Chapter 593 Mother and daughter talk about talent and appearance, Chaoyang protects the shortcomings and refutes many arguments
Xin Min's matter Chaoyang only listened to it as an anecdote, and only remembered after listening to it: "What did my mother do when I inquired about his family background?" ”
Jing'er looked at her and smiled: "If you don't inquire clearly, how do you know if he is worthy of you?" ”
Chaoyang complained bitterly: "Mother, don't listen to Xiaojing's nonsense, I just want to recruit a musician for our family, don't you want to recruit a son-in-law for your daughter when you see a man, is your daughter such a hungry person?" I'd rather lack than abuse. ”
Jing'er doesn't want to know her view of mate selection, she only knows that her daughter is seventeen this year, and she is eighteen years old, and a girl as old as her has not yet decided to marry.
"Don't say it's too dead, I'll look at it first, maybe you'll see the right eye, you have to pass my pass first, and you will be allowed to contact him only if you have a clean family background and a good character."
Chaoyang asked: "Then you have inquired clearly, what do you think of others?" Can you touch it? ”
Jing'er hurriedly said: "Naturally, compared to those who don't know the roots, the background is too poor, if you marry him, you will be a son-in-law, and you have to be relatives with those rural people, so I can deal with those people enough, let alone you." ”
It's not that Jing'er looks down on the people at the bottom, but they are of different classes and have very different behaviors, they shouldn't go together, Xin Min Ruoke will naturally integrate into this class in the future, but his family can't fit in, if Chaoyang marries him, he has to take his family out to socialize, so he has to teach them how to integrate into this class, how easy it is to say, Chaoyang grew up in Jinyu Township There are still many deviants, not to mention that those people used to live in another way.
Chaoyang didn't care about this, and felt that her mother was a little disgusted with the poor and loved the rich, and asked: "Abandoning the family background, what does your mother think of his character?" ”
Jing'er said: "He hasn't done anything hurtful, and he can easily judge his character, but his heart is by no means as honest and honest as it seems." ”
"How so?"
Jing'er thought of her and her brother's life experience, probably the empathy between the adopted children, if they are not good enough, they will be given up by the adoptive family, of course, they are good enough, the adoptive family has biological children, they will still be abandoned, the difference is just that they are down-and-out or glamorous, Xin Min is obviously the latter.
"First of all, he had eight or nine brothers and sisters in his family, and he couldn't afford to raise them, so he sent several of them away, and the other sisters were sent to ordinary people's homes, but he was looked down upon by the big families in the town."
"That's because people are talented, I heard him say that he knew how to play the flute since he was a child, and he knew how to play the flute without a teacher, and I could only whistle after learning for so many years."
Jing'er wanted to knock her on the brain, she still had the face to say that the family provided her with such favorable conditions, the female history in the palace couldn't teach her, and Jing'er was embarrassed to say that this was her daughter.
"Even if he was adopted by his gifted squire, and later the squire had a biological son in his family and sent him back to his original family, if he changed to an ordinary person, this would be enough for father and son to turn against each other, but they were good to get together and disperse, and the squire also gave him a sum of money to repay the family, which is his second cleverness. It is not easy for half of the eldest son in the countryside to study and not work, there are so many brothers in his family, only he can read others can not read, this alone is enough for the family to be restless, but he is stunned to be able to soothe the emotions of his family, and at the same time maintain a relationship with his adoptive father's family, so that his adoptive father has been sponsoring him to study, this sleek is not beyond the reach of ordinary people. ”
Chaoyang said: "People are scholars, and it's not a bad thing to be smart and enterprising, if he doesn't know how to be flexible when he reads dead books, I can't look down on it." ”
Jing'er glanced at her and said with a smile: "This is what you see?" ”
"Oh, I didn't mean that, don't keep making fools, these points you discussed can only show that he is a smart person, and it doesn't seem to show that he has a bad heart."
"Then there is one last point, that day you were playing in the temple, and you heard his melodious flute call to meet, do you taste this bridge, like Sima Xiangru picking Zhuo Wenjun? These two people didn't end up with any good results, and Sima Xiangru was not a good match, if he had the intention to do so, this person would not have it. ”
Chaoyang said: "Sima Xiangru can provoke Zhuo Wenjun, it is because he has excellent piano skills, and Zhuo's family banquet plays the piano so much, why hasn't Zhuo Wenjun been provoked by others?" In the same way, if Xin Min pierces my ears like I play and disturbs my play Yaxing, I will arrest him and beat him, he is intentionally so, and he is also confident in his music. ”
Jing'er looked at her like this, as if she was Zhuo Wenjun's second, and wanted to wake her up immediately: "This is exactly the purpose of my inquiry, how talent can be seen at first sight, but it will take a long time to see people's hearts, you must not easily like a person because of his talent, character is the most important." ”
Chaoyang Qi: "I'll just find a musician, don't you just look at talent?" As long as he is not murdering, arsoning, raping, and plundering, we don't have to demand that he do a good deed with a heart in his heart. ”
Just looking for a musician, of course, it depends on the talent, if you are looking for a husband, the talent can be secondary, the face can't be bad, Xin Min is as good as Yu Wenlian, she really can't escape, it's a pity, it's a pity, that Zhong Lingyuxiu is a masterpiece of God, and there are not a few in the world.
Chaoyang said that she just wanted to find a musician who matched her heart, but Jing'er saw that it was rare for a man to meet her daughter's heart, so she didn't dare to believe it easily, but she wouldn't give up easily, so she didn't want to say too much, and she went to inquire again.
Chaoyang doesn't care, now in the filial piety period, my mother can't show her at this time, just go and investigate, she wants to listen to Xin Min's music, Xin Min shouldn't take her piano and won't come to the door.
Xin Min went to the door, he asked the shopkeeper of the inn, who was the second house in Yuanbao Lane on Zhuque Street, and the shopkeeper said that the place was full of royal relatives and nobles, and he had never been there, so he didn't know much, but there were only a few of them, and they were nobles who couldn't be touched by these little people.
Xin Min didn't want to take other people's pianos for nothing, and after returning to the inn, he found out his music score, and practiced this good piano a few times with his past pride, and it was really more sound than the ordinary piano wood.
"There are only two houses in Yuanbao Lane, the first is the Lijun Palace, and the second is the Zhenguo Mansion. That's the wrong place, one family is a clan relative, one family is a noble, they don't care about the imperial examination, if you want to apprentice, you have to go to a few Shangshu's homes, and they all live in the alleys of the outer city. ”
The civil officials of the iron and noble flowing water, the noble families all occupied a good house when the dynasty was opened, and the hereditary mansion was passed down from generation to generation, and the civil official imperial examination was carried out once every three years, and the renewal was too fast, and the house in the inner city did not have their share.
Xin Min knew that she was the daughter of the Zhenguo Mansion, no wonder she was so proud, but the girl in the Guogong Mansion should be just a courtier, why do you feel that she is more proud than the princess?
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