"It's not easy for a woman to live with a child......"

Empress Eldest Sun persuaded that she had always wanted to stop Li Chengqian's pursuit of Fan Jingjing. But she knew that it was useless to persuade Li Chengqian, and it was best to start with Fan Jingjing, but Fan Jingjing didn't seem to realize that Li Chengqian was interested in her until now.

For the eldest grandson, she thinks that the crown princess should be pure, after all, she must be the mother of the world in the future.

Although Fan Jingjing lost her purity, it was not that she did anything wrong, but a misunderstanding.

And she was also worried that because of Niu Shijin's matter, the Niu family had a disagreement with the royal family. The Niu family is loyal to the royal family.

Empress Changsun doesn't want to create a rift in the middle, although the queen doesn't have to be in charge of the world's major affairs, but she must pay attention to these mother-in-law affairs.

What's more, this matter involves Li Chengqian. However, he also didn't want Li Chengqian to be lost and abandoned in the process.

Being a mother is very difficult at this time.

In terms of love life, Fan Jingjing is more Ma Daha, she doesn't understand what love is, and she doesn't understand what love is, because most of the time, she is more self-reliant and self-reliant.

This kind of self-reliance and self-improvement does not mean that she can do everything well, often her best friends often need to help him clean up the aftermath, she has very great achievements in academics, she can speak the head in front of her mentor, and when she studies in the laboratory, she can also make achievements, but in terms of life, she is a little brain-dead and mentally retarded.

In addition to the excellent research on recipes, the others can only be said to be ordinary or even unpopular.

The study of recipes is that she really likes to eat delicious food, and fantasizes that one day, she will be able to make delicious food.

However, Fan Jingjing has very little idea of relying on the opposite sex, and even instructs them to take the bag very rarely, for him, the bag has to be taken by himself.

Who knows if these men will steal his bag and do something bad.

Even the admiring eyes of boys often make him feel very annoying.

For her, the eyes of these men are full of all kinds of desires, which in her eyes are a desire to conquer.

For this naked desire, Fan Jingjing had no way to make any response, she just wanted to kick them to death.

But in the real world, if you kick a man to death, you still have to bear legal responsibility.

What's more, although she has learned women's self-defense, her kung fu is still not up to standard.

But Li Chengqian is different from others, he has no desire to conquer in his eyes, and in his opinion, all people have no need to conquer, because all people will be people under his feet in the future.

His desires were only for the intellectual aspect.

In the face of Fan Jingjing, on the one hand, he respected, but on the other hand, he treated him with the greatest gentleness.

What's more, he is still young, Fan Jingjing completely turned her eyes into admiration. After all, how many guys would like an old woman?

As the crown prince, Li Chengqian does not need a female junior to hold gold bricks at all, he himself is the biggest gold brick.

So Fan Jingjing really didn't think much about Li Chengqian, as for Niu Shijin, as a son of a noble family. As long as his mother agreed, he could find as many different women as he could. For his wife, his needs are different from those of his body.

He doesn't need to be like a poor dick at all, his eyes open wide when he sees a beautiful woman, revealing a look of desire.

There are too many beauties who want to serve him, and he can't pick many of them.

So it doesn't have a special desire for things that can be easily obtained.

Originally, men would not have much desire for the women she had already enjoyed, but Fan Jingjing's ignorance of him aroused his ambition.

However, Niu Shijin is not a man who will pursue, he is not a playboy, he is more suitable for fighting on the battlefield.

For the woman he doesn't pay much attention to, he doesn't know how to behave, so that the woman feels that he is very important.

So looking at Fan Jingjing's eyes, there was a little grievance, not exactly conquest.

"Queen Mother, if you are asked to take your children to beg for a living outside, do you think you can't do it?"

Fan Jingjing means that Empress Changsun is also an excellent woman, if she doesn't help Li Shimin take care of the harem in Taiji Palace and put her outside, she must also be a strong woman.

