng, and the boar and Ah Ling marrying in a hurry, they would not have been able to separate. Because of unwillingness and regret, as long as she has the opportunity to get close to the boar, she will definitely use all means to redeem it.
And Ah Ling can't be separated from the boar for the sake of dignity and dreams like many women in the city. In her concept, marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating, material security is more important than spiritual needs, and if you have a child, you have to follow this man for the rest of your life.
Moreover, compared with other women in the same village, Ah Ling feels that it is not too bad to live like this.
For example, the boar gave her those gifts without care, but in the eyes of people in remote rural areas, they are rare items that they have never seen before. If you remarry and marry a poor man who is lazy and beats his wife, it will be really miserable.
These details are small things that the little rabbit can think of, but they can't think of the boar and the bobcat. Not only because men are careless, but also because of the different growth environment.
Although the boar is in the countryside, his real inner world should be a fusion of urban rebellious teenagers and traditional machismo, and he can't imagine how much turmoil he will cause in that circle in his hometown if he is truly separated from Ah Ling.
And the little rabbit hukou went to the sweet potato city because the rabbit's father wanted to enter the city, but she has been living in the countryside since she was a child, except for relatives in the city during the New Year's holidays, and she knows how people like Ah Ling will view marriage.
The countryside is not only beautiful rural scenery, quiet as a paradise, and those things are no less deceitful than in the city. Sometimes, a loss of benefits can make people dig out their hearts to get it, and the greed and selfishness of human nature may even be covered up by good upbringing in the city, and some ugly things in the countryside are not even covered up.
Perhaps because of the lack of a sense of belonging, the rabbit will not comment on the group with partial generalizations, and the commonality of any group does not represent the individual's personality. There are wealthy families in the city who are rich but not arrogant, and there are also hypocritical and ruthless smiling faces and hypocrisy. In the countryside, there are poor young people who are eager to learn and progress, and there are also ignorant second-rate people who are lazy and slippery.
When it comes to vanity comparison, some elderly people in rural areas are really cautious in their behavior. For example, when children send money back, they always say not to put it on the card, for fear of making mistakes, but it is clear that when their children go to school in other places, they are often using the card to transfer money.
It's not that you can't use a card, it's for the voice of the postman, and the voice of whoever has a remittance slip. Only a string of numbers on the card that is invisible to others can give real satisfaction in sending money. As the times go on, there is really no need to send money, so it becomes deliberately answering the phone in front of others so that people can hear their children giving money again.
Anyway, if the boar really dares to completely sever relations with Ah Ling and only give child support to the eldest child, it will have to be crusaded against as "Chen Shimei" in his hometown.
What Xiaotu is most afraid of is this kind of trivial matter that will cause trouble, not to mention that she has relatives of seven aunts and eight aunts who will count her down. So just if you want to compete with Ah Ling and Tian Tian, it will make the little rabbit shudder, so clear about the consequences, and dare to accept the love of the boar, it is really cheap!