Sister Ting's family came in a hurry, Jing'er naturally left them for dinner, they used to have such an amiable relationship, they didn't have to hand over the post in advance, they came to the door, if the other party was not at home, they were not annoyed, except for the New Year's Festival, the two of them walked around and was not a serious guest, that is, the neighbors visited the door, of course, the house of both of them was too big, said to be a neighborhood, and it took two quarters of an hour to walk.

At the dinner table, the two families laughed and smiled, looking at the relationship as before, after dinner, Sister Ting's family went to the upper courtyard to ask for peace to the two old people, Jiang Ji led them together, Jing'er's mother and daughter also followed, Brother Ye also followed to join in the fun, he often came to Jiang's house to live, every time he had to go to the courtyard to ask for peace, if he wanted to live today, he had to go to the old man to say goodbye.

Jiang Dingnan and his wife went to the courtyard every day to accompany the old man to eat, when a large group of them went, the couple did not retreat, they each saw a salute, the old lady likes to be so lively, greeting Sister Ting's parents: "Your family is here, leave your parents at home to have a cold pot and a cold stove, I knew you were coming, let the county lord set up a few tables in the house, let's eat together." ”

Sister Ting said with a smile: "I want to come temporarily, the road is not easy to walk in the evening, my father and mother are afraid of the cold and bumps, so I didn't come, we also heard that the morning sun is a little uncomfortable during the day, but let's take a look." ”

The old lady looked at the rising sun and asked her, "Where is it uncomfortable?" Now it's said that it's early spring, or cold, wear more. ”

Chaoyang nodded, "What I know is that I was a little uncomfortable at the time, so I went home and took medicine and slept well." ”

The old lady didn't care about her anymore, and heard that today was Sister Mao's birthday, so she asked someone to bring something to her, and praised Sister Ting: "The girls in your family are getting older and better, and they often come to greet me when they go to school in our house, but I am old and can't remember the age of these children." ”

The brothers and sisters of the Lijun Wangfu are quite famous in Beijing, and the old lady is worried about having two grandchildren, so she thinks a little, but in a blink of an eye, she caught a glimpse of Zhilan Yushu's Lian Ge'er, this kid has already been set by Chaoyang, and he will be her grandson-in-law in the future, and Sister Mao can't be her granddaughter-in-law no matter how good she is.

Sister Mao took the things given by the old lady, thanked her obediently and sat aside without speaking, and Sister Ting also cared for Su Shi a few words: "Grandma is pregnant?" The first child is the most important, and he loves to toss people, can it be a bad omen? ”

Su Shi smiled and said, "They all say that my child is well-behaved and knows how to understand his mother." ”

Sister Ting smiled, saying that it was easy to be pregnant with a girl, and it was a crime to be pregnant with a boy, and the eyes of the old lady of the Jiang family looking forward to her grandson were red, and she didn't dare to say any more.

"It's good to know how to feel sorry for your mother, it's not easy for a mother to conceive a baby in October, and you have to be more filial to your children."

Sister Ting's family sat in the upper courtyard for a while, afraid of disturbing the old man's rest, and did not dare to stay for a long time, it was still cold at night, their family came by car, and they couldn't freeze, the old lady asked them to send them out, just a few steps, and they didn't have to let people send them to their homes, and they went back to their homes to sleep peacefully.

After sending this family, Brother Ye was about to go to the front yard to sleep, Chaoyang said goodbye to him, and wanted to go back to his own house, but was stopped by his mother and went to the main courtyard to talk.

Jiang Ji will get up early tomorrow and go to the clean room to wash up first, the girl is older, and many things must be guided by her mother, so he should avoid it appropriately.

"What's going on with you today? Sister Mao also provoked you? ”

In the morning, Chaoyang dressed up and went out, Jing'er also sighed that her daughter had finally grown up and knew that she loved beauty, but she came back before lunch, and ate in her own house.

Chaoyang sat cross-legged on the Luohan bed and sighed, what did she say about this.

"I don't want to go to their house anymore, I feel like their family doesn't mean anything to me!"

Jing'er smiled, "You only know now?" In this world, apart from your father, mother, and uncle, who else can be sincere to you? What do you mean by sincerity? Do you share the hardships with your heart? You have never been sad, naturally you can't see this kind of sincerity, but I can tell you that except for me and your father, there is no one else who will do anything to save you when you are in trouble, and your uncle will not either, he is separated from you by a layer after all, and he still has his own children to take care of, as for other people, they can share the joys and sorrows, and it will be difficult to share the joys and sorrows. ”

Chaoyang shook his head irritably, and said: "But now I don't want to be willing with them even if I am willing to be with them, Xinru they are my friends, and I don't want to test them with any hardship and true feelings, when the time comes, maybe I will also protect my life, but in today's peaceful days, I think I am worthy of each of them, but why do they ......"

Isn't it good to have fun together? Why do you have to think so much about it?

Jing'er smiled helplessly, "Because your friends have grown up, and you haven't grown up yet, they have begun to think about interests, and you are still only thinking about having fun, when you were a child, you played a game together, ate a plate of snacks together, can make everyone very happy, but now, this kind of little thing can no longer make them happy, when they are not satisfied with the happiness you bring,

They will be dissatisfied with you, they feel that you can bring them more benefits, but you don't understand it, or you don't do it, and they will leave you to find a partner who is better for them. ”

Chaoyang frowned and listened for a long time, and finally came to a conclusion: "You mean that they use me as a springboard!" ”

"It's not okay, it's just that adults get along with less true feelings and more interests, when they can't get benefits from you, they will leave you and choose another branch, and you feel uncomfortable now, that is, you are accepting this process of growth."

Chaoyang was very irritable, why would there be so many troubles when she grew up, she thought of when she was a child, she always pestered her mother to ask her when she would grow up, did she grow up at the age of ten? Is fifteen years old considered to be an adult? Mother said that when you don't want to grow up, you have grown up, and now she finally has this awareness, that is, she has grown up.

"So, will I grow up without friends? Then I don't have a sibling of the same mother, who will I play with in the future, if Xinru and them are also like Sister Mao, then I won't be alone? ”

If her mother is accompanied by her father and taken care of by her uncle, she will not be lonely, but she has no brothers and sisters, and she may not be able to find a husband who has the same heart in the future.

Jing'er asked her to relax, "As long as you are willing to integrate into them, you will not have no friends, this is why I let you learn to socialize, this day everyone has to master the skills, you grow up and you can't just care about eating, drinking and having fun like when you were a child, you can't talk but your brain, you have to think about what people say, and then think about what you should say, only in this way will you have friends around you." ”

"Huh? It's too tiring, haven't you taught me since I was a child, my status is precious, only others hold me, don't I have to put down my body? Why do you want me to stoop down to accommodate them now? ”

Jing'er pursed her lips and sighed, they protected Chaoyang so well, they really didn't understand the world at all.

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