Although Fan Jingjing thinks that she is not a strong woman, the Fan family manor is also good, although eating and drinking cannot be very luxurious, but it will not be lacking.

Fan Jingjing lives better than most people in Datang, and even has many men under her.

She also saw that although there were many men in the Fan family's manor, and they could do a good job of hard work, the power in the manor was slowly in the hands of women.

If it weren't for the top manager being Sun Erlang, the Fan family manor would almost become a woman's world.

When Liang Shu returned to the Fan family manor, he didn't dare to go inside, he only dared to be outside. Otherwise, if he was caught by the woman of the Fan family's manor, his energy would be drained.

They don't think the same as Fan Jingjing, they just want to pick a good man to have a strong baby, but as for whether men can stay with them in the future, and whether they can be their husbands obediently, they don't care.

Because they feel that they live in the Fan family manor and do not need to rely on men, in this case, they feel that Liang Shu's genes are good, so there are very many women who want Liang Shu's genes.

They have long seen through men, most men can be good lovers, but they may not be good husbands.

But if your son and daughter are well raised, you don't have to worry about it when you retire in the future, and there is no one to support you when you can't move.

What's more, the number of men in the Fan family's manor is really small, and most of them are women.

They didn't want to go to the men outside the Fan family's manor. In just a few months, the minds of the women of the Fan family manor have changed a lot, and more of an atmosphere of self-reliance and self-improvement is influencing them.

People influence each other.

Fan Jingjing has a subtle influence on the women of the Fan family manor, but the strong life attitude of the women of the Fan family manor has no impact on Fan Jingjing?

From the mouth of the woman in Datang, Fan Jingjing finally realized that Datang is a world full of violence, and this violent world is not only the struggle between the Turks and the Tang people, but also in the relationship between families and neighbors.

Women living in Datang do need protection, and in most cases, women can only seek the protection of the men around them.

But after the Fan family manor took the initiative to provide protection, they quickly realized that the protection of the Fan family manor was more effective than the protection of men, and the protection of the Fan family manor also brought them money.

Most of the time, money can guarantee a better survival, and in the Fan family manor, the existence of the point card allows them to live a life that they could not imagine before.

They are more worried that the addition of men will change their current lifestyle.

So they would rather find a lover than a husband.

Some people have some physical needs, some people don't have such needs, and with a safe living environment, they can live well.

They finally realized that when women come together, they can also form the conditions for protection.

Fan Jingjing pays close attention to the women in the Fan family's manor, and she knows what everyone thinks.

Without the protection of her parents and relatives, she is also a member of the very need for a sense of security, after being reminded by the woman of the Fan family manor, she also agrees that the more people there are, the greater the strength, not to mention, the training of women's force, she has been doing it like men.

Perhaps because they have been oppressed for a long time, these women are particularly self-reliant.

Many excellent women in the manor have collectively compared men to men.

Liang Shu and a few people, after all, cannot represent the male group, not to mention that under the initiative of women, Liang Shu and they can often only run away, they don't want to be breeding cattle.

Fan's manor gradually raised strong women, these women and businessmen when doing business, but they are meticulous and cunning, if it weren't for Fan Jingjing's requirement that they be honest in business, maybe many good people who come to Fan's manor to talk about business will be swallowed by women.

Empress Eldest Sun was gagged by Fan Jingjing at this moment. If there is no Li Shimin, Empress Changsun will not lose her support, but will be more able to give full play to her talents.

If there is any disadvantage of Queen Changchun, it is the weakness of her body after giving birth to children one after another.

Although the Tang royal family can enjoy the most luxurious top food of this era.

But what the royal diet is not scientific.

In fact, there is no scientific idea in their minds.

Traditional Chinese medicine will still regulate people's bodies to some extent, but not everyone is a good doctor.

What's more, Empress Changsun followed Li Shimin in the days of struggle, and there were often times when there was a lack of nutrition.

The lack of nutrition and physical suffering have left indelible scars on the body of Empress Changsun.

