Chapter 528: Discussion
After listening to Qian's words, the third old lady of the Cheng family was happy and sighed: "The people of the Gu family are reasonable, and they have much more rules and demeanor than the family back then.
Sure enough, when the women of the family get married, they can marry into a family with a background, which is somewhat beneficial, and the parties of that family, they always have a layer of rules and care. ”
The Qian family was silent, Cheng Kejia was about the best married among the daughters of this generation, and the Gu family was a martial arts family with a background.
The third old lady of the Cheng family took a look at the Qian family's expression, she somewhat understood the eldest daughter-in-law's thoughts, she comforted and said: "Ling'er's life has already passed, you have to believe in Ling'er, she can live a better life." ”
Qian sighed lightly: "Mother, since Ling'er got married, I haven't seen her relaxed for a few days, even after she became pregnant and gave birth, she never stopped. ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family looked at the Qian family and shook her head and said: "We never thought that Ling'er was such a responsible child back then, if we had known this, we would have given more consideration to this family affair back then."
But this is already the case, then we can only think about the best, now Jia'er is living at home so leisurely, and when Ling'er returns home, you will also quietly talk to her.
She and Jia'er have been close since childhood, and when she sees Jia'er's relaxed posture now, she may be able to think clearly, women can't be too tired of their bodies at any time. ”
Qian lowered her head slightly, if she hadn't wanted to grasp everything back then, she wouldn't have carelessly calculated for a concubine.
The third old lady of the Cheng family looked at the Qian family and lowered her head slightly, she sighed lightly in her heart, some knots, no matter how much others say, it is not as good as her accidental realization.
The third old lady of the Cheng family didn't understand the fundamental reason for the separation of the eldest son and his wife, but something had happened, and she could only pretend to be deaf and dumb as if she didn't know.
The three old ladies of the Cheng family compare their hearts to their hearts, her mind towards the Qian family has never changed, and she is relatively speaking, she is more considerate of the Qian family.
After all, it has reached such a point, and the Qian family did not give any heavy hands to the concubine in the end, but arranged people for Cheng Ende.
Why is the Qian family willing to marry Cheng Keling into the eldest son of a petty official's family? That's the best long-term plan she can do for her daughter.
Qian listened to the reminder of the third old lady of the Cheng family, she took the wrong path, she would not let Cheng Keling go again, and the housekeeper's affairs were not as good as her daughter's lifelong happiness.
Qian looked at the third old lady of the Cheng family with a smile and said, "Mother, Ling'er is back, she comes to talk to her mother more often, listen to your guidance, she will definitely be able to understand as soon as possible."
Alas, I regret it now, when she was at home that day, I should have advised her to be less playful, to come to Qingzheng Garden often, and to listen more to your mother. In that way, after she marries into her husband's family, she will not let us be so concerned about the elders. ”
The third old lady of the Cheng family smiled at Qian and shook her head and said: "Ling'er, this child has always been smart, she has never suffered hardships, even if I talk to her a lot, her heart can't wake up to that level."
Now that the time has come, whether you tell her or she comes to listen to me, she will understand in her heart whether she wants to improve the housekeeper's affairs in the future. ”
The three old ladies of the Cheng family and the Qian family both understand that their own women have the most sense of responsibility in terms of housekeeping rights, and as for that desire for power, they really don't have any thoughts.
In the soil like the Cheng family, in terms of cultivating concubines, there is still no ostentatious overlord flower. As for those concubines, the natural pattern is small, and in terms of marriage, they naturally can't hold the handle of the right to the husband's house.
Since the Qian family married in, she divided some family affairs, and she said to the three old ladies of the Cheng family that after the younger brothers under Cheng Fangfang got married one after another, Kong's identity was not suitable to meddle in the management of her cousin's family affairs.
The third old lady of the Cheng family naturally understands that the Qian family has many branches and branches, and the Qian family is willing to say such a thing in advance, which is because they have already prepared in their hearts.
The third lady of the Cheng family is naturally very satisfied with the eldest grandson's daughter-in-law, and she also understands in her heart that the Qian family and the Kong family are willing to let go, which is a great thing for each of the three rooms.
The third elder lady of the Cheng family agreed with the Qian family's decision, and after the Kong family heard about it, she also breathed a sigh of relief from the bottom of her heart, now the brothers in the third room are close, but that is also the harmony before the younger brothers and sisters have never married in one after another.
After each has its own small family, if they still have to control all the housekeeping affairs of the third room, it will be a little bad, after all, everyone understands that their generation will be divided sooner or later.
Each small family will think more about the future, so if they have to manage a lot of things in the long house, I am afraid that it will be laborious and unpleasant.
Kong is not willing to do such a thing, but she is the granddaughter-in-law of the third room, and anyone can shirk the responsibility, and she can't show it at all.
Qian revealed the news to Kong, and Kong looked at Qian with admiration and said, "Mother is atmospheric, and daughter-in-law naturally listens to mother." ”
Kong didn't expect that Qian was such a clear person, she somewhat understood Qian's dedication to Yan Sanfang over the years, and Qian did a very good job, whether it was Zhang or Zhuo, they respected Qian from the bottom of their hearts.
Kong originally thought that maybe the Qian family was reluctant to let go, after all, the Qian family was willing to let go of some of the family affairs for the Kong family to take care of, that was because Kong was her eldest son and daughter-in-law, and the right to manage the inner house of the third room was still in the hands of the long house.
Qian may not be able to see Kong's reaction, she looked at Kong with a smile and said, "You are the one who is the sister-in-law, after your younger brothers are all married, you should think about casual things." ”
Kong Shi calculated the age of the little uncle, she still smiled and said to Qian: "Mother, there is a mother in charge of the family, I am just doing some small things, I am not tired, but my mother will be tired for a few more years." ”
Qian looked at Kong Shi and shook his head lightly and reminded: "This matter, you know it in your heart, don't say it for the time being, our room is acting like this, and we can't disturb the rules of behavior that affect other rooms." ”
Kong nodded with a smile and said, "Mother, I understand that the younger brothers are not very old, and they are afraid that they have never thought about what will happen after they get married.
I also think that all my younger brothers can be successful, and such a small matter in the family will wait until the younger siblings marry in, and my mother and aunts will discuss and decide to act before acting. ”
Qian is satisfied with Kong's mentality, but she is a passerby, she knows that the person who holds the power in her hands, sometimes she understands it in her heart, but when she lets go, she will still feel uncomfortable for a while.