Chapter 376: A family of brothers is divided into two poles, each with its own thoughts, and gradually closes the wall
In March, there is a good spring, it is the season of recovery of all things, birds and animals go out to forage for food in winter, Quanzhou City is warm in winter, people who live here do not have a cat winter, but the plan of the year lies in spring, spring is always a season full of energy.
Jiang Ji lived in the barracks for a few days, busy with the semi-annual naval exercises, the summer in Quanzhou came early, and the summer was the time when the coastal water bandits were raging.
Jiang Ji was busy with this before returning home to talk about his lovesickness with his wife, his official residence is not far from the barracks, but in order to show that he, the commander, shares weal and woe with the soldiers, he must eat and live with them during the exercise, and now that the drill is over, he can return home to live.
On the days when Jiang Ji was not there, Jing'er stayed in the house, Quanzhou City was a little chaotic, there were locals in the city, there were also foreigners who came to do business, and there were often troops on the street to arrest thieves and spies in the city, Jiang Ji was not worried that Jing'er went out alone, fortunately, Jing'er was not easy to move, Jiang Ji would take her out if she was free, and if she was not free, she would raise flowers and tea in the house, and implement self-cultivation to the extreme, and came to Quanzhou for a year, her face was ruddy a lot, and she did achieve the purpose of conditioning her body, Jiang Ji was very satisfied with this situation.
Jing'er touched his face that had been rough and rough, and asked him to apply some grease with her after bathing at night, the man also had to be maintained, Jiang Ji was ten years older than Jing'er, Jing'er was still young and delicate, Jiang Ji looked at Lao Cheng, afraid that after a few years, the couple would go out together, and others would think that they were a father and daughter.
Lianzi came in with a mahogany carved tray, and in the plate was a bowl of black medicinal juice, still steaming, Jiang Ji looked at it and frowned: "What medicine do you take?" But what's wrong? Why do you have problems every time I'm not there, will you serve people? ”
Jiang Ji has always been a calm character, and only in Jing'er's affairs will he make mistakes in a hurry, Jing'er didn't annoy him, let him be a little restless, "It's a medicine to regulate the body, this month's menstrual affairs are a few days late, the imperial doctor prescribes some medicine to eat, women's families always have these problems, don't make a fuss." ”
"Isn't it conditioned? You've been taking medicine for a year, and it's still not all right? ”
Jing'er from that time after the loss of the child after the vitality of the injury, at the beginning of the lochia is not stopped, after two or three months did not see the red letter, how much bitter juice to drink, and then finally came, but it hurt her to roll in bed, and then for a whole year, Jing'er did not leave the medicine, until the beginning of last autumn was considered normal, then the medicine was stopped, but the food in the vegetarian day was also some warm and nourishing, but the medicine was changed to food supplement. The so-called normal, but the menstrual affairs come and go normally, those days of the month are still unbearable, it is the root of the disease that has fallen, Jing'er never knew what the palace pain is before, Sister Ting and Ayu They all envy her tightness, saying that she is really blessed.
Jing'er said: "This is a problem that has plagued women for most of their lives, where is there a way to solve it, but I have to grieve you for a while, the doctor said that before I come back to Kwai Shui, we can't have sex together." ”
"Huh?"
Jiang Ji is depressed, how can there be such a problem, Jing'er can't be pregnant, but she still has to suffer from this menstrual affair, he used to take this matter to ask the doctor, since she can't be pregnant, she may take menopausal medicine, and end this trouble? Taiyi Tao can't, women's menstruation is not only to give birth to children, but also has the effect of blood exchange and detoxification, is to women live longer than men, this monthly red letter is a great benefit, if a woman is menopause, blood and qi are not smooth, it will age quickly, how many elderly women regulate their bodies is to prolong the letter period, the son of the world is not good at this idea.
Jiang Ji had a long memory, and he didn't dare to mention it again, but now he saw that Jing'er was taking medicine again, but he felt more sorry for her, and asked her if she was bitter, do you want him to feed her? Jing'er smiled at him, "Won't it be bitter if you feed me?" ”
Jiang Ji hooked the corners of his lips, his heart was sweet when he fed her, and his mouth was not so bitter.
After taking the medicine, Jing'er wants to send the gift to Yancheng prepared by the current person, Lin Changyu is pregnant, she received a letter from home a year ago, and it is estimated that the time will be born, and the child will be born in June and July, how can she, who is an aunt, not be deciless.
Jiang Ji told her not to have to worry about it, "They didn't tell you personally, they sent the message back to Beijing, and my mother will prepare these." ”
Since they only wrote a letter to their parents at home, they asked their parents to prepare that Quanzhou and Yancheng are one south and one north, and communication is inconvenient, and it is even more inconvenient to send things.
Jing'er knew that he had an opinion on his younger brother and sister-in-law, so she took his hand and said: "You may not know your brother and sister-in-law, but I know the two of them very well, they may just be afraid of arousing my sadness, so it is not good to tell me specifically. ”
After Jiang Jun and Lin Changyu went to Yancheng, none of them wrote to them, all the letters were sent to Beijing, and they would read a word of good luck in the letter, and the letters in Beijing would also mention their recent situation, Lin Changyu's pregnancy was mentioned in the family letter written by Mrs. Wang years ago, and they knew that as uncles and aunts, they had to give the newborn a meeting gift.
Jiang Ji looked at Jing'er's sincere gaze and sighed, "You don't have to expect too much from them, the childhood friendship may not be eternal, now you are two families, you ...... Think more about yourself, and I'm there for you. ”
In recent years, he has become more and more dissatisfied with that younger brother, since Jiang Jun insisted on going to Yancheng in order to say goodbye to him, he was angry in his heart, they are such a family, the eldest son is working hard outside to consolidate the family's meritorious honor, and the other sons are filial to the old man and take care of mundane things is a tacit rule, there are only two brothers in their room, Jiang Jun was spoiled by his mother and grandmother since he was a child, and enjoyed the happy treatment of his younger son, but when he was older, he didn't want to bear the obligation of the younger son's filial piety to his parents, how did his mother take care of him, When he was older, he tried his best to keep him by his side, but he insisted on leaving.
Don't say anything about filial piety is a matter for the brothers, Jiang Jun also has the right to pursue his own career, Jiang Ji also has the obligation to be filial to his parents, the two of them were born with different missions, he was taken by his father and grandfather to polish in the military camp since he was a child, since he can remember, there are only grandfathers and fathers serious faces, in the arms of his mother and grandmother is never coquettish, he understands his future responsibilities, he has done over the years and can fully bear the burden of the heir of the public mansion, his filial piety is to open up the territory and make contributions to maintain the glory of the family, Let the Guogong Mansion be admired in Beijing, and let the family members in the palace go out with light on their faces, and he has done his best about these filial piety.
And Jiang Jun, he enjoyed the pampering of his family when he was young, but when he was older, he wanted to compete for the merits that the heir of the family could earn, how could there be such a good thing in this world, he knew that Jiang Jun had great ambitions and was unwilling to succumb to the back house, but he enjoyed some things when he was young, and he would lose some things when he grew up, and his unwillingness should not let others pay for him.
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