In this era, even if it is a long life, it is rare to live for seventy years.

Datang is popular with the rule of thumb, which can be mastered year by year to make the life longer, but this original rule of thumb has a deceptive concept from time to time.

"I don't want to get married, and I say so much, it's all reasons and excuses. Datang women can have the pressure of having children, after all, only women can give birth to children, and our lobby is very short of population. ”

"From the perspective of the imperial court, a woman is actually the task of an object, that is, to constantly give birth to children and take care of them as they grow up.

But you and I are both wise women, do you think that if women are just machines for giving birth, then women are still people? ”

Fan Jingjing felt that she was really not suitable for the ancients' idea of treating women as child-giving machines, and even women felt that women should work hard to give birth to children and continue the next generation, after the child was born, there were too many opportunities for him to die, and continuation was the main task of every family.

Most women need to rely on men, so the ideas of the ancients can be carried out smoothly, but Fan Jingjing herself is not ready to rely on men.

There is a child, as long as he finds a way to pay attention to his hygiene, so that he can grow up safely. It's already good to be able to support him in the old age, at most he is trying to find a man to have a few children.

There is no IVF in this era, which is the most distressing thing for Fan Jingjing.

Even with Niu Shijin, she tasted a little sweetness, but Fan Jingjing didn't want to lose her dignity as a woman for this sweetness.

As for whether she has any feelings for Niu Shijin. Rationally, she felt that after coming to Datang, Niu Shijin was an important figure to her, more important than anyone else.

After all, it is the father of the child in her womb, although she doesn't want to marry Niu Shijin, enjoy the bondage of the big family, and admit that Niu Shijin has the right to marry a lot of wives and concubines, but she has to let the father of the child in her belly admit the existence of her child.

Otherwise, when the child grows up and asks him where his father is, she won't be able to explain.

She didn't have any thoughts about the Niu family's industry, she just wanted to make more money on her own in the future and give her children a whole family belongings.

Everything about the Niu family is too closely related to the royal family, but this kind of family that relies on others to rise will have ups and downs in the future.

Mrs. Niu is already trying to take other paths, but Fan Jingjing doesn't know if Niu Jinda will come back, and all Mrs. Niu's efforts will be like falling flowers and flowing water, and they will never return.

However, Fan Jingjing knows the situation of the Niu family step by step, and the Niu family is a rare monogamous noble family. But in order to support the demand for branches, Mrs. Niu has been working hard in the past few years.

Other families are scattered, as long as they let their wives and concubines have a few more, on average, a person does not need to have too many children.

The difference between the noble family and ordinary families is that their mortality rate is much lower, so they do not need to have a dozen children to a poor family.

Poor families can raise a dozen children, often only one or two children, if more children can grow, then they are considered lucky.

The inverted thing is that all the children in the family can't be raised.

Who said that women don't bully women, when a daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law, she will force her daughter-in-law to find a way to give birth to a boy.

Or when the daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law, she will sprinkle the anger she received as a daughter-in-law on her daughter-in-law.

Empress Changsun is a smart woman, and she naturally knows how cruel it is to let girls fall into the predicament of childbirth, but from the perspective of the entire imperial court, it is necessary to have children to increase the population of the imperial court, that is, to increase taxes, and now the population of the Tang Dynasty is really too small, and every time the successive dynasties go through a major war, the population will decrease once.

The Tang Dynasty experienced hundreds of years of fighting between the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties. Even if the Sui Dynasty was unified, there were no years of peace.

The population at the beginning was even smaller than at the beginning of the Han Dynasty.

At present, the main tax revenue of the imperial court is agricultural tax. The only way to increase taxes is to increase the number of people who pay taxes.

After giving birth to a child for more than ten years, you can become a new tax payer.

The Tang Dynasty court will not take into account the disadvantages of women being too young to have children, after all, they do not have a correct understanding of such shortcomings, but Fan Jingjing comes from the descendants since they know the most suitable age for women to have children.