Chapter 614: It's All in the Eyes
When Fan Jingjing returned to the hospitality place to deal with things, the children were all hugged and followed, because Fan Jingjing felt that no matter what she was dealing with, she should let the children see it, increase their knowledge, and let them know whether their mother made a mistake or did something right.
If she makes a mistake, she doesn't want her child to dare to correct herself, if there are any problems that can be raised, she and the child can think together, her child is very smart, she already knows that the child's brain development, as well as the development of body motor nerves, are faster than the average person, so she really can't treat her child the same as in memory.
What was she doing before she was a year old? She has no memory at all.
But the four children seem to know that their mother should not interject when she is dealing with business, because once the four of them interject, the whole situation will become uncontrollable.
Fan Jingjing must not want them to interject, but they looked at their mother with their eyes wide open, thinking about whether their mother's way of doing things was correct, and then after the matter was done, Fan Jingjing asked Fan Jingjing when she was alone with them.
"Mother, was that man sent by my father? Why didn't his mother want to see him? And the people sent by my father are so annoying! Is this our family? ”
"You haven't seen your father since you were born and grown up, you must miss it a lot, right?" Fan Jingjing asked a little sympathetically.
"Actually, we don't have a concept of father, what is his meaning? Mother had never introduced us to us before. ”
In fact, the child's longing for his father does not start from birth, but the people next to him continue to instill the concept of father, and finally when the child enters school, or has a comparison with children of the same age, he finds that others will have parents under normal circumstances, and if he is lacking, he will ask his father or mother for this part of the lack.
This part of the lack is likely to be a trauma for the father or mother, and the only way to hide the hurt can be found.
Explanation, it may be good, it may just want to free yourself from the sorrow of pain.
But for a child, having a different environment from others, lack is actually a very painful thing, and his heart will not help but pursue it.
But from birth to adulthood, these four children could only hear the admiration of their mother from the people around them, but they did not hear their father's name.
In their cognition, the father seems to have no need, because if they have any needs, tell the big sister who takes care of them next to them, or tell the mother, they can meet it, especially the mother can meet a lot of things, especially to go out, without the mother's consent, the big sister almost dare not take them out.
They also know that their mother helped them fight for different equipment than others.
The big sister next to her said that there were only four of them in this equipment, and there were others who didn't have it at all.
With equipment, you can not be disturbed by mosquitoes and flies, and other people living outside the Fan family manor are almost all disturbed by the mosquito and fly civilization, and there are occasionally some mosquitoes and flies in the Fan family manor.
"Don't you have a father in your head?"
Fan Jingjing was very surprised, in her impression, the concept of parents seemed to appear in the eyes of almost all children from her impression.
Open your mouth to speak, the first one is not to say dad or to say mom, or daddy, anyway, it is particularly easy to pronounce at the beginning of b, and it is also the sound that the mouth is closed and opened, and it is the easiest sound to make, so the first sound that children can pronounce, under the guidance of everyone, becomes these two sounds, as for the father or mother in advance, that is not necessarily a thing.
"Since Mother thinks that we should miss our father, then Father should be an important person, if Mother wants to go to the Fan Family Manor, will she take us with her? Let's go to Niujia Manor to see what's fun, if there is no Fan's Manor, we don't want to go over to play.
And mother, do you want to give one of us to the Niu family manor, in fact, it is very unnecessary, the four of us are not separated. ”
One of the children suddenly said Fan Jingjing's intentions, but Fan Jingjing can't decide on her own in this matter, no matter what the result is, she will not give up her child.
"Kid, you're still too young to fight.
But when you get older, you will start to think about the differences between you and want more benefits.
Mother's everything, almost all of it will be divided for you in the future, if there is no fair share, you will quarrel, and Mom doesn't want you to quarrel. ”
"Mother, it would be nice if you were fair. And then we will earn enough money to eat.
Do you think we're like other kids?
I feel like the four of us have had a feeling of being together since the fetus, even though we all have different personalities and different things to be interested in.
There may only be one of the four of us who will be interested in managing so many troublesome things, and each one will have different interests and directions, and as for one of us working hard to support the others, it is not a big deal.
Others can also go to various places to start a business, and then come back to give back to their original little family.
As for if we have a husband and wife in the future, there will be no other changes, because we will definitely be the strongest one, and the person who wants us to be small and obedient does not exist yet. ”
The girl said domineering words.
"Child, you are still young, don't be domineering now, although I also think that unless you are a royal child, no one can oppress you."
"The royal big brothers and sisters won't oppress us, and if a little brother or sister is born, they'll just run behind our butts, and we won't let them climb on top of us."
"This is a very dangerous idea, be careful that the walls have ears and are listened to by others, and cause trouble for your future."
Fan Jingjing felt that when the royal children grew up, they would not be so simple.
"We feel that as long as the eldest brother continues to be obsessed with his mother, this trouble does not exist, because they should be very good to us, and we are also the noble descendants of the Tang Dynasty, the mother has only one title, we can also fight for three more titles, and the mother can also have a title if she is a woman, and we will not be bad. Although we don't think knighthoods help much. ”
The children are very confident in their future, and they feel that with the help of four people helping each other, they will step on the others.
Of course, their mother's interests may be interested in learning, and maybe they can also create brilliance for Datang, because they can see that their mother cares very much about the brilliance of Datang, and they also hope that Datang can be more brilliant, so that he can proudly face the Turks.