"Wait, what do you mean, besides my father, there is another person in this world that you can trust unconditionally, me? Where did you leave me? Am I not worthy of your trust?

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Chaoyang came back to his senses after realizing it, and thought that his mother was caught by her, and she should be empty-hearted, and she had to make some delicious compensation, but she didn't want her to pull her ears and say, "Can I still trust you?" There is no truth in my mouth, and you said that I will lift the curtains and take a look at it myself when the sun is out today. ”

Chaoyang roared: "Don't bring this! Don't you love me the most? How can you love someone without trusting her? ”

Jing'er let go of her ears, sat by the window and sighed, and said: "All love coexists with trust, but the love of parents for their children cannot be generalized, I love your father, so I trust him, I also love your uncle, I also trust him, but you are different, I love you very much, but I may not be able to trust you, just as your grandmother worked hard for your aunt, but your aunt has repeatedly chilled her heart, parents' love for their children is always more than the love that children return to their parents, children can fully trust their parents, Parents may not be able to trust their children, they all say that raising children prevents old age, but many people still have nothing to rely on when they raise children! ”

Chaoyang pursed her lips, dissatisfied with her mother's denial of her so much, she retorted: "Then there are also unloving parents, for example, there is an old saying that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather, and there are ......" She lowered her voice, "And my eldest brother, can you say that he is a loving father to An'er?" An'er is still so young, he can't be unfilial, but he was unkind from the beginning, you said that when An'er grows up, can you trust him? ”

Jing'er was choked by her and couldn't say anything, "I'm just talking about the general situation, of course, there are special cases!" ”

Chaoyang hugged her and said: "Then I am also an example, you said that children's love for their parents is always less than their parents' love for their children, so it's not like that, you and your father love me very much, I love you too, I also want to go to the rivers and lakes like the eldest brother, but I can't bear you and my father, the eldest brother is because his father is too cold to him, he doesn't remember that we don't have anything to say, but his grandfather and grandmother have raised him for many years, he said to leave, and he didn't go home for a few years, then he is not filial, not to mention the eldest aunt, my grandmother has lived for her all her life, She is so unfilial, so now she is being punished. I won't learn from them, filial piety is the first, what love and love are, family filial piety is an innate feeling, you don't have to deliberately maintain it to enjoy happiness, if you can't even do the most basic filial piety, how can you get happiness from love. ”

Unfilial people are selfish, how can selfish people get good results in love, this kind of person loves himself the most, the love of men and women is maintained by both sides, if both people love themselves more than each other, together can not last long.

Jing'er was moved by Chaoyang's words to the sour-eyed, Chaoyang has not said such sweet words for many years, when she was a child, she just learned to speak in the past few years, pestering her father and mother every day to say endless words, at every turn is "baby loves daddy, daddy loves baby", many times a day, at that time there was really a little padded jacket consciousness, and then the bigger the more annoying, until now, it has become a ghost, but her opening today, let Jing'er feel that her mouth is still as sweet as ever, but it is easy not to exert force in Su Ri.

"Who taught you these words? Your father or your uncle? ”

"How can they teach me this, I don't need to be taught, isn't this the most basic truth of being a human being? As long as it's a normal person, you know. ”

Jing'er said: "It's not enough to know, you have to do it, we parents don't expect our children to make contributions, peace and joy will be achieved, so even if you don't learn to become a good person in Yogyakarta, I will let you go if you don't hurt the righteousness, you also know that I like gentle and demure girls, you can't be a lady, I often talk to you, but I don't ask you to learn the rules and etiquette, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, after all, your happiness is more important than my preferences, so you have to take care of yourself whenever you go out to play, and you can't take risks when you go out to play, The guards arranged by my mother for you can't leave you, and you have to listen to the persuasion of the people around you, your aunt just didn't listen to the persuasion at the beginning, so she lost a hand, and then it was all messed up, I don't dare to think about this, but you must protect yourself, do you know? ”

Chaoyang patiently listened to his mother finish this pass, they are all clichés, every time she goes out to play, her mother has to read it again, and she will take her aunt as a negative teaching material at every turn, of course she is different from her aunt, her mother is not like her grandmother who dotes on her unconditionally, and her father is not as busy with official duties as her grandfather, she also has uncles and like-minded friends who love her, her life is full of flowers and smooth sailing, she is unhappy for a lifetime can not be said, she will not play a good hand like her aunt.

"I know I know, I have a good life is the best reward for you and my father, I have been implementing this since I was a child, and I live a very fast life every day, although it is not very successful, but my father and mother see that I am happy every day, and I must feel the same way, right?"

Jing'er's smile is gradually lost, how can anyone say that she is greedy for fun and not motivated so fresh and refined that she can't refute it? That's it, no matter how bad it is, it was born from her belly, for the sake of her just saying a sweet word sweet into her heart, let her relax a few days.

As soon as the mother was happy, the day of the rising sun was beautiful, and she changed her way to eat this and that every day, although the mother still said that she had red bumps on her face, and she couldn't look at the face of the fire, but she still brought everything she wanted to eat to her bedside.

"Your Uncle Guo's family is going to Beijing for the New Year, and Brother Yong and they will come to play with you, see how you see people with this face!"

Chaoyang was holding a string of chicken wings to his mouth, and the facial expression of tearing meat was hideous, Jing'er frowned and closed her eyes and couldn't bear to look at it, only to hear Chaoyang ask vaguely: "When are you coming?" Do they have any relatives in Beijing? How to enter Beijing for the Chinese New Year? ”

"Your Uncle Guo's term in Quanzhou has expired, and he wants to go to Beijing to find an errand, and he was discussing with your father a while ago, and he hasn't decided yet, so let's come to Beijing for the New Year first, and then transfer after the year."

Chaoyang doesn't understand these officialdom things, but she just feels that if the Guo family lives in Beijing, she can find the Guo family brothers to play, it's really good, there are two more friends in her team, just to fill in the vacant space after the brothers and sisters leave.

"Then you let your father keep an eye on it, tell me what position you like, and I'll go to my uncle and tell me."

Jing'er took the barbecue in front of her away and made her sober up, "How can these words be said casually, female dependents are not allowed to interfere in politics, I don't mention these things to your uncle, how can you mention it, I can't save you if you make him angry." ”

Chaoyang pouted, "I'll just say this, I know the severity." ”

Even if she is transferred, some people want to enter Beijing, and some people want to be released, such as her eldest brother, doesn't she just go to the border city with one mind? She can see it, the more young people want to go outside, and when they are old, they want to go to Beijing to be raised, Uncle Guo's achievements are considerable, and now he is also old, her father was raised in the military camp a few years ago, Uncle Guo has been going around in the past few years, and it is reasonable for him to want to enter Beijing to settle down in an idle position when he is old.

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