Chapter 281: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony and it is difficult to live in the same house Jiang Ji coaxed his wife to be reasonable

The big ones don't help, and the small ones don't help, Jiang Chenxi ran to her grandmother and hugged her waist, saying that she wouldn't go to the county lord's mansion to live, Jiang Dingnan also protected her sister: "Chenxi is the Jiang family, of course she lives in the Jiang family, how can she live in the county lord's mansion!" ”

Mrs. Wang sighed with satisfaction, it was still this pair of grandsons who were well-behaved, and they didn't hurt them in vain.

Jing'er stared at Jiang Dingnan with sharp eyes: "Your father is also the Jiang family, and he is also the next head of the Jiang family, and he also lives in the county lord's mansion." ”

After all, she is still a child, and it is easy to say the wrong thing in a hurry, and she was caught by Jing'er, an adult, and scolded her shamelessly, how can an adult be as knowledgeable as a child.

Zhen Guogong interrupted the farce, "I can't eat breakfast!" Dawn can live wherever you like, what are you fighting for, if you like children like this, you can give birth to a few of your own children, whatever you want to raise. ”

The head of the family spoke, several women and children stopped, Jing'er smiled coldly, this is the sadness of marrying, to a strange family, that family has excluded you, if you work hard and complain, if you dare to stand on the opposite side of them, their family stands on a front to crusade against you, even she, as the county lord, can hardly parry such a same breath.

Just when she was full of sadness, but her hand was warm, she looked down, and there was a broad hand that grasped her, and looked up along this hand, its owner was looking at her with a warm gaze, smiled at her, squeezed her palm, and signaled her to relax.

Jiang Ji's move made Jing'er's heart warm, and at the same time, Mrs. Wang scolded her eldest son for marrying her daughter-in-law and forgetting her mother. Jiang Ji didn't think so, his mother was protected by his father, and of course his daughter-in-law had to be protected by him.

At breakfast, men and women sat separately, men sat at one table, women sat at one table, and the new daughter-in-law originally had to set up rules to serve the elders and take care of the juniors, but looking at Jing'er's attitude, Mrs. Wang didn't plan to eat her meal, for fear of choking.

Jing'er sat on the chair next to Mrs. Wang, Jiang Chenxi sat on the other side of Mrs. Wang, and the other rooms brought their daughters-in-law, but they all stood to serve her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

Jing'er really sat down, it was their business that the few concubines in the next room were willing to serve their mother-in-law, and it was impossible for her to serve Mrs. Wang, she had never even served the queen and the queen mother, and she was not afraid of choking when she served Mrs. Wang.

After breakfast, Jiang Ji should have taken Jing'er to visit the uncles and relatives, let the bride recognize the door, and by the way, let the most famous old man in the clan open an ancestral hall for them, take the new daughter-in-law to the ancestral hall to worship the ancestors, and wait until the year before the sacrifice, and then open the family tree and add the name of the new daughter-in-law.

Jiang Ji took care of Jing'er's body and felt uncomfortable, so he said that he would visit in the afternoon, rest in the house in the morning, and take her back to the county lord's mansion after breakfast.

Jing'er was really uncomfortable, but she couldn't spill her anger on Jiang Ji, she was uncomfortable and suffocated, and as soon as she returned to the house, she crooked on the couch and closed her eyes to recuperate.

Jiang Ji asked her to sit down, and he was going to squeeze in, Jing'er frowned: "This couch is small, and it can't fit two people." ”

Jiang Ji said: "Then let's change to a big couch, or go to the bed to lie down, the place is big." ”

"What is the system of lying in bed in the middle of the day? Lie down by yourself. ”

Jing'er tilted her head to the side, leaving the back of her head to face him, but Jiang Ji squeezed up without skin and face, and almost squeezed Jing'er down, he scooped her over with one hand and hugged her.

"Don't be angry, okay? I will knock Dingnan and don't let him be unkind to you anymore, just forget it if Chenxi doesn't want to get close to you, just like my father said, let's have a few children in the future, and you can kiss as much as you want. ”

Jing'er asked him, "Then if I ignore them, will you think that I am not responsible?" ”

Jiang Ji hesitated, how could Jing'er not care about it, in the future, Dingnan would marry a wife, and Chenxi would marry, she would have to take care of it, Mrs. Wang was already old at that time, how could these things bother her, but this is not very fair to Jing'er, they didn't listen to her when they were young, they didn't get close to her, they knew to come to her when they were in trouble, and they didn't give birth to her or raise her, where did she come to serve them so much.

"I have long known that it is difficult to be a stepmother, but I don't want to marry someone else, your family is on the same front to resist me, I only have you, can you take care of me more?"

Jing'er hugged Jiang Ji's neck and buried her head in his chest and cried, Jiang Ji is a very heroic and macho person, and he can't stand such a weak quality and pity the most, so he hugged her tightly and patted and coaxed: "Of course I take care of you, if you can't get along, you will have less contact in the future, I will say to my mother, you don't have to detain you to ask for peace every day, you live in two mansions, and the county lord's mansion buys separately, everything is just the middle feed of the Guogong Mansion, there should be a lot less contradictions, isn't it?" ”

Speaking from the heart, Jiang Ji is a very enlightened person, he understands Jing'er's pride and grievances, she suffered a big grievance yesterday, and endured it taking care of the overall situation at that time, how can she not have a seizure today, she is just taking advantage of her tongue, and has never actually hurt anyone's interests, but her mother is used to being proud and can't accept her daughter-in-law against her will. In this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law game, he is on Jing'er's side, after all, his family was hostile to Jing'er from the beginning, and Jing'er just didn't want to use her own hot face to stick to her family's cold ass anymore, there was nothing wrong with that.

Jing'er grabbed the fabric at his collar and asked him, "My family and I live in two separate houses, so where do you live?" Today, your son said that the Jiang family should live in the Jiang family, how could he live in the county lord's mansion, it can be seen that he doesn't regard me as the Jiang family, what about you, do you think the same way as him? ”

"Why, his little child is just open-mouthed, you are my wife, husband and wife, of course you want to live together, you like to live in the county lord's mansion, I will accompany you to live in the county lord's mansion, it doesn't mean that I live in the county lord's mansion means that I ignore them, I am still their son and father, I will accompany them every day, have dinner with them, if you don't want to go, you won't go, I will still come back at night to accompany you."

This is really the best way to solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since they hate each other, what to do and meet, he doesn't feel that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must get along in harmony like mother and daughter, mother is his mother, is the person he wants to be filial, he can't ask his wife to treat his mother as his own mother, wife is his wife, is the person he wants to love, he can't ask his mother to treat his wife as a daughter, these two women rarely get along before, now because he has become a family, it is natural to get along well, can't it also be commonplace, where is there so much warmth between strangers, Jing'er and the queen have been together for so many years, and their relationship is not as close as that of mother and daughter.

Therefore, he will be filial to his mother, and he will love his wife, and these two women will stand by his two hands, and it is best not to offend each other.

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